Ok there is this girl I really like. In the past she had a crush on me and I didn't do anything about it. Then a little while ago we through a weird kind of spell, she found out that I like her, but at the time she was going through some rough times and she wasn't ready for a boyfriend. She actually moved in with me for two weeks, until it was time for her to move into her place. After she moved out, we didn't talk much until a couple of weeks ago.

Then she has started calling me to talk about some pointless crap. Anyways, she has a deep fear of speaking in front of people and together we have a Speaking class. So she calls me at like 1:00am, to ask me if she can read me her 30 second introduction.

I say yeah and listen its cool, shes just gets really nervous about this kind of thing. She also works for the school and it had taken them a long time to fix my heater in my room. We would talk about that and all this other stuff. Then one totally random day my heaters are fixed. Then she calls me and tells me she pulled up the work order form and forwards it directly to the workers. Making it so I don't have to wait any longer. (I don't know how she did this she doesn't have anything to do with shit getting fixed at the school.)

She also has had many people ask her out, and she has gone with a few of them, but every time it's only been a one date thing. She still complains about being single and how all of her friends are getting engaged and how she made some dude cry. She talks about it right by me so I can hear it, I think. Even though Im not in the conversation.

Every time she calls me, she sounds all sweet like she likes me. I think I really calmed her down after the whole speech thing.

DO you think she is trying to tell me something? Sorry about it being a little long and vague. Thanks for reading.

Yep shes trying to tell you something. Go for it. Unless im wrong. Then uhhh... it was that guy -------->

Just go for it.

Well she's trying to hint. Erm, so be the man and step up to that role!

So... you made it clear you wanted something with her, then she went out with OTHER guys before you... she can't be that interested in you. Sorry.

just to present another viewpoint, she may also think your a close friend to her, one she can talk to about her life without worrying about relationships?

At the moment shes calling you up and talking to you because..



A. She likes talking to you because you help her out alot or she likes the sound of your voice.

B. Shes trying to suss you out and learn more about you. Sometimes girls do nice crap for you to see what you will say to them after.. whether you'll appreciate what you did for them, or if you'll just take it and shove all your problems in her face. Or shes trying to make herself stand out infront of other girls.. by doing nice things she knows you'd like to be done.

Either way, you have a chance, ask her if she likes anyone.. and if shes says yes.. say that you promise you wont tell anyone. If you notice she trys to put it off.. or hesitates telling you by saying things like "well i dont know if i should say i dont know if i like him" or something like that, then she MAY like you. OR if she asks you to guess or something.

Just play by ear, and dont rush into it.



[This message has been edited by SGMasta No.2 (edited 10-06-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by SGMasta No.2:

Either way, you have a chance, ask her if she likes anyone.. and if shes says yes.. say that you promise you wont tell anyone. If you notice she trys to put it off.. or hesitates telling you by saying things like "well i dont know if i should say i dont know if i like him" or something like that, then she MAY like you. OR if she asks you to guess or something.

Just play by ear, and dont rush into it.



We're not in elementary school anymore, that won't work. Just give her the standard "Want some dick?" routine.

Well, no, but invite her over one night to test out your new heater or something...then make some heat of your own.

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

We're not in elementary school anymore, that won't work. Just give her the standard "Want some dick?" routine.

Well, no, but invite her over one night to test out your new heater or something...then make some heat of your own.

Hahaha, I like that idea, but I put my situation in a simple way with this girl. She has issues. With herself and dudes. Last dude she was with was not at all attractive, but the dude had suicidal tendencies, or at least faked them. The guy had some emotional problems, but his parents have A LOT of money, but I don't think she is swallow, but still it might have something to do with it right girls??. I know Im better looking, she has told me so. I don't want that to come across conceded, but it's true.

Things between me and this girl got real complicated when she moved in with me for a little while. I actually went and visited her before she moved in, she was all lovely dubby with me. Laying in my lap, cuddling and all this shit, really flirty. I told her how I felt down there. When she moved in, she became distant with. me. I had already knew she wasn't ready for a boyfriend, she had told me before, but I still told her.

When she lived with me things got, a little crazy, and we didn't talk much after until a little while ago. Anyway, she called me last night piss drunk. She had left one of her friends engagement party. I had called her to see if she wanted to go bowling with me and some other people, but it was already too late.(Everything in the town I live at closes way early, except bars.) She called me all drunk and talked for a while but still I think there is something.