My girl, like so many others, has some small self image issues. In reality she's very petite and has a beautiful body. What are some way to approach being naked around each other without just slipping my clothes clean off in front of her. I'm pretty much 100% okay with being naked, but she is hesitant and I hate feeling like a creep ass when I think about removing her pants. She has made it clear she wants me physically, so that is not the problem.

Girls, pretend you don't like your body (pretend? ha). Would you find it weird for your boyfriend to just like, rip off his clothes and jump into bed, or get out of the shower and change into clothes in front of you, or would you like it?



On a possibly related note, my girl wants to get me off and I want to let her, but how do girls feel about the mess? I'm pretty green in this area and the thought of my load just flying everywhere, or into my boxers, or onto the bed, or onto her stomach, or onto mine, just kind of freaks me out. I'm tidy when I cum, but what is standard procedure for say a handjob? Hell I shouldn't worry, she may be a monsoon of a squirter for all I know.

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Lol! Man, chill seriously.

Things happen in time. She is probably just not quite comfortable around you yet by the sounds of it.

Try being romantic - like for instance some kinda candle-lit stuff. And if she feels comfortable enough, and if shes confident enough in you then she will probably be kool with it all.

As for hand jobs...seriously CHILL manna!! It will go wherever it goes - you wont give a flying crap when shes giving you one because its about 40x nicer than when you do yourself.

Well, it is for me at least! (my ADHD manifests with extreme sexual sensitivity...the only guy I know who has screaming orgasms and even multiples occasionally! lol!)

Enjoy man...and again...chill!

-Sik

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Changing/undressing in front of me makes me a lot more comfortable. Knowing that you don't mind, makes me mind less.

I'll jump in on this with my experience.

Just changing around your girl/etc. is a decent start, show you're comfortable around her, and it'll make her comfortable around you. My girl was also somewhat shy/uncomfortable about the nakedness thing, either randomly, after sex, etc. but pretty quickly got used to it and comfortable, give it some time until she's comfortable simply being with you. Depending on your personality and hers, this could take a bit of time, nothing you can force here.

If you act confident, she might loosen up a bit.

And don't worry about the mess. They invented paper towels for a reason.

quote:Originally posted by sikkoabbadon:



As for hand jobs...seriously CHILL manna!! It will go wherever it goes - you wont give a flying crap when shes giving you one because its about 40x nicer than when you do yourself.



That couldnt be more wrong. Girls suck at giving handjobs, and even when the girl is adequate, it's still worthless. The alternatives are so much better.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

That couldnt be more wrong. Girls suck at giving handjobs, and even when the girl is adequate, it's still worthless. The alternatives are so much better.

No it just depends on the girl most girls suck but like my girlfriend now is AWESOME. No comparison to how good head or sex feels but still like the man said 40X better then doing it myself. Shes really good with her hands ;-) But CHILL THE FUCK OUT and like said before you wont care about the mess. And yea those things usually help probably.

Whooooo... Get naked first. That's the first step. That's a big hint right there.

I love it when my boyfriend gets naked around me. It's not like he just strips down randomly, but he'll lounge around naked after a shower or sex and it's so freaking hot. I'm very self concious about my body, but he makes me feel better by telling me how beautiful he thinks I am, and the fact that he's so comfortable with his body definitely helps me.

Do you guys shower together? That's how I first got comfortable being naked around my ex and now my current boyfriend.

Oh and don't ever make negative comments about her body (even jokingly). Like don't grab her rolls or smack her butt and say "look at that jiggle!" or anything like that, lol.

As for the cum, just have a towel or some kleenex ready. Or get really messy together and then hop in the shower, hehe.

If something in your head says, "Get naked." GET NAKED. If you hear, "Smack her ass." SMACK HER ASS. You have sexual instincts bud, USE THEM.

If you show her that you're comfortable being a naked animal like you wore born and always will be inside, she might just open up the flood-gate of monkey love.