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Old 2006-10-05, 18:45
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Now, I know SA gets filled with these types of threads, but its been a long time since i've made a thread here, and a long time in general since i've needed to make a thread (not that I need to make a thread now, I just want a little help, as i'm not too experienced with girls )

Anyway, moving on to the point of this thread...

I was in town yesterday with a mate (who went to go see his girlfriend), and she (his girlfriend) had a few mates with her.

And one of them just came over to me and started talking and asked my name and stuff, and started stroking my hair and was generally touching me quite a lot (not like that )

Then when we had to go, she hugged me lots and said she hoped to see me again.

And I dunno, do you reckon I have a chance, or she was just being friendly? (As I say, I suck at these kind of situations, and almost always make the wrong decision )

Thanks guys!
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Old 2006-10-05, 18:47
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Fuck yes! She digs you by the sound of it.



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Old 2006-10-05, 18:51
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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Unless she is VERY EXTREMLY SUPER friendly she wants your fucking nuts man go for it if shes hot sounds like she wants you bad.
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Old 2006-10-05, 18:51
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I just noticed I used way too much.

And really? I hope she does, I reckon if I got to know her better I would really like her.
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Old 2006-10-05, 19:02
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Sounds like she like she likes you...good luck...
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Old 2006-10-05, 19:20
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Slap it first, Reject! You're the first one! Go! Go lick that girl's body. OMG. WHOA! Wow! OMFG. ._.;;
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Old 2006-10-05, 20:10
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Thanks guys!

I'm going to hopefully find her to talk to her tomorrow, and i'll be sure to update you guys if I do, and to what happens if anything does!
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Old 2006-10-05, 21:06
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Wow, you do suck with girls if it isn't obvious she likes you, hehe.

No worries though mate, I used to be in that boat. Hop from the self-doubt boat over to the confidence-boat, then from there climb the rope ladder onto the love-boat, and start makin' babies.
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Old 2006-10-05, 21:23
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

I suck with litte girls (aka: help needed)
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Old 2006-10-10, 18:50
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UPDATE: My feelings at the moment can only be expressed with the thumbs up icon and lots and lots of
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Old 2006-10-10, 18:57
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

I just noticed I used way too much.

And really? I hope she does, I reckon if I got to know her better I would really like her.

hahaha yeah I noticed all the tongue faces

Yeah sounds like she likes you, get her screen name or number from your friend! chat it up
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Old 2006-10-10, 19:35
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Um... it turns out shes only 12/13, and im nearly 16... SOMEONE COULD HAVE FUCKING TOLD ME
 #13 
Old 2006-10-10, 19:36
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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Ahh, damn.
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Old 2006-10-10, 19:38
M a t t Y M a t t Y is offline
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

Um... it turns out shes only 12/13, and im nearly 16... SOMEONE COULD HAVE FUCKING TOLD ME

That keeps fucking happening to me..

Fucking young flirty fucking whores
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Old 2006-10-10, 19:54
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quote:Originally posted by M a t t Y:

That keeps fucking happening to me..

Fucking young flirty fucking whores

Man, I dunno, I dont think I should pursue this any further, even though there is only a 2/3 age difference, her age just seems kinda young.

I knew it was too good to be true
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Old 2006-10-10, 20:38
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

Man, I dunno, I dont think I should pursue this any further, even though there is only a 2/3 age difference, her age just seems kinda young.

I knew it was too good to be true

use her for practice and then when something better comes on drop it like its hot and pick up the new shiny thing
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Old 2006-10-10, 20:43
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well you can still practice your flirting skillz with her. just don't let it go any further.
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Old 2006-10-10, 22:43
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unless she is a common tramp, i'd say she's got a thing for you, there buddy. go for it. start something. ask her out to dinner or something. best of luck.
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Old 2006-10-11, 10:58
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You fucking loser. You're not good enough to mod driveby's forum.
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Old 2006-10-11, 11:34
TheSneakyWeasel TheSneakyWeasel is offline
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To the OP; I have similar problems, but made inroads into them last night. Check my thread to see how insecure this bitch is.

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/024180.html
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Old 2006-10-11, 16:26
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I really dont know what to do. She doesnt act or look like shes 13 at all, but I know she is, and I really like her, so one half of me says that age doesnt matter, and as I really like her I should just go for it, and the other half keeps telling me her age and how its sort of wrong and how I should get someone my own age

It's only 2 years age difference, but 13 just seems so young.

I dont think im going to go any further with her
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Old 2006-10-11, 17:36
smallpox champion smallpox champion is offline
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Same thing happened to me this summer. It's really a sad state of affairs and a damn dirty shame.
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Old 2006-10-11, 18:27
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

I just noticed I used way too much.

And really? I hope she does, I reckon if I got to know her better I would really like her.



LOL @ the :P

But yeah dude ,it's very obvious she likes you. and YOU know it !

Oh wait, shes only 13? .....your 16 eh?

Nothing wrong with that as long as shes gone throu puberty.But she sounds kinda immature. hmmm

So go for it .



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Old 2006-10-11, 18:37
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quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:



LOL @ the :P

But yeah dude ,it's very obvious she likes you. and YOU know it !

Oh wait, shes only 13? .....your 16 eh?

Nothing wrong with that as long as shes gone throu puberty.But she sounds kinda immature. hmmm

So go for it .





Nearly 16

I dont know, i'll probably stay as just friends with her.
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Old 2006-10-11, 19:13
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quote:Originally posted by M a t t Y:

That keeps fucking happening to me..

Fucking young flirty fucking whores

if only they would have flirted wiht guys their age when i was tht young

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Old 2006-10-11, 20:08
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

Um... it turns out shes only 12/13, and im nearly 16... SOMEONE COULD HAVE FUCKING TOLD ME
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Old 2006-10-11, 20:10
rs_luvva_91 rs_luvva_91 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

Um... it turns out shes only 12/13, and im nearly 16... SOMEONE COULD HAVE FUCKING TOLD ME




reject mate i wouldn't it's not nice on people her age takin her off the market lol just fool around and stuff

(half the 16 yr olds in hull for some reason are goin out with like 13-14 yr old lasses) it annoys me so much lol none for me :'(
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Old 2006-10-11, 20:29
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quote:Originally posted by rs_luvva_91:



reject mate i wouldn't it's not nice on people her age takin her off the market lol just fool around and stuff

(half the 16 yr olds in hull for some reason are goin out with like 13-14 yr old lasses) it annoys me so much lol none for me :'(



I dunno, but I know that she really digs me, after talking to her for the past few days.

She was telling me about how she has gotten off with a few people my age and older, although I dont know if she was just saying this to make me feel all right about it.
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Old 2006-10-11, 22:24
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Yeh that sounds really reasuring

Well, if you like her enough, and you feel you have enough in common to be more than friends, then go for it, you are still 15 after all.

If you do feel she's too young though, and you'll just be in a situation where you'd feel kind of "guilty" introducing sexual stuff into the relationship, then i wouldn't get involved tbh man, girls at 13 can seem quite mature, but once you get to know them, they have grown up a good deal in a short time, they just don't have the "experience" (non-sexual) that some girls your age might...

It's a choice you have to make man, but for now just see how it goes, but i'd decide what you want to happen sooner rather than later, it could get complicated.
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Old 2006-10-12, 10:25
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I wouldn't rule it out man, but I wouldn't go past making out and some light petting unless she initiates something else, and you'd have to treat her right because, you know, as an older guy you're supposed to know what you're doing.

If it makes you feel any better, my best friend from years ago was thirteen when she was sucking off a 17 year old. She wasn't exactly insecure, and she certainly wasn't being led astray.

So she wants it, you seem like you want it, as long as you do it right and be the older guy that you are, you'll be fine.
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Old 2006-10-19, 17:17
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UPDATE (for anyone that cares).

I met up with her again today. And I just couldnt get it out of my head that she was only 13! She blatantly does fancy me, because she kept trying to hold my hand (which I did, but felt kind of awkward) but not as awkward as when she tried to kiss me, and I was like "Whooaaaa... no, you're only 13!". Kinda killed things off

But yea, nothing is going to happen, although I do hope that we stay friends, as she is a really cool and nice person, just waaaay to young to have a relationship with.

If she was same age as me or maybe a just a year younger, then sure, but nah... 13 is a little too young.
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Old 2006-10-19, 18:22
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quote:Originally posted by reject:

UPDATE (for anyone that cares).

I met up with her again today. And I just couldnt get it out of my head that she was only 13! She blatantly does fancy me, because she kept trying to hold my hand (which I did, but felt kind of awkward) but not as awkward as when she tried to kiss me, and I was like "Whooaaaa... no, you're only 13!". Kinda killed things off

But yea, nothing is going to happen, although I do hope that we stay friends, as she is a really cool and nice person, just waaaay to young to have a relationship with.

If she was same age as me or maybe a just a year younger, then sure, but nah... 13 is a little too young.

Stay friends with her, if you really end up liking her in 2 years, ages 17-15 isnt too bad.
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Old 2006-10-19, 18:39
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quote:Originally posted by A-dam:



Stay friends with her, if you really end up liking her in 2 years, ages 17-15 isnt too bad.

Yea, my brothers going out with an 18 year old and hes 21, so thats an even bigger age difference. But shes only just turned 13 (a month or two), so late 15/early 13 is bad.
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Old 2006-10-19, 18:43
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There's girls that do that to evertone, basically they want you to think they like you, so that you'd like them. I'm not saying it's like that in your situation, but there's plenty like that at my school...
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Old 2006-10-20, 06:03
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DUDE! That chic doesn't like you! It's obvious that someone just told her you were the lonely nerd who never gets any pussy. You don't stand a chance. Go play in traffic.
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Old 2006-10-20, 07:08
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So what if she's only 13?

It's pussy isn't it?

Wait.

Pretend I didn't say that.

-deus-
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Old 2006-10-20, 07:13
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quote:Originally posted by 057list:

DUDE! That chic doesn't like you! It's obvious that someone just told her you were the lonely nerd who never gets any pussy. You don't stand a chance. Go play in traffic.

Fuck off man.

I agree with the guy who says stay friends and wait.
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Old 2006-10-20, 08:50
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

Fuck off man.

I agree with the guy who says stay friends and wait.



I agree with the above post.

15-13, 16-14 and 17-15 can feel weird- not that I've been in that situation but I think if I was I'd feel weird- but heck, when you get to 19 or older people 2-3 years younger is fine.
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Old 2006-10-20, 10:28
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^ but don't wait that long, that's just insane.
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Old 2006-10-20, 12:57
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Lol, I have been for that matter (16 for me, 14 for her and 15 for me and 14 for another her) but I can't say I could have cared less. It mostly depends on how mature she is purely in the head. But in your case I'd agree with the above: wait a year or two.

-edit: typo-

-Ix-

[This message has been edited by GeneralIx (edited 10-20-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-20, 14:00
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congrats. just make sure she isnt a horny bitch that wants to screw everyone.
 
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