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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:14
Vargv Vargv is offline
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Default Alternative to I Love You...

My girlfriend I have now I really care about, but I wouldn't say that I love her. Saying that I've never been in love so I don't know what it is like. I just wanna make sure I really mean it when I say it.

Which brings me to my point, what can I say becides I love you to get my point across?
 #2 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:15
bassman bassman is offline
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i lessthan three you (i <3 u).

god damn flood control.
 #3 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:18
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Saskatchewan
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There isn't really an alternative word that's set. But just tell her how much you care about her, and how she is special to you. I might skip out on telling her she is special though.
 #4 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:32
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quote:Originally posted by bassman:

i lessthan three you (i <3 u).

god damn flood control.

blahahaha

it's funny because I've said that

in an ironic fashion, most of the time.
 #5 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:36
stab stab is offline
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I Don't Love You?
 #6 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:37
PieGirl PieGirl is offline
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I love... spending time with you

fuck flood control
 #7 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:41
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'I..like you.'

That's what I have to say to my ex-boyfriend now so as to not make things even more fucked up,but inside 'like' is just code for 'love'.
 #8 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:43
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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

'I..like you.'

That's what I have to say to my ex-boyfriend now so as to not make things even more fucked up,but inside 'like' is just code for 'love'.

Why do you disrespect yourself so? Even if you are worthless, does that mean you have to put up with other peoples' insane bullshit if it drags YOU in?
 #9 
Old 2006-10-08, 20:47
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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

'I..like you.'

That's what I have to say to my ex-boyfriend now so as to not make things even more fucked up,but inside 'like' is just code for 'love'.

It's okay yoyobek. I would love you...in every orifice.
 #10 
Old 2006-10-08, 21:03
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quote:Originally posted by Byss:

It's okay yoyobek. I would love you...in every orifice.

Finding them would be your first mission. I reccomend flour.
 #11 
Old 2006-10-08, 21:05
Evil Doom Flask Evil Doom Flask is offline
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Default Re: Alternative to I Love You...

I adore you
 #12 
Old 2006-10-08, 21:22
ShouldTrip ShouldTrip is offline
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"you're so great" "I love spending time with you"
 #13 
Old 2006-10-09, 03:57
geckotail geckotail is offline
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well you could tell her that you really really like her.. as one way or you could tell her that you care about her alot.... but what i know as a girl is that a guy tell me how he feels and explains why you arent saying "i love you" some girls wait for guys to say that



here is how i would say it:

i really really care about you but i just dont want to say i love you caz ive never been in love and i dont want to lead you on to think that i do when yet i dont know... i just really care about you and want to be real to the words i love you
 #14 
Old 2006-10-09, 04:03
Optionryder420 Optionryder420 is offline
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"I want sex"

Try that one out.
 #15 
Old 2006-10-09, 04:17
anarcho-commie anarcho-commie is offline
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"you're...cool."

Used in the event if she says "I love you" to you, and you dont want to say it back.
 #16 
Old 2006-10-09, 04:18
better than you better than you is offline
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Say, "I love U2" even though it is a terribly shitty band, she wont be able to tell the difference.
 #17 
Old 2006-10-09, 10:17
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If you can pull it off "I adore you" is good. "You're facinating to me." is good. "You're amazing. I can't see myself without you. When I'm around you things make sense. You turn the lights on. You're so fucking smart. You make me crazy you're so beautiful."

Read some freaking poetry.

Cheers,

Lost
 #18 
Old 2006-10-09, 10:38
ajardoor ajardoor is offline
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"Love is what I feel about you."
 #19 
Old 2006-10-09, 11:09
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Do you really need to tell her how you feel? Or does she need reassurance?

Express how you feel with your touch. Make her feel like a million dollars when she's with you. Then when you're not with her, just tell her how much you want to be at her side, at that time. If the way you touch her expresses how you feel, wanting to be next to her should be a way of saying you wish you could express your self at that moment.

Blah, I'm sure that came out as jibberish.
 #20 
Old 2006-10-09, 11:17
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Rockford, IL
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If you love someone, let it be shown in spirit, heart, mind, body, and voice. In other words, don't let 'I love you' be empty.
 #21 
Old 2006-10-09, 12:03
UnforgiVen3 UnforgiVen3 is offline
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I love you.......long time!!!

At this point you proceed to jump on her and tickle the hell out of her.
 #22 
Old 2006-10-09, 14:00
Psionicist Psionicist is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Optionryder420:

"I want sex"

Try that one out.

Tactful...
 #23 
Old 2006-10-09, 14:08
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Inland Empire, CA
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Try a really sarcastic "You sure about that?".

Gets them every time. Or something like "Your mother".

C'mon, be creative. Jesus. When I was a youngin' we weren't allowed to say the same thing twice.
 #24 
Old 2006-10-09, 15:25
Grail Grail is offline
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My boyfriend always says "You're amazing" and "I adore you."

Of course if you're really that deeply in.. adoration, that kind of thing really goes without saying...
 #25 
Old 2006-10-09, 15:32
CaSp3R88 CaSp3R88 is offline
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"I love...a good blowjob"

in all seriousness though, you can say

"I heart you" or

"I care about you a lot"

It works pretty well, especially when you don't want to have to say those dirty, disgusting words.

CaspeR
 #26 
Old 2006-10-09, 15:56
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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quote:Originally posted by CaSp3R88:

""I heart you"

*ding*

That got said between my gf and I for a few months, until we both felt comfortable and sure enough to say the L word to each other. It works fine.
 #27 
Old 2006-10-09, 16:00
KAZAKA KAZAKA is offline
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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

'I..like you.'

That's what I have to say to my ex-boyfriend now so as to not make things even more fucked up,but inside 'like' is just code for 'love'.

I would have to say the word "like" is a down-graded version of love. To like someone isnt to love them, it's to want them more then a friend, though less than a lover.

[Kaz]
 #28 
Old 2006-10-09, 19:40
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Get over yourself and say that you love her.

Why stress over semantics, make her feel unloved/unwanted/etc., and settle for love-lite.

Live life damnit.

[This message has been edited by I_Like_Traffic_Lights (edited 10-09-2006).]
 
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