What are the things that make you mad/angry at the other sex?

ControlMaster - I think nobody likes to be controled, especially people like me who have done some "stuff" and really cherish thier freedom. I just hate it when a girl does things like:

G: Go catch that cat for me

Me: Why the hell? Cats are free, wtf should I catch one?

G: Do it for me, its just a stupid cat!

Tip: If she does things like that then leave her. She doesnt understand individuality.

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Or the "Do it OR else..." method. Either invite me for a pizza or I dont love you anymore... Yeah, kinda happend to me some time ago. THE ultimatum thingy, I hate, HATE it when people do that.

Tip: Leave her, she's a control freak, intent on gaining dominion over you and using you as a show off puppet.

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Or the giga-crush girl, that just cant accept that she's a "pal", not a real GF, and keeps calling, bitching that your immature and shes so good to you... Yeah, lived through that too.

Tip: Either tell her normally that you either dont have time/money/love for her, freak out and go berserk, or just act creepy.

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Or a girl that just cant fuck off, and actually tells you that your life is bad:

G: Why cant you be like all the other teenagers, instead of thinking about some shitty philosophy? Youve just got a problem and its up to me to repair it...

Ohh yeah, that really got me "annoyed", but as Im a peacefull person I didnt go berserk.

Tip: Leave her, again, shes probably a control freak.

Anyways... those were the most serious problems I encountered, usually associated with gaining some kind of grip over me. But ofcourse there are the usuall problems, which arent bad, but I still have no clue how to answer them :

When to tell when the "hangout" time is over and its ok to go further in a relationship?

Is a girl really digging you or is she just bored?

How the hell do you tell that she wants you to be here closer friend instead of just a "pal" she knows from school?

Those questions are related with "the unknown", since every girl/woman is different and has other needs, so you cant reall know the correct answer to any of the above questions unless you or her actually break out with such a question, but this done too early might cause problems.

Ah, thats all for now, got my anger down at a bitch who wanted to be the puppeteer . She learned her lesson. The hard way.

You gotta keep your pimp hand strong on the females when they act like that....haha enjoy that advantage now cause once you get into a relationship where you both love(the reallll love)each other, then it's over. I regret doing that now.

And the guys that are in that long term love relationship know what I mean when I said it's over.

Sounds like you got caught up with the wrong gal, sucks to be you. Good luck in the future though, oh and you're highy philosophical/theoretical.... who cares, i'm like that too.

Yeah, theory/philosophy is an important thing for me but many people dont like "the smarty ass's", because they prefer to go with the flow and just ba good little sheeple. Anyways, I didnt get caught, thats the giga-crush I was talking about, where the girl doesnt wanna fuck off and keeps on stalking me and actually criticizing me. Thats why I wrote the stuff above, so other people wont get into shit like that.

And yeah, if youre really in love, its normal for both sides to "control" a bit eachother, its the time to make some sacrafices, to change your way of life a bit and to change to life of another person, but its good to be carefull so it doesnt spin off, you becoming a slave.

quote:Originally posted by LiquidIce:

What are the things that make you mad/Or the "Do it OR else..." method. Either invite me for a pizza or I dont love you anymore...

Haha, I thought that shit stopped after preschool. I remember when I wanted to play hide and seek or whatever, but she'd say "either we play on the swings or I don't love you anymore." Those were the days.

quote:Originally posted by Superunknown:

Haha, I thought that shit stopped after preschool. I remember when I wanted to play hide and seek or whatever, but she'd say "either we play on the swings or I don't love you anymore." Those were the days.

Haha, still are the days.. I love when women try to do this.. because I(i guess unlike most men) don't put up with it.. All I do in a case like this is laugh at her, in her face, when she trys to do this sort of thing.

"blah blah blah, or I wont talk to you any more/love you anymore/whatever you anymore"

me: Hahah,hahah,haha.

her: ....

me: Honesly? If you think thats gonna work, then I don't want your <insert whatever> anyway. Take it back to the playground and have fun with the 10 year olds.

<walks away>

if she doesn't follow me, and basicly melt before my eyes and try to win me back that moment, I'll get a phonecall/txt/im later that day/night with how sorry she is, and she'll never do anything like that again.

If you deal with that shit the way I do.. you'll either lose the women who will only cause you grief, or basicly have your own puppet, or at the VERY least, decide if you want to take it any farther.. or just let it die.

I hate girls that always need more and more.

Although that's to an extent just human nature, some are really more awful than others.

For example, you take them on an expensive romantic dinner date EACH WEEK and soon it becomes 'standard'.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

I hate girls that always need more and more.

Although that's to an extent just human nature, some are really more awful than others.

For example, you take them on an expensive romantic dinner date EACH WEEK and soon it becomes 'standard'.

Your problem lies in the fact that you take women out to expensive romantic dinner dates each week.

A date like that should happen till, I'd say the 4th-5th date.. and then.. only rarely. If it's happening every week.. then well either you have to money to spend, and like it.. or are making yourself broke over some woman.

Yeah, I hate women/girls that love you when you take them to restaurants and such stuff. Now, a pub or tavern is another thing...

I laughed at the thing about the cat.

I've never told a guy that if he didn't do something, I would leave him. I could see this being okay if it was something big like "stop smoking crack or we're done" but not "you better come pick me up now or it's over"