Here's the deal.

My parents were recently divorced, so I'm living with my mom and her boyfriend now. I have to live in the fucking laundry room which is also the litter box room. Her boyfriends daughter is the most annoying bitch ever. 12, never shuts up. We live far away from the city so I can't do shit. After school I have to wait at my aunts house for like two hours for James (moms boyfriend) to get off work, then drive all the way back home, so it's like 6:30 by the time I get home. And when I do, I have to get onto this shitty internet connection that is slower than shit, and constantly goes out.

Moving sounds VERY good right now. BUT, I met this chick, who i'm now going out with. She's never had any real boyfriends before, she's just gotten used twice. She's also never even had her first kiss. We're both 16.

I want to show her what it's like to have a nice/real relationship. I want to show her what love feels like. I want to give her that first kiss. I mean for fucks sake, before she met me she had only hugged like once.

She's not ugly or anything either. She's fucking cute. In about two weeks I'll be able to move back with my dad.



I don't know if I can fucking stand being here where I live though. I havn't played my games in forever because the shitty internet connection and I really miss them. I rarely see her throughout the day too. We've mainly gotten to know eachother through e-mail. But she's SO happy that she finally has a boyfriend, and that I'm nice to her, and I care about her. I can't just leave that behind, but at the same time I don't know how long it's going to take for us to really start hitting it off to a point where we're saying "I love you" and what not.

But if I wait until then, It might hurt her more to have that, then have it just go away. It's happened to me and it sucks shit.

Either way it's going to hurt her.

What should I do?

So if you go live with your dad, you won't be able to maintain the relationship you have with her, right?

It's a tough choice. It all boils down to what you feel is more important to you. If you live with shitty people in shitty conditions and can't do anything about it but you have someone you love more than anything, it might or might not be better than living with someone you can tolerate while feeling somewhat lonely and heartbroken.

Personally, I'd take option two, but it's a tough call.

Option 2? What's option 2? Moving back?

I see what you're saying though. It's a tough decision. If I go back I'll meet old friends, but I won't get another girlfriend for awhile.



[This message has been edited by Its steven (edited 10-05-2006).]

Move. You dont want to be dealing with her baggage anyway, so just move on and get out of your current hell hole.

You are living in a fucking laundry room. Go! get! run!

And just explain things to her, if she cares about you then she ill be sad, but she will also know that it is for the better, and that you will be better off.

how far away would you be?

Cross state. Where I'm at now: Oklahoma.

where I'll be if I move: Idaho.

quote:Originally posted by Its steven:

Cross state. Where I'm at now: Oklahoma.

where I'll be if I move: Idaho.

You're screwed either way. Both states are shitty.

But yeah, move away. Hos come and go, you aint gonna find your "true love" as they say at this time, for certain.

Should you move? Maybe , but growing some balls would be favourite.

At sixteen you're either a child or a man...up to you which.

ps. that wasn 't a flame, just the stone cold truth. Good luck.

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 10-05-2006).]

Stick with the girl, but just makeit clear to your mum that your thinking about moving because she doesn't even trust you to be in the house alone after school.

Yeah, I know if I do stay, It's not like she's going to be my "true love" or anything. But like I said I want to give her a decent relationship...

I was thinking about moving, but not telling her about it. Just one day, tell her I'll never see her again and that'll be that.

I think what i'm going to do is get as close to her as I can within the next two weeks or so, Then move.

But That'll hurt her more if I just up and leave right when it's getting good...

Fuck man...

Move in with your gf? Sounds wierd when your so young, but consider it. Failing that move out an get a flat? The education authorities may subsidise your living costs, especially if you always turn up to school and get at least half decent grades - also get a part time job to help, but one that doesn't get in the way.

Failing that go live with your dad and take her with you?

quote:Originally posted by Its steven:

Here's the deal.

My parents were recently divorced, so I'm living with my mom and her boyfriend now. I have to live in the fucking laundry room which is also the litter box room. Her boyfriends daughter is the most annoying bitch ever. 12, never shuts up. We live far away from the city so I can't do shit. After school I have to wait at my aunts house for like two hours for James (moms boyfriend) to get off work, then drive all the way back home, so it's like 6:30 by the time I get home. And when I do, I have to get onto this shitty internet connection that is slower than shit, and constantly goes out.

Moving sounds VERY good right now. BUT, I met this chick, who i'm now going out with. She's never had any real boyfriends before, she's just gotten used twice. She's also never even had her first kiss. We're both 16.

I want to show her what it's like to have a nice/real relationship. I want to show her what love feels like. I want to give her that first kiss. I mean for fucks sake, before she met me she had only hugged like once.

She's not ugly or anything either. She's fucking cute. In about two weeks I'll be able to move back with my dad.



I don't know if I can fucking stand being here where I live though. I havn't played my games in forever because the shitty internet connection and I really miss them. I rarely see her throughout the day too. We've mainly gotten to know eachother through e-mail. But she's SO happy that she finally has a boyfriend, and that I'm nice to her, and I care about her. I can't just leave that behind, but at the same time I don't know how long it's going to take for us to really start hitting it off to a point where we're saying "I love you" and what not.

But if I wait until then, It might hurt her more to have that, then have it just go away. It's happened to me and it sucks shit.

Either way it's going to hurt her.

What should I do?



Dude, make her happy as much as possible Sounds like she needs it.

I know what its like to be used. I was once a quick fuck and an excuse to break up a marriage. :/

[This message has been edited by sikkoabbadon (edited 10-05-2006).]