I am 23 and I just lost my viginity last night. I knew we were going to have sex before I went to pick her up and so the day before I whacked off 8 times, and once just before I went to get her, but I should still have been able to cum. Do you think it was nerves? I felt pretty comfortable around her I thought, but I was still somewhat nervous. I banged her for about 15 minutes the first time, took a break and a while later banged her for almost 30 minutes. I almost came like 5 times, but I just couldn't make it over the edge. I was wearing a normal condom not an extra thick. I never got really really hard though either. In fact some positions were not feasable since she was so tight and I wasn't hard enough to prevent her from pushing me out. She is overweight and for sure not a model, but to me not ugly so I don't think that is it. Of course I don't love her yet, and she knows that. Might it be the many years of using my hand while watching porn? Conditioning myself too much? She is probably coming over again Sun and I won't whack off till then for sure. Anything else that might help?



Heh, at least I found out I am a major stud. I gave her over 20 orgasms! I felt at least 10 for sure, assuming feeling her vagina contract strongly is a good indicator she isn't faking. She also has no reason to lie as far as I am concerned. She was all wobbly when she stood up lol.

I think you were cursed from saying 'for sure' so often.

It was nerves, i couldnt cum my first time during sex. You'll fine next time.

Everything will be fine.

i want to have 20 orgasms in one night. i don't know how all these women do it. the guys of totse must be real studs indeed, they all seem to be able to manage it with no problems.

quote:Originally posted by NoSkills:

i want to have 20 orgasms in one night. i don't know how all these women do it. the guys of totse must be real studs indeed, they all seem to be able to manage it with no problems.

lol. yeah, i should find a guy from totse around here to help me with my being anorgasmic. anyone of them should cure in less than 1 minute apparently.

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

lol. yeah, i should find a guy from totse around here to help me with my being anorgasmic. anyone of them should cure in less than 1 minute apparently.

Sign me up.

Oh and OP. It's better to last too long than not long enough.

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20 orgasms?

O RLY? (http://tinyurl.com/g9s46)

quote:Originally posted by NoSkills:

i want to have 20 orgasms in one night. i don't know how all these women do it. the guys of totse must be real studs indeed, they all seem to be able to manage it with no problems.

come hit me up my name is mike jones 281-330-8004 well have a good time

quote:Originally posted by oral fixation:

lol. yeah, i should find a guy from totse around here to help me with my being anorgasmic. anyone of them should cure in less than 1 minute apparently.

I'll rent my boyfriend out to you for a night...$500? Haha!

20 orgasms

man you should be fucking for hire.

quote:Originally posted by NoSkills:

i want to have 20 orgasms in one night. i don't know how all these women do it. the guys of totse must be real studs indeed, they all seem to be able to manage it with no problems.

Well she is a bit of a nympho, so it is prolly pretty easy. But I DID work on her for an hour before I even used my dick and she claims I gave her ten then. I didn't know what I was feeling for sure so couldn't verify, but when I was inside I could sure feel the squeezes when she came then and so knew what to look for for the next 10.

How does a guy not cum the 1st time he ever has sex? actually jerking off 8 times prolly made u numb. or maybe all the bullshit coming out of her mouth turned u off?(20 orgasms lol)

or since she is fat, she was so thankful a guy would actually touch her, that she just couldnt contain herself?

quote:Originally posted by SpEX Moneymaker:

she was so thankful a guy would actually touch her, that she just couldnt contain herself?

Entirely possible. Who cares if you didn't ejaculate, its not really an issue in a society that is so worried about whether the girl is enjoying herself or not. If it worries her, pretend to climax... you are wearing a condom afterall.

As far as not getting very hard, it was probably the condom. Her obesity could have contributed.

quote:Originally posted by Verybigboy24:

Well she is a bit of a nympho, so it is prolly pretty easy. But I DID work on her for an hour before I even used my dick and she claims I gave her ten then. I didn't know what I was feeling for sure so couldn't verify, but when I was inside I could sure feel the squeezes when she came then and so knew what to look for for the next 10.



maybe she doesn't know what an orgasm is, or has a very loose definition of it?

i've been with guys who think they've given me multiple orgasms when in reality they gave me one or none. it's funny, but at the same time annoying. but she's claiming it's the case, so i dunno...

also, a woman can make her vagina contract by squeezing her pc muscles. sometimes small contractions happen pre-orgasm. and there's usually a good space of time between orgasms. that's why it's called a climax. maybe she thinks the flutters of pleasure she's getting are orgasms?

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^Maybe she should be tested for mental capacity?

Sounds like a dumbass, not to put your girl down or anything, but 20 orgasms? Come on man, you should of been happy if the number was fucking 1.

20 just to me seems like she wants you to be happy so you continue to fuck her, since she hasn't had the dick in a really long time.

I have the same problem. I had an experience just a while back, it wasn't even my first time, but it was a meaningful event. Quite nervous as well. We went for 34 minutes, and apparently, I'm the only guy to ever give her an orgasm, yet I didn't come close. It was still wonderful though, and I wouldn't trade it for the world.

I always find it funny how women who have trouble achieving orgasm are so opposed to the thought of another woman having plenty of orgasms and insist that they must be faking. I have been with girls who could have only one, and i have been with girls who could have 20. One of them was a 2 year relationship so I doubt she was faking for 2 years. I do not claim to be a sex god (although I am pretty damn good), a lot has to do with the girl.

On another note, the highest measured number of orgasms for a woman using heart beat monitors is over 130 in a night.

quote:Originally posted by Markoni:



On another note, the highest measured number of orgasms for a woman using heart beat monitors is over 130 in a night.

source? also, source verifying that heart beat is in fact a reliable indicator of orgasm?

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

source? also, source verifying that heart beat is in fact a reliable indicator of orgasm?

quote:

Most Orgasms

For 22 years, Doctors William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian of the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in Long Beach, California, have been faithfully recording the orgasmic response in their laboratory. After hooking up subjects to blood-pressure and heart-rate monitors and various sensors in the vagina or anus, the doctors would sit by the beside and take copious notes as the subjects busied themselves. In an attempt to head off accusations of prurience, they say such research is stupifyingly dull, saying they had to "struggle to stay awake." However, they overcame the tedium to spend 10,000 hours in the laboratory. After several false starts (originally they had the subjects push a button whenever they had a orgasm, but during the heat of the moment they usually became too preoccupied to be concerned with the cause of research), the study continued apace, eventually encompassing 751 individuals. The most orgasms they recorded in an hour for a woman is a staggering 134, while the best men could do was 16. How we lesser mortals can hope to achieve anything in that vicinity was not discussed.

http://www.sexualrecords.com/WSRtechnique.html#most_orgasms

Well she started having sex at 13 so most girls who start that young are either frigid later, or very sexual from what I can tell. And I know girls can contract while not orgasming, but they were pretty strong. I guess I won't be able to tell until I bang another girl and she has one to compare.

quote:Originally posted by Verybigboy24:

most girls who start that young are either frigid later, or very sexual

Ive gotten more specific predictions from fortune cookies.

quote:while the best men could do was 16

Holy shit?! 16 in an hour? That'd take me at least a couple of days