ok so obviously, im a guy, and girls, i wanna know what you REALLY like when a guy kisses you. what turns you on? where do you like his hands to be? i see kissing as a way to show a girl how much you really love her. so many people just see it as the first step to having sex but i think kissing is the most intimate way to interact with a girl you love. share your advice!

Well I can't answer your question, cos I'm a guy, but I think you'll find that everyone likes something different.

Also, I agree. I think kissing is far more intimate than sex. Memorable kisses to me are the ones which make you rock hard almost straight away. They're soft, passionate, close... and if you're in the right place, they do lead to great sex.

i also agree, kissing is far more intimate than sex, soft and passionate kisses are the best kind of kisses and are the most memorable. i prefere more lips then tounge when kissing but when he use's his tounge its gotta be slow and soft

[This message has been edited by Dronkey (edited 10-07-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by 2unl2:

i see kissing as a way to show a girl how much you really love her.

There are lots of things ou can do to make a memorable kiss. It takes two people though.

I don't give this kind of advice, but I will offer you one bit. Don't take it so seriously.

Also, kneeing them in the crotch is a great way to make it memorable.

(Sorry, felt like being a cunt.)

Mmm? More lips than tongue, and one hand on the cheek/neck/haid.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Also, kneeing them in the crotch is a great way to make it memorable.

(Sorry, felt like being a cunt.)

Well it would make it more memorable.

quote:Originally posted by 2unl2:

so many people just see it as the first step to having sex

"So many people"?? Where are all these people?? I've never met anyone (aside from myself) who held this same view... Or at least anyone who could admit it.

Anyway, I'm not here to rain on anybody's parade. If you want to kiss just for the sake of kissing, then go for it...

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Also, kneeing them in the crotch is a great way to make it memorable.

(Sorry, felt like being a cunt.)



At least your doing it properly.

I think the OP is a bit melodramatic.

Bite her tongue off.

She'll never forget it.

Try and lightly lick the roof of her mouth.

i remember really clearly-

when my last boyfriend kissed me for the first time.

we sorta looked into each others eyes for a really long time, and then i remember we were holding hands, interlocking the fingers.

we were sorta facing each other holding both hands together, because we were talking, and then he let go of one hand and grabbed my waist and pulled me towards him. then he kissed me softly we kept the other hand held, fingers still interlocked. then he stuck his tongue in and he was really good. i remember what was so special there was the way he held my hand, he'd like hold it on the hard end like he'd never let go.



he did, in the end though.

boy, i miss him.

quote:Originally posted by Duck In Fog:

Well it would make it more memorable.

Not if you beat them afterward, and make it good.

Compliments. Not verbal compliments, but providing what their kiss lacks. Using the same 'style' is a given, but I'll tell you what I mean.

Say for example, a girl doesn't move her tongue much and kisses really soft - use your tongue more than she does hers, and kiss deeper on her lips...maybe bite her lower lip.

If say, she uses her tongue a bit and kisses average...do the same; medium tongue, medium kiss pressure.

Now, if she's a total beast with the tongue and kisses like a rock...well, you don't do much of anything other than kiss lightly and provide minimal tongue.

Of course though, not everyone is the same, so there are people who kiss soft and desire soft kisses - there are those who kiss like beasts and want to be kissed like beasts. Tells for this - if they're soft and avoid your tongue as much as they can, they want you to go soft. If they're hard, and are chasing your tongue like it's a fucking mouse, they want you to go hard.

The one kind of kiss that would make me kick a bitch out of my house is the kind where they try to swollow your fucking face. That's just too much.

First off, make sure you not drowning them or choking them with your tongue or spit, that's just a given no, no. Second don't wear it out, in other words, pull away just a little before you really want to, that way you know that they still want some. In other words, leave them wanting more.

I believed that what you asked was how to make a kiss "memorable".

You always want to have a certain trick that you use very rarely, yet when you do, that kiss becomes much more special. My advice is to use the neck. When you really want a kiss to have that emotional punch, work your hand into her hair and rest it right at the back of her neck and pull her gently in toward you. That feeling of being actually held will make her melt.

oooo ok so many good suggestions. something i havent tried yet is placing my hand on the back of her neck, but every fucking time i always just forget about my hands and then when im done im like "fuck i forgot" so if i remember i will.

My most memorable kiss was when my lawyer grabbed me and pushed me up against the wall, holding my arms up over my head and he kissed me...Pressing his body full length against mine and I thought I was going to pass out from excitement. I pushed him away though...But I still think about it sometimes, how at that moment he could've been inside of me with 2 quick adjustments and a thrust...And even almost 5 years later it still turns me on.

quote:Originally posted by Dronkey:

kissing is far more intimate than sex

what

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Originally posted by Dronkey:

kissing is far more intimate than sex

what

Its a rationalization for promiscuity. See, people like to have sex a lot. So they cant really hold it as intimate and still sleep around. Kissing, most guys dont enjoy as much, so they'll hold that out as something 'special'. Its like transferring the sanctity of sex to something else, so that they're free to indulge as much as they want, and they've protected the innocence. There are plenty of guys that will have sex with girls they wouldnt kiss.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Its a rationalization for promiscuity. See, people like to have sex a lot. So they cant really hold it as intimate and still sleep around. Kissing, most guys dont enjoy as much, so they'll hold that out as something 'special'. Its like transferring the sanctity of sex to something else, so that they're free to indulge as much as they want, and they've protected the innocence. There are plenty of guys that will have sex with girls they wouldnt kiss.

...no, actually, kissing is more intimate than sex. It's probably because the lips are more sensitive than the genetalia and easier controlled.

I always feel like a pot of gold when I'm having a good kiss. Even the shitty kisses are special in a way. As long as I'm not thinking "Im soooo getting herpes right now" then time stops and nothing matters but the awesomeness that is a hot kiss.

I still don't know what do with my damn tongue during a kiss. it's like....no matter what I do with it it feels stupid.

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quote:Originally posted by fat_thighs:

I always feel like a pot of gold when I'm having a good kiss. Even the shitty kisses are special in a way. As long as I'm not thinking "Im soooo getting herpes right now" then time stops and nothing matters but the awesomeness that is a hot kiss.

That's the beauty of herpes...once you have 'em, you don't have to worry anymore, lol.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

My most memorable kiss was when my lawyer grabbed me and pushed me up against the wall, holding my arms up over my head and he kissed me...Pressing his body full length against mine and I thought I was going to pass out from excitement. I pushed him away though...But I still think about it sometimes, how at that moment he could've been inside of me with 2 quick adjustments and a thrust...And even almost 5 years later it still turns me on.



damn ive always wanted to do that, but i didnt know if a girl would think it was wierd or not. now i know, and im definitelly gonna try that one.

the perfect kiss;

put your arms around her wasit, so then her arms should rap around your neck as you lean into kiss her kiss her really shoftly and gently then look at her in the eyes and give her a sweet smile as you kiss her on the forhead and say good night or good bye or wat ever it may be