Yes, I realize there is a thread similar to this already, so if the mods feel like this is too similar, I won't hold anything against them if they close it.

Anyway, has anyone ever said "I love you" on accident? Like, I try to not say it unless I really mean it. For example though: the other day I was hanging out with my girlfriend of 2 weeks, and I told her I loved her. It was kind of spontaneous, and I was a little fucked up at the time, but as soon as I said it, we both looked at each other like I never should have said it.

Anyone ever say something like that on accident? Did it affect the rest of the relationship, as in, when you said "I love you" and meant it, did the other person understand that?

Sorry for any incoherency.

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If I said it "on accident" I'd start really ineloquently backpeadling, like "fuck! I mean, you're really cool, not I love you...that's not to say I won't love you, or that you're not loveable, I just wanted to say something nice, but I only like you, I mean...BUTT SECKS!?"

and they lived happily ever after.

I made a thread like this once, only it was like this weird habit I have of getting the urge to say it when I'm on the phone with somebody.

I have to stop myself from saying "love you, bye" all the time. It's weird. It's to anybody, too. But yeah, I know what you mean.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I made a thread like this once, only it was like this weird habit I have of getting the urge to say it when I'm on the phone with somebody.

I have to stop myself from saying "love you, bye" all the time. It's weird. It's to anybody, too. But yeah, I know what you mean.

Haha, I remember that thread. Didn't realise it was that bad though :P

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

If I said it "on accident" I'd start really ineloquently backpeadling, like "fuck! I mean, you're really cool, not I love you...that's not to say I won't love you, or that you're not loveable, I just wanted to say something nice, but I only like you, I mean...BUTT SECKS!?"

and they lived happily ever after.



Yea, that's kinda how it went, only then she slapped me and we had sex.

I always have to fight the urge when I'm drunk, because I make it a point not to say it. And she says it all the time. But when I'm drunk, I'm always bursting with happiness, and I love everything.

But in actuallity, nothing you say when you're fucked up should be held against you.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I made a thread like this once, only it was like this weird habit I have of getting the urge to say it when I'm on the phone with somebody.

I have to stop myself from saying "love you, bye" all the time. It's weird. It's to anybody, too. But yeah, I know what you mean.

Just start saying it to everyone, on purpose. It catches people offguard...

After the rave I went to last night me and a few other people went to ihop to get a bite to eat. So we walk in with glowsticks, silly brightly colored hats, and all the other raver goodies. One of the guys was completely rolling face and told the waitress(who was like 50) that he loved her.

Not really the same thing but we all thought it was funny as hell.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I made a thread like this once, only it was like this weird habit I have of getting the urge to say it when I'm on the phone with somebody.

I have to stop myself from saying "love you, bye" all the time. It's weird. It's to anybody, too. But yeah, I know what you mean.

oohhh my god that is so me haha.

My ex and I used to talk on the phone every night (year 4 months) And it'd end with "gnight I love you"

I've said it to telemarketers, help lines I've called for various things, old friends by accident. uhg haha

Slowly growing out of the habit.

i remember being in a relationship and it was new years.... and i said i love you, i think it took him by suprise but he said it back.. but then he dumped me just before our 3rd month aniversary and tryed to use the saying "its not you its me" so to fix it i would just tell your girl that it was a mistake i didnt mean for it to come out that way i was just a little messed up and hopefully she will understand and all that

i've done it to people im on the phone with.

Since im used to saying it to my girlfriend, someone else might be on the line with me and i will say love you or accidently call them baby. Its embarassing but dont sweat it.

My boyfriend has done it before.

We've been dating for a year, but the first time he said it, it was really soon in the relationship. I think maybe only a month or two.

He likes to be kissed on the neck, so I was doing it one day, but I was going a little too hard (and we'd had a problem with hickies). So he was telling me to be a little more careful. "I mean, I love you and everything, but I don't like it when people make fun of me for having marks."

I was just kind of like...YOU WHAT NOW?!

Except I didn't actually say anything, because I figured it had slipped out by accident. I just acted like it didn't happen.

I think he said it again once more after that, but it was so long ago I don't remember.

I DO remember we spent New Year's Eve at his friend's house and I was having a really shitty (and awkward) time because his friends are...interesting characters. The next day I got a message online that simply said, "I love you."

I knew it wasn't an accident that time.

When a girl does take those 3 words seriously, you are fucked.

Ugh... half a bottle of wine into a visit 2 weeks into our relationship, we were having a nice makeout session... then i said i love you, which was bad because i didnt feel that i actualy did :/, but we sort of just ignored that incident because she already knew that i have a habit of saying really stupid stuff when im under the influence.

meh...my friend did it before he even went out wtih the girl...he got uberly pissed and they were close friends..and he said ' I llllloooovvvveee you'...a split second later he threw up , on her...

I was leaving a message in response to a job interview request last week...and I almost said it. I stopped myself in time though...

I got the job, I start today.

ki11uminati

quote:Originally posted by playboy311:

When a girl does take those 3 words seriously, you are fucked.



To loosely paraphrase Lucky Louie:

When we got married, I thought, 'SHIT! I could have left her.'

Then we had our kid, and I thought, 'SHIT! I STILL could have left her!'

Fat guy says:

You can still leave her; the third wife's the charm. You've already had your kids and all the shit you want...now it's just love and sex.