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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-10-05, 19:42
Shroomz Shroomz is offline
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Default I want to ask her out but...

ok so theres this girl that I like and I think she likes me and I wanna ask her out but everytime her mom talks about how we should go out or how im her "boo" shes like noo hes just a friend. but we talk all the time, we talked from 9-11pm last night. idk if she likes me and I dont wanna ruin our friendship if I ask her out. What shoud i do?
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Old 2006-10-05, 20:07
kudomonster kudomonster is offline
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Default Re: I want to ask her out but...

just ask her out, pussy.
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Old 2006-10-05, 20:07
StillArmedStillAngry StillArmedStillAngry is offline
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Default Re: I want to ask her out but...

Normally I'd say that you guys ARE just friends... but I dunno. Telling a parent you aren't involved with somebody is different from saying it to, for instance, a friend.

Key Questions:

1) Does she generally prefer to keep her parents from knowing too much about her personal life?

2) How does she act around your peers? That's the real key.
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Old 2006-10-05, 20:08
Strakynyar Krongoth Strakynyar Krongoth is offline
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Default Re: I want to ask her out but...

Cuddle a bit, while you talk for hours, then kiss her.

Failing that just ask her out.

[This message has been edited by Strakynyar Krongoth (edited 10-05-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-09, 00:35
2AM 2AM is offline
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Default Re: I want to ask her out but...

just do it. better to take a chance than wonder "what if" the rest of your life.
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Old 2006-10-09, 04:19
Tentative Tentative is offline
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Default Re: I want to ask her out but...

yeah

she's probly just embarassed by her mom or something
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Old 2006-10-09, 04:58
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Default Re: I want to ask her out but...

What you gotta do is make sure there's some kind of fall back to asking her out.

The easiest way is by just being honest.

Tell her you like her in the way of a close friend and would like to see if it could be more than that and see what she says to it.

Most importantly, make sure you drop in the line "...but only if it wouldn't affect what we have now because your friendship means a LOT to me."

There are risks involved in taking a friendship to a higher level and she will more than likely know that so let her know that even if it doesn't work out as well as you'd hope, you'll always be her friend.

Hope that helps you pal.
 
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