Alright I'm a Junior in high school and my girlfriend is a softmore. Her parents like me and all that but they are extrememly over-protective. Like she's coming over today. Her mom wouldn't let her come unless her mom could talk to one of my parents and see one of my parents when she was dropped off. She also told my parents that we can't leave the house and bassically do anything.

My parents think its ridiculous how up-tight her mom is too but they don't want to be in the middle of things so they aren't gonna help me out and are gonna abide by her moms rules.

Now what can i do to give my girlfriend some more freedoms and loosen up her mom?

quote:Originally posted by BazookaJoe:

Now what can i do to give my girlfriend some more freedoms and loosen up her mom?

In all actuality, you can't do all that much. Maybe try to demonstrate to her parents that you are responsible by getting a job, volunteering, getting good grades, etc. might help a little

Her parents are already dead set on their convictions, and your gf is completely at their mercy considering she isn't an adult.

As long as your girlfriend isn't a prude you can still have sex and whatnot, it will just be more exciting because you both know it is...forbidden

well for anybody who cares tonight ended perhaps as bad as it could be.

She came over, we went on walks to burn. Then came back to my house and jsut listened to music. Real chill... We drop her off at her house then after i go back home, she calls me and is like "nobody is home at my house, come over". I ask her when her parents will be home and she says 11:30. It's 9:00 so i'm thinking all good.

I go, we have a ton of fun then her parents come home at 10:30 and see my bike in the driveway. All bad, they catch me in her room with no shirt off.

They call my dad, he comes over and her Real dad. So i have her dad, step dad, mom, and my dad around a table, i'm fuckin baked. I don't know what the actual consequences will be but i find them out tommorow. Shit shit shit

[This message has been edited by BazookaJoe (edited 10-08-2006).]

Ouch. Were you really doing something or was the fact that you didn't have a shirt just a coincidence?

thats a tale for the ages if i were youre dad i would buy you more beer and give you a hearty pat on the back .

Dont worry mate im sure nearly all of us have had this discussion with our parents at one point in our lives

A scenario like this calls for a scheme. A scheme of zany, excessively elaborate proportions.

The only way to get her parents to trust you is to convince them you're responsible. To do this I suggest "saving" a friends life, now stick with me on this. You'll need a friend, a homemade catapult, one harpoon, 7 kilos of raw seafood........

Well your pretty much fucked as far as being with her again senor or her parents leaving her at home. They are just going to get more protective and things will be worse. As far as the parents are concerned yea over protective parents suck but they are just trying to keep their daugther from having your nasty dick in her. I mean I get mad when my girlfriends mom bitchs about us both being under the same blanket at her house but then again we have fucked in her living room on the couch with her parents in next room thanks to that blanket. SO although the mom is being a bit over protective i mean we did actually fuck so even though she doesnt know it she does have reason to suspect. And I mean kids these days do the shit we do maybe not in the places me and my girlfriend have but yea like someone said theres always chances of sex. The parents are just trying to limit it.

Ive gotten caught with my girlfriend a few times not sexually thank god but other things, like I met her parents after they found out she snuck out at 12:30am and was with me so that kinda sucked. As well as getting caught about to drink(only our second time in 10 months ever drinking together). And luckily her parents are not quite as strict as your girls but they got a bit stricter. SO i can only imagine what your girls parents will do. Unless you really care about her you probably might want to find a new girlfriend because she is going to most likly be on lock down

quote:Originally posted by inverted:

thats a tale for the ages if i were youre dad i would buy you more beer and give you a hearty pat on the back .

Dont worry mate im sure nearly all of us have had this discussion with our parents at one point in our lives



Hahahaha, you'd make a great father!

Well my parents ended up not carring that much about it. They just said i needed to use my head more and realize that girls parents are more protective and shit.

As for her, she's in hella shit. She has to go home for lunch, gets dropped off and picked up at school. Basically i can only see her at school...

Her parents were talking to me last night about how its important that teenagers abstain and all this shit. So i geuss their actually gonna try and make it impossible for her to fuck... it's people like this that mess everything up in society

Pfft. I'm so glad I dont have a daughter. I'd be as overprotective as possible. I couldnt stand the thought of her growing into the teen years and being a slut. Man, the more I think about it, the more I think I'm just gonna weld a chastity belt to her ass in the delivery room.

quote:Originally posted by BazookaJoe:

Well my parents ended up not carring that much about it. They just said i needed to use my head more and realize that girls parents are more protective and shit.

As for her, she's in hella shit. She has to go home for lunch, gets dropped off and picked up at school. Basically i can only see her at school...

Her parents were talking to me last night about how its important that teenagers abstain and all this shit. So i geuss their actually gonna try and make it impossible for her to fuck... it's people like this that mess everything up in society

I kinda figured that mcuh would happen minus the whole lunch thing thats a bit excessive but hey. And yea fuck the parents, kids dont need to be abstain completly. And i bet you they are the kind of parents that are pro schools teaching ABSTANINCE and ONLY ABSTANINCE, which is why everyone is safe sex retarded. Sucks for you unless you really care id find a new girlfriend.

that is tale of the ages. dont worry. this should be interesting to you. i bet shes more likely to want to have sex.

Its Called Night operations skills. My fare friend with the name Bazooka in it.

Yeha man like, imagine if her parents were all over protective and wouldn't let you see her..Then she fucks you at school in the bathroom stall and shes like..."Oh baby I want to be with you forever!" And you reply like "Oh baby I want you too!" and then shes like "But....But...What about my parents?!". Then you reply "I'll handle them!".

Ok...Ok...it's midnight and your in her house. You grab a big knife out of the kitchen...You slowly...Quietly...walk towards her parents bedroom.....You see the closet..just a little farther.....ok and...OH SHIT THAT BITCH POPS OUT OF FUCKIN NO WHERE! YOU FUCKIN CUT THAT BITCH! *SLASH!* *STAB* FUCKING! *GUTS LIKE A FISH* "HOW YOU LIKE THAT SHIT BEEEEEITCH?!?!" She gurgles attemping a reply.

OH SHIT THA MOTHAFUCKIN DADS OUT OF THE BEDROOM! HE'S GOT A MOTHAFUCKIN BAT MOTHAFUCKA! You pull out your glock "GET ON YO MOTHAFUCKIN KNEES!" He complies. You stick your dic...PISTOL into that mothafuckas mouth "Squeeze" you say "SQUEEZE!" He does. Then you bust your loa...PULL THA TRIGGER! *BAM**BAM*BAM* Three to the dome!

Those mothafuckas is out...And that lil slut gave you ghonnorhea!

Get raped in the ass by a swordfish... But for sympathy of corse... *ponders, runs to petshop for swordfishes*

There isnt a lot you can you directly and by yourself, however there are things that can be done.

First off get your parents on your side. Granted they arent gonna want too much information regarding your relationship with her, but give them enough to see that there is a problem. If they meet her parents again, they might be able to stike some chords into the coversation regarding her staying over more etc etc...

Secondly, if she willing enough, get her to speak out - shes probably so used to the over protection it doesnt worry her, or shes quite annoyed by it but has not got the guts to suggest any differently - try and get her to speak up, or go with her to her parents and speak as a couple...tough at your age, but do -able.

Lastly, if it doesnt seem good, bend the rules - every school has more than 2 entrances - so go off with her into town or somthing - granted you and her might get bollocked, but thats where she can again argue for more freedoms. Also theres always nightime operations - smuggle her out of her house if you can.

Job done.

Ahh... I remember when I was in your situation. My girlfriend at the time got so completely pissed off at her parents that she moved out of home... and into my house.

She ended up going back home when her parents offered her a car, $100 a week and allowed her to have me crash at her place.

This might be a bit extreme in your case, but it certainly does turn a parents point of view around.

Just skip school and run around town togeather...not that hard.

quote:Originally posted by another pint:

Ahh... I remember when I was in your situation. My girlfriend at the time got so completely pissed off at her parents that she moved out of home... and into my house.

She ended up going back home when her parents offered her a car, $100 a week and allowed her to have me crash at her place.

This might be a bit extreme in your case, but it certainly does turn a parents point of view around.

fuking sold!! shudda done that with my folks a long time ago

quote:Originally posted by BazookaJoe:

it's people like this that mess everything up in society

Wait a minute here. You both knew they wouldn't approve, but you took the chance anyway. They have their rules and breaking them is never a good idea.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Wait a minute here. You both knew they wouldn't approve, but you took the chance anyway. They have their rules and breaking them is never a good idea.

but its not rules to do with them its to do with their daughter who isnt their property so they shouldnt be able to ditate that

quote:ditate

You mean DICTATE?

quote:Originally posted by bazthefish:

but its not rules to do with them its to do with their daughter who isnt their property so they shouldnt be able to ditate that

If she's an adult and on her own, paying her own way, then I would agree. You're just being a big baby because you can't have things your way.