Well &T I have a little problem. Here it is.

-Broke up with me girlfriend. very long story sort-of for this girl

-Currently I have told a girl I like her, And I would like to be with her.

-She claims she can't, And she dosn't really think of me that way. (She said she liked me a bit) Last night she did cry over me.

I have now found out from her friends she likes some other kid. She claims to me she dos't were pretty close.I have liked her for a very long time. I recenlty just told her I love her. So &Totse what should I do to win her over? Or should I just leave her, and move on.

Leave her and move on. She's already made it clear that she doesn't want you, and probably denied liking the other guy just to spare your feelings.

Please need some more advice on this. Need some options.

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Seriously, if you told her you love her and she didn't say "I love you too!" then you should move on and try and get over it. I'm sorry.

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Seriously, if you told her you love her and she didn't say "I love you too!" then you should move on and try and get over it. I'm sorry.

ok, Thanks for your advice

quote:Originally posted by GreenDots:

Please need some more advice on this. Need some options.

You cannot win someone; they are not possessions; she doesn't like you like that - someday, she may, but she can't make herself like you, and you can't make her like you.

Trying to control/win another human being is like trying to grow an oak tree in the desert. You can dig the pit, you can plant the sapling, and you can give it water...but it just gets too much sun to handle.

Take this advice, please - I was a god at manipulation techniques, but the best you'll ever get from it is a copy of the real thing with no true emotion behind it. And when that reality sinks it, it hurts more than any depth of loneliness you feel now. Trust me...I'm a suicide that got lucky.

Instead of trying to win the right girl, focus on being the right guy. It's the whole deal of remove the beam from your own eye before worrying about the splinter in another's.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Leave her and move on. She's already made it clear that she doesn't want you, and probably denied liking the other guy just to spare your feelings.

And pursuing her further will make her go from slight un-ease with you, to finding you a pain in the ass,

quote:Originally posted by GreenDots:

ok, Thanks for your advice

You're welcome. And I'm really sorry that she doesn't want you. I think we all know how that feels and it's one of the worst feelings ever. But you'll find someone else.

[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 10-06-2006).]