There's this girl that I KNOW likes me, and she sent one of my friends to ask me if I would go out with her, and I told him to tell her to send me an email. Did I do the right thing? I want to go out with this girl, it's just that this happened before I could ask her out... What should I say? Just name a place and a time, and go out? She'll be my first gf, so I don't really know what to do...

Hang out with mutual friends, go to a movie, go for dinner, or rent movies together. It depends what you're both into.

Oh, so you haven't even gone out with her yet, and you've already decided that she'll be your first girlfriend?

This is what you should have done. When your mate came over with to ask you if you'd go out with her, on her behalf, you should have walked over to her and said yes.

In the words of Sebastian (or was is SMG?) from Cruel Intentions, "email is for geeks and pedofiles."

Oh, what you should do is take her to a dark alley. And then... RAPE HER.

Or quit freaking out. its like 6th grade. not a big deal. just chill out a little and try talking to her face to face.

Nice work.

Now just don't mess it up.

1. Try to ring using the phone.

2. Don't ring back if you've already left a message

3. Always have a concrete plan for the date.

4. Always suggest (e.g. "Let's go to the movies on saturday afternoon and grab coffee, shall we?") rather than ask (e.g. "What are you doing on the weekend")

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Oh, so you haven't even gone out with her yet, and you've already decided that she'll be your first girlfriend?

This is what you should have done. When your mate came over with to ask you if you'd go out with her, on her behalf, you should have walked over to her and said yes.

In the words of Sebastian (or was is SMG?) from Cruel Intentions, "email is for geeks and pedofiles."

Although that movie was written before the boom of Internet culture, and probably by a 35 year old man.

She went around it the wrong way. she sould have come to you herself, but since she didn't you are going to have to go to her in person, and make plans. Probably already have something planned out yourself, and inform her of it.