I've been seeing this girl for a week and we are very open with eachother. Today we experienced something very strage. First the events leading up to it.

We've had sex on two occasions prior to this. She has never had an orgasm with a man, ever; she can do it on her own and it doesn't take long and she can do it multiple times. She spent the night in my room today after she wasn't horny at all last night. We also usually wake up a few times in the middle of the night and end up making out and doing other "activites." Last night, none of that we woke up once but it didn't go far, she wasn't in the mood.

We get out of bed and I drive into the city to Planned Parenthood so she can pick up some more birth control. The usual psycho christains are out protesting; I scream "Babies taste delicious" to them as I drive by and wonder who is watching their kids.

We go back and I start showing her some porn that I had mentioned, weird stuff, very weird porn indeed. She gets very turned on. We have sex and all that good stuff. I ejaculate once, we keep going and she "gets bored." Mind you she claims I'm quite good in bed. She has just been in a funny mood, I don't think much of it.

I'm still ready for more, infact I'm always ready, she's the one that can't keep up. An hour later I try to get her horny again; I get annoyed and turn into crazy-dominant-y4m4 and take what I want. I put her over my knees and I spank her ass beat red, along with a little hair pulling and such. She loves this kinda shit and I love to deliver.

She gets wet as hell and I start to finger her. I roll her over and get really into it and she is loving it. She starts pushing on her stomach(above her g-spot) and a few of those "its so good" tears come out. She is contracting around my fingers and all that stuff.

Then suddenly she pushes me away and starts crying. I hold her and ensure her that everything is alright. She explains that she was the closest to orgasming with a man that she has ever been.

The first thing that I thought of when she told me about her inability to orgasm was that something happened to her when she as younger and had a mental block. When this happened I felt even stronger like that. She reassures me that nothing has happened to her.

Anyway, ever have something like this happen to you or some one you know? I understand that this isn't too uncommon but it usually happens after sex or after a orgasm, not before.

Here is one of the many articles that I've been reading: http://www.usaweekend.com/health/dr_drew/index.html

I might proof read this later but probably not. I'll say that there are pictures and videos but I'm not sharing so don't bother.

If she claims no childhood abuse, you're just going to have to take her word for it. She's never had an orgasm with a man, but what about alone? I'm assuming so. It might be that she just doesn't feel comfortable enough around you. Or maybe she's not used to the sensation. I would talk to her about it, and ask her what she was thinking and feeling in the moment she pushed you away.

Yeah, she can orgasm alone, no problem. Its not just me, its anyone else that she has been with too. The only way she could explain how she felt when she pushed me away was "for some stupid reason I just felt like crying."

As far as being comfortable goes, we are surprisingly comfortable for the amount of time that we've been together. We aren't dating and I'm not gonna rush anything, at the moment "just fucking" is good enough for me. We do spend a lot more time with eachother than "just fucking" so I don't know; I'm in no position to put a label on our relationship.

I'm in no rush to "figure" this thing out or try and "cure" her; just a curious if anyone around her has had similar experiences or advice.

Well, I gotta tell you. I have had sex with my girl and a few times now she had a pretty intense orgasm and she cried after. No real reason that could explain it. Just seemed to ba a real relief thing,

Just seems that some do and some dont. Jst try to go along with her and comfort her as best you can. Cant really give any other advice on that one.