So theres this girl I like alot and like we've been hanging out going to movies and stuff, and I thought she really liked me. So she hangs out with me and my freind topher a few times and I find out today that she likes him, so I backed down for my freind seeing as it's like we're like brothers. Now I feel like complete shit though and I wonder if I would have kept my mouth shut if I'd have a chance with her. So I ask you guys did I do the right thing or am I a fucking idoit for passing up one of the greatest girls I've ever known?

quote:Originally posted by SilentShadow:

So theres this girl I like alot and like we've been hanging out going to movies and stuff, and I thought she really liked me. So she hangs out with me and my freind topher a few times and I find out today that she likes him, so I backed down for my freind seeing as it's like we're like brothers. Now I feel like complete shit though and I wonder if I would have kept my mouth shut if I'd have a chance with her. So I ask you guys did I do the right thing or am I a fucking idoit for passing up one of the greatest girls I've ever known?

Well did you have any chance with her or where you shittily stuck in just friends catagory? SOrry for spelling mistakesi m kinda drunkish. But if you were in the JUST FRIENDS zone then you did the right thing i had that happen before and nothing you can do but be happy for your mate. If you had a chance then well you did fuck up because you probably liked her first. If theres no chance of you REALLY hooking up you did the right thing why not let him enjoy the fruits of some fine ass girl thats great personallity. But like I said if you had some decent chance with her you did fuck up.

Yea I had a chance I guess I blew it damn it I fucking suck...i'm going out to get a bottle of vodka.

quote:Originally posted by SilentShadow:

Yea I had a chance I guess I blew it damn it I fucking suck...i'm going out to get a bottle of vodka.

Trust me the vodska wont help that will just make it worse. NEVER EVER mix high emotions with alcohol. Just tell the girl how you feel and maybe you can win her back man. Drinking never solves anything it will just make you think about the problem more and make you realize even more how bad you want that girl smoke weed if you have to get intoxicated but drinking almost always makes things with emotions just worse. But that sucks trust me ive been there buddy its sucks but oh wellt heres plenty of women out there if theres one thing in life ive learned is theres to many women to get upset over just one no MATTER HOW GREAT THEY ARE. BUt hey you wanta drink that vodka go ahead i havent drank for a month and today i did and wow that shit is prettyy cool although smoking weed is better(to bad i cant because joining service) because it doesnt make your emotions worse it helps you forget.

Nah it's not fair to take her away from my freind, I'll ride it out and get me a rebound in the meantime.

Dont listen to apprentice. Go get your vodka and get drunk. VERY. DRUNK. And then go find yourself a rebound.

You did the right thing, even though your friend is a douche for hooking up with a girl he knew you had feelings for and was hanging out with. Thats a flat out dick move. But dont worry about it too much. Just move on.

Same thing happened to me once. Worked with this girl. Then I quit and moved 'up the foodchain' of jobs. She'd always come visit me. We liked each other. She met my friend (who's the epitomy of hot), and BAM her interests INSTANTLY divert to her.

I could have gotten her back, but I left her to my mate. And my mate, being as honourable as me, told her to fuck off.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Same thing happened to me once. Worked with this girl. Then I quit and moved 'up the foodchain' of jobs. She'd always come visit me. We liked each other. She met my friend (who's the epitomy of hot), and BAM her interests INSTANTLY divert to her.

I could have gotten her back, but I left her to my mate. And my mate, being as honourable as me, told her to fuck off.

QFT. yourr mate should have left her alone as well, did he know you liked her?

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Same thing happened to me once. Worked with this girl. Then I quit and moved 'up the foodchain' of jobs. She'd always come visit me. We liked each other. She met my friend (who's the epitomy of hot), and BAM her interests INSTANTLY divert to her.

I could have gotten her back, but I left her to my mate. And my mate, being as honourable as me, told her to fuck off.

Hey, that's a good friend. Good on ya both for not letting that chick be a cunt.

quote:Originally posted by Garfunkel:

QFT. yourr mate should have left her alone as well, did he know you liked her?

Yeah, he knew. That's why he told her to fuck off. He did nothing to get her to like him except look pretty. Seriously, one day she just came up to him and started hitting on him, INFRONT OF ME. Then, she asked for his number, THROUGH ME.

God damn, I didn't like her enough to care, but it was a big strike to the ego. He loved rejecting her as well. Now I owe him one.

I'll buy him a few pints when we next go out .

[This message has been edited by arquin (edited 10-04-2006).]

just get drunk on that voddy go outand kick the shit outa a few people