I have a girl I love who is 14 years old. What would her thoughts be if i told her I cried during a scene in Forrest Gump?

so girls, just let me know your thoughts on a 16 yr old male crying during a movie scene.

thanks in advance.

Er, it would indicate that you are in fact human and not a total heartless bastard.

What a question to ask anyway...

to clarify... what would the girl think of me? Would she like me more? like me less? think im too sensitive? think im sweet? think its kinda gay?

please let me know ur exact thoughts, thanks

It really isn't about what you say, besides going over every sentence is bad, bad, bad.

Actually I'm kinda curious as well. I have a tendency to tear up a bit during movies, but I always try my best to hide it so I don't look like some kind of over-sensitive pussy.

Actually I practically cry like everyday...

I feel so emo.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Actually I'm kinda curious as well. I have a tendency to tear up a bit during movies, but I always try my best to hide it so I don't look like some kind of over-sensitive pussy.

Actually I practically cry like everyday...

I feel so emo.

You should watch Dane Cook's HBO special.

And crying doesn't make you a pussy unless you do nothing but whine.

Crying isn't so bad. It's quite sweet. Gives you a chance to say "There there" and give him a bit of a hug.

When it happens all the bloody time, then it just gets annoying. Sorry zooks :P.

Jx

last year i was watching the green mile with a girl, and i cried a little bit. when she seen me, she just smiled and hugged me even closer.

how about you watch a movie with her and cry with her... not jsut tell her you cried.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

You should watch Dane Cook's HBO special.

It's funny that you mentioned that, as I was just talking to someone about Dane Cook like an hour ago. I will definitely check it out.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

And crying doesn't make you a pussy unless you do nothing but whine.

It's not like I'm a negative person, just overly emotional and sensitive. I think I do a pretty good job at hiding it though. Actually, the last time I cried openly was last December when my friend died. Also a few days before that because I was homeless on Christmas. And a few days before that when my ex broke up with me.

That was quite an emotional month for me.

Believe it or not , there are films which bring a tear even to Mr.Ketch's eye! I can be a soppy ol'git at times.

Never been a problem, women like a hint of compassion in their otherwise sadistic bastards.

I cried before sex. That scared the hell out of me, and it got me so nervous I couldn't reach an orgasm.

I cry more than I'd like to, but sometimes it just happens.

I cry very rarely, but it happens sometimes. Last time openly would have been in may, it had been one year since my grandad died of cancer, so yeah kinda emotional. But a lot of movies or certain parts of programs make my eyes a little watery, i cover it up well though, cept last week when i was watching moulin rogue with my housemates, the end is kinda sad and i didnt cry as such but i wasnt exactly dye eyed either lol.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Believe it or not , there are films which bring a tear even to Mr.Ketch's eye! I can be a soppy ol'git at times.

Never been a problem, women like a hint of compassion in their otherwise sadistic bastards.



'tis true.

If a guy cries that can be fine, just be careful with that because if the girl is trying to decide if she likes you more then a friend and she finds herself comforting you because of tears, she may automatically decide that it is more of a friend thing.

(undertones in parenthasees)

britishboy

Regular

I have a girl I love who is 14 years old. What would her thoughts be if i told her I cried during a scene in Forrest Gump? (man I hope a gilr on totse likes me now)

so girls, just let me know your thoughts on a 16 yr old male crying during a movie scene.(Ohh theyre going to think Im sooo senesitive)

thanks in advance.(oh I hope they think Im senesitive and fall all over me now)



WRONG

There aare Two things that I can't stand about a guy who does this shit:

1-They try to get girls by pretending to be sensitive

2-they think girls easily fall for that shit.

Seriously, Why would you Try to impress a girl over the internet about crying? Or in real life anyway? If YOu cry, Big Deal. Everybody does. Get over yourself.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Believe it or not , there are films which bring a tear even to Mr.Ketch's eye! I can be a soppy ol'git at times.

Never been a problem, women like a hint of compassion in their otherwise sadistic bastards.



Like you not getting your teddy back? I found mine in out moving boxes, I was ecstatic.

Girls LOVE sensitivity, but only in the right context.

For example, crying during her favorite bollywood movie, so sweet!

Crying during relationship turmoil = weakass.

Most will tell you to be candid with your emotions, but the truth is that crying can be offputting.

You cried when that nigger died didn't you?

quote:Originally posted by britishboy:

to clarify... what would the girl think of me? Would she like me more? like me less? think im too sensitive? think im sweet? think its kinda gay?

please let me know ur exact thoughts, thanks

you are truly a douchebag for thinking that telling this girl a pointless fact will get you anywhere with her. quit trying to appeal to her and be yourself.

well i think that its really sexy when a guy is able to show his emotions expeacially when most guys try to be "non emotional"

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Actually I'm kinda curious as well. I have a tendency to tear up a bit during movies, but I always try my best to hide it so I don't look like some kind of over-sensitive pussy.

Actually I practically cry like everyday...

I feel so emo.

Im the exact same way.

It's not that big of deal, as long as you dont say it out of nowhere.

"Hey, do want to hang out tonight?"

"Sure, what time?"

"omg! I cried during a scene in Forrest Gump one time; dont hate me!"

quote:Originally posted by britishboy:

I have a girl I love who is 14 years old. What would her thoughts be if i told her I cried during a scene in Forrest Gump?

so girls, just let me know your thoughts on a 16 yr old male crying during a movie scene.

thanks in advance.



Which scene?

I think it matters how you are besides that. If you're always crying & bitchy, then pack your bags.

If you're respectable, then it could add to your credibility.

quote:Originally posted by 556:

Originally posted by britishboy:

to clarify... what would the girl think of me? Would she like me more? like me less? think im too sensitive? think im sweet? think its kinda gay?

please let me know ur exact thoughts, thanks

you are truly a douchebag for thinking that telling this girl a pointless fact will get you anywhere with her. quit trying to appeal to her and be yourself.

What does this have to do with being myself? I really did cry. All Im asking is if it is something I should mention to her or not. thats not being fake is it? everybody wants to be liked/loved. dont fucking comment on stuff about me when you dont even know me. if you have something decent to say regarding my topic do that, like some of the others actually did.

quote:Originally posted by Rem:



Which scene?

When Forrest 1st sees his son.

Crying rarely makes it so much more special when it happens. I think in the two years I knew this girl I only cried twice. The second time she rushed to my house and slept with me.

If it rarely happens, its a really big deal. If it happens every other day, its annoying.

quote:Originally posted by Siash:

(undertones in parenthasees)

britishboy

Regular

I have a girl I love who is 14 years old. What would her thoughts be if i told her I cried during a scene in Forrest Gump? (man I hope a gilr on totse likes me now)

so girls, just let me know your thoughts on a 16 yr old male crying during a movie scene.(Ohh theyre going to think Im sooo senesitive)

thanks in advance.(oh I hope they think Im senesitive and fall all over me now)



WRONG

There aare Two things that I can't stand about a guy who does this shit:

1-They try to get girls by pretending to be sensitive

2-they think girls easily fall for that shit.

Seriously, Why would you Try to impress a girl over the internet about crying? Or in real life anyway? If YOu cry, Big Deal. Everybody does. Get over yourself.



If you think Im trying to impress girls on totse with this topic, then your a fucking idiot who looked into this way too hard.

You were right about 1 thing tho, I do want her to "fall all over me" ..No shit shercock... last time I checked, its human nature to want the person you love to love you back.

reading the rest of your post sickens me with the world we have today. for some reason I just sense some deep insecuritry inyou and I think your a fucking loser. I may be wrong but I swear to God I really believe this based on your post. here is a tip for you, stop trying to overanalyze everything.

thank you for all the good replies, I have decided Im not gonna mention this unless it comes up and its the right mood to say it

my ex didn't have a clue what to say or do if she ever saw me cry, so try and gather whether she knows how to deal with guys crying or not

Mmm could crying transition into sex?

Why would you tell her this?

Would you explain why it made you cry?

thought it was gonna be a sick question like 'I'm 16 honest' I',m looking for a twelve year old girlfriend', its nice to find someone on totse is also not a peadophile.

Say it jokingly, but half serious.

quote:Originally posted by britishboy:

reading the rest of your post sickens me with the world we have today. for some reason I just sense some deep insecuritry inyou and I think your a fucking loser. I may be wrong but I swear to God I really believe this based on your post. here is a tip for you, stop trying to overanalyze everything.

thank you for all the good replies, I have decided Im not gonna mention this unless it comes up and its the right mood to say it

Yet you make this thread

quote:Originally posted by britishboy:

I have a girl I love who is 14 years old. What would her thoughts be if i told her I cried during a scene in Forrest Gump?

so girls, just let me know your thoughts on a 16 yr old male crying during a movie scene.

thanks in advance.



LOl, its ok man.

I cried when bubbah died :/.

It depends on how you present it. The subject could make you just sound like the lame boring person you may or may not be, however if you use your amazing social skills chances are you could make yourself seem like a sensitive, deep, caring individual.

Have fun.

I don't think crying is the issue here. The age gap between 14 and 16 is fucking enourmous, I hope you enjoy fucking a child.

At 14 I doubt she would even understand the complexity of the issue. A two year age gap isn't that bad, but the difference in maturity from 14 to 16, like I said, is fucking enourmous.

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I'd think you were either annoying or overemotional, or you're trying to play the sensitive guy card. Either way, if you told me I'd be annoyed.

If you really want her to know you cry in movies, watch a movie with her.

Are you fucking serious?

Whada fag.

Why did you even bring this up, why the fuck would you plan to tell her something so tivial and stupid, watch a movie with her, if you get a little teary eyed during an emotional scene im sure she wouldnt care, but if you start balling like a fucking pussy obviously shes going to think theres something wrong with you...which there obviously is for asking such a shit eating question, go die fag.

I am amazed you cry, I havn't cryed in about 7 years....

guuys crying in movies is okay, but don't tell 14 year old girls, once they're 16 they will think it's all cool, but 14 they will call you a wimp because they don't understand anything about the world or human behavior

quote:Originally posted by bassman:

last year i was watching the green mile with a girl, and i cried a little bit. when she seen me, she just smiled and hugged me even closer.

Oh..how random. Somthing aboot a mentally retarded, absurdly large negro dying dosen't quite do it for me..

But if that negro can heal a field mouse, may those flow.

She wouldn't care, but you're still a bitch.

she would think ur a pussy.

like that song says,

"she allready has one pussy she doesn't need another one"