Well a while back I got talking to the girlfriend and started asking her where the gspot is. As she is my first real sexual partner, I had no idea from previous experience. She tells me that she doesnt know. I find that a bit odd and ask her how she can own a vagina and not know. After a while she says that she doesnt masturbate at all. I called bullshit on this one.

But she kept denying it. She's a good christian girl so I think she's been raised to believe touching herself is wrong. So after a while I came to believe her. I know nearly all chicks deny it but I thought that maybe this was a genuine case.

So the other day I asked her "if you've never wanked, does that mean you've never orgasmed?" and lo and behold... she shook her head.

Well since then Ive found that blasted gspot, but I dont think I can do it with just that and sex.

SUMMARY: need help making the girlfriend orgasm.

put ur pointer and middle finger into her with ur palm facing up. dont just shove them in there, warm her up 1st. when ur to fingers r inside, do a "come here" type motion against the upper walls of her pussy. As ur doing that lick her clit(the little "button" at the top of her pussy.

This should work. Adjust technique as needed.

Just for once, why can't someone take a dump on my chest?

quote:Originally posted by Garrett:

Just for once, why can't someone take a dump on my chest?



That is appalling.

Be sexy, less is more, the mood is important.

Take her clothes off slowly, nibble up and down her leg, build the anticipation.

Ultimately, gently stiumulate the gspot while teasing the clitoris with your mouth.

Think of it like this. The clit is like the penis head, the vagina is like the shaft and the gspot is like the prostate.

Working on one alone won't be nearly as nice as all three in combination.

Um.

I don't seem to see the problem.

If i'm understanding correctly, she's an uptight about sex christian girl. Who's never touched herself and therefor i assume never been touched.

You didn't know where the g-spot was, neither did she, but now you do. Now this is irrelevant. Even some of the most experienced sexual partners don't know enough about that.

If she's never been touched you could blow air from your mouth onto her pussy and she would writhe in extacsy, seriously.

You don't need to have the slightest fucking technique just twiddle your fingers and she'd be in heaven if she's never been touched before.

If she has had sexual play before, but you just left that part out then still, i don't see the problem.

You don't think you can please her with sex and the g-spot alone...what else do you think there is to it? Some special level you pull and the magic starts to flow?

If you can't please her with sex, don't even bother with the g-spot.

EDIT:

Bottom line, she's 16, you could whack a corn on the cob on her pussy and she'd love it.

[This message has been edited by phalen (edited 10-07-2006).]

First off what the fuck is up with this shit? You're supposed to find your own technique but I'll help your sorry ass.

If you're going down there with your tongue find her clit and spell out the ABC's on it and if that doesn't make her cum I don't know what will because that fucking works.

My woman has a g-spot...God does that make life and sex so much easier.

i'm 18 and never orgasmed. she can kiss my ass, i have 2 years of lack lusterness on her.

quote:Originally posted by Garrett:

Just for once, why can't someone take a dump on my chest?



bahaha, i saw that on comedy central the other night. good stuff

Dammit. I was hoping you were a 16 year old girl.

Considering that it is her first time she may be slightly nervous. Just use ur finger on her clit for a little and if she backs off or is too nervous, have a serious conversation with her about amsterbation. I know this sounds weird but the only reason I ever tried it was because a few of my friends were talking and the topic of masterbation came up. This was only a few years ago, I'm 17 now. They gave me this whole long talk on how it doesn't so much have to do with the sexual experience it's more getting to know yourself and being comfortable with yourself.

Yea if its her first time she should orgasm a lot quicker. I know when me and my girlfriend first started fucking around she would orgasm very quickly. Then it started taking mroe time for both of us then we settled down on the sex and now its back to ending quickly.

YOu dont even need two fingers you can use one if shes really tight, use your finger to massage her pussy frontal wall and use your tongue to make her clit tingle and bam orgasm. Usually takes about 4-10 miniutes on my girlfriend.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Be sexy, less is more, the mood is important.

Take her clothes off slowly, nibble up and down her leg, build the anticipation.

Ultimately, gently stiumulate the gspot while teasing the clitoris with your mouth.

Think of it like this. The clit is like the penis head, the vagina is like the shaft and the gspot is like the prostate.

Working on one alone won't be nearly as nice as all three in combination.

Doing it like this guy said (as I have been doing for a while now) will make you're girlfriend or w/e orgasm like 5 or 6 times before she cant take it anymore.. and if she can, have fun having the most wet disgusting vagina hand smell for the rest of the day/night.