Is it possible to have a good relationship if you still live with your mother and brother. If there would be a responsibilty or privacy problem. The home is more like a duplex with a shared kitchen and laundry room. I give my mother $500 a month. I do intend to go to college, but I will not move out of my mother's home. Eventually When my mother dies I will have to take care of my brother. He is autistic, and mother doesn't want him to be put into a home. I currently have too many responsiblities to leave. I don't know if this will be a problem but i only have a 6 inch penis.

first of all, its not the size, its how you use it. second, you'll find someone who'll wanna be with you no matter what your situation. how autistic is your brother?

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The chicks'll dig the whole "keeping the family together" thing.

it all depends on the family that you have, and your age in a way. I think you'll find someone, and don't worry about your penis. lol.

quote:Originally posted by bassman:

first of all, its not the size, its how you use it. second, you'll find someone who'll wanna be with you no matter what your situation. how autistic is your brother?

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Not as autistic as in the movies he just doesn't clean and eat as he should.

I guarentee you get laid for taking care of your autistic Brother

how old are you? not to be harsh, but a guy who lives with his parents once he's out of school is not someone i'd want to date. i'd see him as dependent, or else enmeshed too closely with his family. i respect your priorities and what you're doing, but i would think that it would be hard to have a fun relationship with so many heavy responsibilities, living with your family and everything. it would be like if you had a kid.

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quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

how old are you? not to be harsh, but a guy who lives with his parents once he's out of school is not someone i'd want to date. i'd see him as dependent, or else enmeshed too closely with his family. i respect your priorities and what you're doing, but i would think that it would be hard to have a fun relationship with so many heavy responsibilities, living with your family and everything. it would be like if you had a kid.



I figured that would be a problem but, I'm not dependant on my mother she is dependant on me. Everything is in her name, but my brother's disability benefit from my father and I pay for it. My mother tends to put alot of stock in the oldest child in the house. When my older sister moved out she almost killed herself. If I move out she will probably do it without anyone to stop her.

I think it would be possible, you just have to find an understanding girl. And it's pretty noble of you to take care of your family like that so I don't think it should be too hard.

As for a 6" dick, don't worry about it, that's a great size, provided you know what you're doing. And even if you don't, you'll learn.

Good luck!

Also, just thought I'd add: Both my ex and my current boyfriend live at home still (ages 21 and 20) and I didn't/don't find it unattractive in the least. And the only reason they live at home is because it's cheaper than moving out.

quote:Originally posted by Harde:

Is it possible to have a good relationship if you still live with your mother and brother. If there would be a responsibilty or privacy problem. The home is more like a duplex with a shared kitchen and laundry room. I give my mother $500 a month. I do intend to go to college, but I will not move out of my mother's home. Eventually When my mother dies I will have to take care of my brother. He is autistic, and mother doesn't want him to be put into a home. I currently have too many responsiblities to leave. I don't know if this will be a problem but i only have a 6 inch penis.

Only way to improve that post would have been to bel-air'd it.

quote:Originally posted by deathtojack:

Only way to improve that post would have been to bel-air'd it.



Wtf is bel air anyway. I think i missed this.

Dude, you will find someone eventually. And if you dont, its not the end of the world.

I've worked with such kids and my main worry about your situation is that you might get too wrapped up in caring for 'rain man jn' to see the cunny being waved in your face. It happens more than you think.

I think you'll find most girls think 6" is pretty much optimal. Bigger tends to bruise the cervix and is hard to deep throat or take up the bum.

I DON'T SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM IS, IF A GUY IS LIVING WITH HIS PARENTS! Anybody who objects to that is so so so dumb. Maybe this culture is different and if that is the case, I respect cultural disparities. But if it is just a "cliche" thing where you assume a guy living with his parents is boring, dendritic and dependent then you need a major reality check.

In majority of the countries of world, kids continue to live with their parents and form joint families. They have huge houses, 6-7 rooms and co-exist peacefully with each other. Take me for example, I left home at 17 to get my education and once I get done with it, I'll either go back to my parents or make my parents come live with me. There is no way that my parents are going to spend the latter part of their lives cooped up in a nursing home. It's all about your family. And if you don't believe in this, you are the biggest loser... for you keep away the most cherished person in your life... you mother who gave you birth!

quote:Originally posted by Harde:

I figured that would be a problem but, I'm not dependant on my mother she is dependant on me. Everything is in her name, but my brother's disability benefit from my father and I pay for it. My mother tends to put alot of stock in the oldest child in the house. When my older sister moved out she almost killed herself. If I move out she will probably do it without anyone to stop her.



Yeah, I figured that. I wouldn't see you as dependent. I would see you as very enmeshed, and would wonder if that would be an obstacle to getting close to you or getting you to have fun. I'm not everyone though. I know a lot of girls who wouldn't think twice about it.

If I were you, I would frame it as "my mother and brother live with me in my house, and I support them" rather than "i live with my mother and brother." It's closer to reality and it makes you look better.