Well there's this Girl ('No shit, Sherlock' I hear you think) and me and my friend have no idea if she likes me. I asked her out a few days ago and after thinking it over for a minute or two she said she didn't want to go out with me. My friend (She's a girl, so she might be right about this) asked if she actually said 'No, I don't want to go out with you' which she didnt', so she thinks the girl likes me but really dosn't want a relationship at the moment.

Anyway, the day after that everything seemed to go back to normal, well, almost. Before hand she would flirt with me alot and now I swear she's doing it even more! Some other friends of mine also found out she said no and have been saying stuff to her like "You fancy him don't you" or "Why don't you go out with him" and not once did she say "I don't fancy him" or "I don't want to date him" which my friend said probably means she likes me.

Yet this girl still won't go out with me. It's confused me alot, as well as my friend who I thought could help me in this situation! At least someone on Totse could hazzard a guess as to what's going on?

[This message has been edited by Aurilius (edited 10-06-2006).]

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Also, get your friends to stop bugging her. That's the worst. if she does like you she likely doesn't want to be pestered about it.

I would find it annoying as all hell, especially if I DIDN'T like the guy.

She likes making you want her, gives her confidence.

Nooo, I don't act all desperate or anything. Nor do I treat her all that different from any of the other girls, I don't go out of my way to help her with things, unless it's obviously important. And I don't act much more differntly to her than any of my other Female friends, I flirt with them as much as her

She said no, that's obvious enough.

quote:Originally posted by BluryVision:

She said no, that's obvious enough.

Eh, I was told 'no' to being bf/gf as well. But then we ended up frequently hooking up and having lots of latenite sex.

Initial answers mean shit all. I've told girls 'no' to going out, but I still would have rooted them.

Keep persuing her dude. The best part is the chase any way.