What do I do when the girl I love is not the girl who I want to spend the rest of my life with?

What do you do when you find out your significant other has a learning disorder previously unknown throughout your entire relationship?

Do you dump them because you don't want to get too involved since you are only going to end it later?

Or do you hang onto them until its time to end it later?

When do you end it?

What kind of disorder?

Dyslexia

So what? It's dyslexia. You wouldn't have known if she hadn't told you. She trusts you with that knowledge.

Now, I get the impression that you already wanted to bail, but want to use this as an excuse. Dude, she just trusted you with some sensitive information. To end it now would be crushing.

You got your balls tied mate. You can't use that as an excuse to dump her. You simply can't, if you are a half-decent person.

Yea dumping her because of it would be really bad.

So what do I do?

I dont want to try and keep it going forever. Because I don't want to get to the point of marriage with her. We click together so well(practically best friends), but that thought in the future scares me, especially with someone with genes like that.

[This message has been edited by Pingy (edited 10-07-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Pingy:

But that thought in the future scares me, especially with someone with genes like that.



Please don't breed, you narrow minded dolt.

Why not have a conversation about her "inferior genentics"? If she's a person of any substance, she'll just dump you and forget you completely.

You're making me smile, with disgust.

Don't dump 'em...flip 'em over & hump 'em!

quote:Originally posted by Pingy:

but that thought in the future scares me, especially with someone with genes like that.



If this is your line of thinking, then there is no way in hell that you even come remotely close to loving her. do her a favor, and end the relationship so she can find a more supportive partner.

quote:Originally posted by Psionicist:

If this is your line of thinking, then there is no way in hell that you even come remotely close to loving her. do her a favor, and end the relationship so she can find a more supportive partner.

Well arn't you a jackass.

*ding*

My god, OP, you're an idiot. End it for her sake, seriously.