what should i do?

i'm heart broken

Don't call her/him take their number out of your cell.

Delete them off your aim.

Delete their IMs.

Do not call them or contact them, don't check up on them

And spend the next few days keeping yourserlf busy and distracted.

Also, flirt a lot.

Go out and screw the first person you see. Seriously.

Just be glad that it is over now and not later when it would have hurtmore.

yeah, flirt a shit load. and no wanking, that makes you more sad, in the long run.

Be sad about it for a few days.

After awhile moping doesn't make you feel better, so get up and move on. It's working for me.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

Don't call her/him take their number out of your cell.

Delete them off your aim.

Delete their IMs.

Do not call them or contact them, don't check up on them

And spend the next few days keeping yourserlf busy and distracted.

Also, flirt a lot.



this is really good advice.

Murder/suicide.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:



this is really good advice.

mm I just got out of a relationship a few months ago, it's very hard advice to stick to, even if it is my own

Checking their away messages will do nothing but hurt you more as you start to move on. There will be things you don't want or need to know.

Especially if it's a chick. We women are spiteful bitches sometimes

Get over it?

Sleeping is good.

Do whatever you want for a while without any regard for self respect. Cry, masturbate, fuck, eat.

Eventually you'll get to the point where you're sick of it and you'll stop.

At that point all that'll be left are the memories, the memories never go.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:



this is really good advice.

I have to disagree with this. However not knowing the situation completely it could very well be the best advice.

Is she a friend? Do you value what you had with her BEFORE you were together?

Personally I don't even consider girls unless I'd be friends with them either way and just because 'us' didn't pan out I wouldn't want to lose a friend.

But hey that's me. Look over the replies here and go with what you think might work. Good luck dude.

It's gunna be hard to get over a girl if you hang out with her all time time after she dumped you snake. especially if it was a serious relationship.

Personally I end up being friends with most of my exs.. but depending how it ends, it's not till after quite some time.

Alcohol/Drugs

There is only one thing to do; get goddamn fucked-in-half drunk, and then move on. It seems rough at first, but it gets easier. Spend time with friends, keep yourself busy and entertained, and as said before, flirt, screw, make a bonfire out of all their shit, delete their contact info, and under no circumstances should you call them.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

Personally I end up being friends with most of my exs.. but depending how it ends, it's not till after quite some time.

Yeah good point, and a true friend and caring person will understand that you needed some time apart to get your head straight instead of thinking you were a prick for avoiding them.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

Go out and screw the first person you see. Seriously.



Not such a good idea when your in your bedroom and the first person your going to see is your brother.

The only real way to deal with your problems is to try to engineer the End Times! (http://www.jerrypippin.com/end%20times.jpg)

*Thunder Rumbles*

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quote:Originally posted by gator:

what should i do?

i'm heart broken

Aww man :/ Were you together long?

If you were spend a bit of time sorting yourself out for a while. You know, like stay in, watch some movies and stuff, play on totse, order a pizza etc.

Then when you are ready...go out on the pull!!