I'm sleeping over this girls house in a week...I'm a virgin and I know we're going to have sex.

Is there anything that I should be warned about so I don't fuck up and make a fool of myself?

I basically want the do's and don'ts so everything goes smoothly...

edit- I forgot to say that she is pretty experienced.

[This message has been edited by TooManyDoses (edited 10-07-2006).]

Take condoms.

quote:Originally posted by reject:

Take condoms.

You're useless in this forum. Fuckin smartass.

You are a virgin, no?

If so, let her know. She'll most likely be happy to teach you what to do. And don't take offense if you do suck...it's your first, or close to, your first time.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

You are a virgin, no?

If so, let her know. She'll most likely be happy to teach you what to do. And don't take offense if you do suck...it's your first, or close to, your first time.

Thanks for the tip...

But is it actually simple...Or is there something more to it?

I'm also talking about: Gettin tired too soon, cumming too early, u kno.

[This message has been edited by TooManyDoses (edited 10-07-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by TooManyDoses:

But is it actually simple...Or is there something more to it?

If you are talking about ejaculating inside a woman for the purpose of knocking her up and nothing else, then yes, it is very simple, the cavemen could do that extremely effectively.

However, having sex for nothing but mutual enjoyment is an artform. It takes practice and quite a bit of it, as well as an open mind and a desire to learn. There is a reason that back in the day when whores were relatively socially accepted, such as in Roman times, there were extremely famous ones that needed much more than physical beauty to practice their art.

quote:Originally posted by TooManyDoses:

I'm also talking about: Gettin tired too soon, cumming too early, u kno.

If this is your first time, you definitely should expect those things, although if you are in shape should help. Very few people are good enoough at it their first time to even get the girl to cum. So in all honesty, just make sure she knows your a virgin so she doesn't expect much pleasure beyond the knowledge that she was your first and you'll probably never forget her.

Besides, if you are going to be spending alot of time alone with her over the weekend you should be able to get it up not more than an hour after first blowing your load, and then you will be able to last much longer from there on out. You can have her teach you positions, oral, etc. you know, whatever you want to learn

Byss: You're actually kinda scaring me..

Am I really destined to suck just because it's my first time?

quote:Originally posted by TooManyDoses:

Byss: You're actually kinda scaring me..

Am I really destined to suck just because it's my first time?

Almost surely...but what does it matter? That's the fun of losing your virginity, the learning can thus begin.

Shit, you have any hobbies? Were you good at those the very first time you tried?

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Almost surely...but what does it matter? That's the fun of losing your virginity, the learning can thus begin.

Shit, you have any hobbies? Were you good at those the very first time you tried?

Well, is there anyway to actually 'prepare' for it?

Yes, I play guitar, but that is something you do by yourself...Sex involves another person..

quote:Originally posted by TooManyDoses:

Well, is there anyway to actually 'prepare' for it?

Yes, I play guitar, but that is something you do by yourself...Sex involves another person..

Treat her like a guitar...there are strings to strum, but there's a bit of magic involved that you need to learn to get that perfect sound.

Best preparation is to just not worry about it...you're not going to be able to do that though, I know how I felt when I was about to give my virginity away. Just, keep the worry to a minimum, you don't want to be so stressed that you can't get an erection, eh?

Look man. Sex gets better, so have sex so you can hurry up and have it the second time. That's what it's all about.

Here's a tip: If you push your middle finger an inch or two into her vagina, and rub the top part of the vaginal wall, you'll be guarenteed to hit the g-spot if you apply firm pressure

Everyones first time is a total fuck up, but foreplay is important, trust me it is.

Don't listen to these people. There is a chance that you won't suck your first time. When I lost mine I was far from terrible. Lots of foreplay and be confident.

Make her ride you, then she can please you both at the same time

Kiss her and cuddle her stroke her all over.

Kiss her breats.

Eat her out and fondle her vagina for a long time.

Take your time, no need to rush to penetration. If you get her off before you get in she won't care that you come in like 2 seconds.

quote:Originally posted by spinnersean:

Kiss her and cuddle her stroke her all over.

Kiss her breats.

Eat her out and fondle her vagina for a long time.

Take your time, no need to rush to penetration. If you get her off before you get in she won't care that you come in like 2 seconds.

Yup, this is exactly what I was gunna say.

The closer you get her before penetration. 1: the more she'll like it, and 2: the more "ok" it will be if you cum early.

Be gentle and relaxed when you start, take your time with things and don't be afraid to communicate. Good luck and use a condom.

However, if she's one of those S&M chicks you're SOL, I stay away from those girls.

One more thing, don't stimulate her clit too much, that can hurt after a while. A little touch with the fingers or the tongue goes a long way. Before you actually fuck her, try fingering her with two fingers, then gently lick her clitoris while doing that. Women are much easier to fuck when they've already had a few orgasms.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

[...]cum early.

There isn't any "cumming early".

MEN cum RIGHT ON TIME. It's women that usually are "cumming late". Hurry the fuck up, girl, or I'll have to put on the game.

Nah, seriously though, I hate when someone says "I cum too fast" or "I came to early" as if it is his fault, and she couldn't be thought of cumming "too late".

Turn about is fair play, though, as I always cum far too late for most women.

Just stick with missionary for the first time, makes life easier.

Be gentle and don't pick up the speed too quickly, gentle acceleration is the key.

Ask her what she wants.

Don't do ANYTHING if she says not too.

Apart from that, you should know what to do with what things.

Enjoy it, don't make it a chore.

dont ask her about the shopping while doing it...

quote:Originally posted by spinnersean:

Take your time, no need to rush to penetration. If you get her off before you get in she won't care that you come in like 2 seconds.

QFT

The best thing you can do is relax and feel as comfortable as possible. The likelihood of you losing your erection or blowing as soon as she touches you is a LOT less if you're calm and collected.

Not the first time I had sex, but the first time with a certain girlfriend, she came. It was also the only time during quite a long relationship.

It is possibly going to be the best sex either of you ever have, don't fuck that up by calling her mom or anything.

don't fuck that up by calling her mom

LMFAO...I wonder how many guys have done that?