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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-10-04, 01:17
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Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
First off, there are very few black people where I live. They represent like 1% of the population around here (although I still ended up with a half-black girlfriend somehow). So my image of them comes from TV and movies mainly.
Still though, all the ones I meet are just like that. They have absolutely no problem hitting on any girl. It's like it's impossible for a black guy to be shy.
I was at the bus station today after work, waiting for my bus, when I saw one of the few black guys I know. We're both waiting for the same bus, and talking and all that. Behind us in line for the bus is this really attractive black girl. (I might be a bit biased, ever since my ex who was half black, but when I say she was hot, I mean it... I find most black chicks unnattractive).
So anyway, all of a sudden, these 2 other black guys come around the corner (I swear this is the most black people I've ever seen in one place outside of TV). My friend is like: "Oh shit, these are my niggaz!" He makes this wierd "WOOP!" like sound, and they come over and do their handshake/hug thing, all like "OH SHIT! WHATS UP DAWG!?"
Then, without even an ounce of hesitation, one of them turns to the girl and is like; "Damn! Is this your girl?"
My friend: "Nah man, but I wish though" (he has a girlfriend already, otherwise I know he would have been hitting on her).
The other black guy to the girl: "Where you commin' from?"
Black girl: "School."
Black guy: "Hey, I gotta run, and I know you gotta run too.. could I get your number? I'd really like to get to know you better."
At this point, I'm boarding the bus, and they board together. He gets her number, then gets back off the bus.
I don't get it. It's not fair. Lol. I wish I could do that.
Have you ever seen a black guy that didn't have game!?
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#2
 2006-10-04, 01:22
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Yeah, right now in my college class, a shy black dude sits near me. I know what you're sayin tho, in terms of black/shy ratio, it is much less than the white/shy ratio. Probably cause they aren't so smart.
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#3
 2006-10-04, 01:23
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
I live in south florida. There are a lot of black people around here.
I know a lot of them that dont have confidence or game. Some of my friends couldnt mack to save their lives.
But when it comes to media, theres a certain standard that black people should be players, and spit lines like it's nothing. It gives the rest of us something to aspire to, I guess.
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#4
 2006-10-04, 01:24
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Your Q: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
My A: The Law of Probability tells us no. Besides, I think you develop game and confidence, you're not born with it.
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#5
 2006-10-04, 01:25
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by ajardoor:
Your Q: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
My A: The Law of Probability tells us no. Besides, I think you develop game and confidence, you're not born with it.
It's a cultural thing though. Black culture puts more emphasis on having game. But still, there are just as many who dont have it as do.
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#6
 2006-10-04, 01:29
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
They're generally known as ignorant and focus on all of the things that most people with any sense find of little importance. They portray themselves as confident because they have color coordinated clothes and fake jewlery to match. Also, in their home lives people are constantly disrespectful to women and I suppose women are treated more like objects to them, unlike a lot of people instead of being indirect they are direct about it and act extremely rude. Females in this environment think it's "sexy" because that's how they've been taught they should be treated, etc.
I will just never understand majority of the black population, nor do I care to. I don't mean to sound biased here, I do know some Africans that are respectable people and I'm friends with many. Just because they're ignorant doesn't mean they aren't good people, just not exactly somebody you'd want around you 24/7. Anyways, that's all I've got.
[This message has been edited by sylph (edited 10-04-2006).]
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#7
 2006-10-04, 01:29
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
So that'd be about half then...still you only see about 1-3 out of 10 white guys with game like a nig.
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#8
 2006-10-04, 01:51
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
I live in New Orleansk, so there are alot of black people. I know what you mean, and I have noticed that too. The weird thing is the black girls are like that too. I am constantly getting hit on by them....and grab my ass.
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#9
 2006-10-04, 02:41
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
As the Only Black guy on totse, I would like to inform you that Black people are not born with game the same way that white people arent born with Sweater vests. However as a suburban black man I shall explain where I beleive the Blackmans confidence comes from.
The same way that you see rappers rapping about material possesions is the same that you will see with other thuggish black guys. The Secret is in the gear (Clothes) and Kicks (Shoes). Look at a black guys shoes, and often you will notice that they are clean, shiny, or Flashy looking. Step on the Blackmans shoes, and you have just committed an act with more severe consequences then calling that blackman a Nigger to his Face.
I hope this is some help.
Just know that I am not the stereotypical Blackman.
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#10
 2006-10-04, 03:19
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Diplomatic_grief:
The Secret is in the gear (Clothes) and Kicks (Shoes). Look at a black guys shoes, and often you will notice that they are clean, shiny, or Flashy looking. Step on the Blackmans shoes, and you have just committed an act with more severe consequences then calling that blackman a Nigger to his Face.
I hope this is some help.
Just know that I am not the stereotypical Blackman.
Actually this is partial truth a lot of girls factor in the shoes. You can judge a LOT by a persons shoes so like he said most blacks have good shoes athat make them seem good quailty man. Trust me its in the shoes. A girl I know even admitted if a guy has shitty shoes she wouldnt even date him. SHoes play a big part and im drunk so i dont know i guesss that half bottle of morgans rum is FINALLY KICKI(NG HIN FOR GOOD peace bitchs. And the cloths/gear/shoes help a lot it.
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#11
 2006-10-04, 03:23
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
maybe I should get some slick "kicks"
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#12
 2006-10-04, 03:29
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
A little bit ago, on the bus ride home, when we were waiting to load, this black chick just started doing that hump-dance thing to me and I was just like in shock.. god it was funny.
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#13
 2006-10-04, 03:44
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
it could be because they're born with slightly more testosterone than other races? a small physical diffference that gets magnified over time due to culture...
that's my theory. I'm white, my shoes are always dirty, and I was single for over a year. hmm...
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#14
 2006-10-04, 03:49
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
80% of them, yes. Being half black myself I was impared for the first nearly 19 and a half years of my life, its been revealing itself for the last 6 months or so and its amazing.
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#15
 2006-10-04, 03:52
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Diplomatic_grief:
As the Only Black guy on totse, I would like to inform you that Black people are not born with game the same way that white people arent born with Sweater vests. However as a suburban black man I shall explain where I beleive the Blackmans confidence comes from.
The same way that you see rappers rapping about material possesions is the same that you will see with other thuggish black guys. The Secret is in the gear (Clothes) and Kicks (Shoes). Look at a black guys shoes, and often you will notice that they are clean, shiny, or Flashy looking. Step on the Blackmans shoes, and you have just committed an act with more severe consequences then calling that blackman a Nigger to his Face.
I hope this is some help.
Just know that I am not the stereotypical Blackman.
Your are not alone...
But really, the whole "black people are ignorant thing" is not true. It is the media that portrays us as so. Also, it is the media the brainwashes many african americans to be ignorant.
And shit, I wasn't born with any game... whatsoever. That sucks when your friends seem to talk to all the ladies. Then have some so sprung they buy you expensive clothes. Then again, I may have quite a bit, but I pretty much the epitome shy. When I'm drunk and don't give a fuck, I have nice fucken lines, but sometimes go too far with the talking. But last time I was on a pill at the club, I somehow wooed a chick so much, she had to call a friend of mines to get my number since I never called her.
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#16
 2006-10-04, 03:57
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
I dunno what it is, but black men are teh pwn.
I met this one the other day, he was sweet as hell. He wasn't quite shy, but quiet... and he still had game. And, I must admit I was somewhat surprised when I put on Muse and he knew every word... even the old songs. And he's a theater major... mmm.
Even better, he had this awesome sense of humor. He always sounds sort of sarcastic, but serious at the same time. And he smiled a lot. *eyes mist over...*
Oh but anyway, I used to work with this really shy black guy, but he was really really sweet.  And I dated a black guy with absolutely no game, and he was clingy and annoying, but he was only half black. I worked with him too... somehow making pizzas together isn't a very romantic thing. Then I dated this other half black guy who had game, but not in a black guy way, more in a witty, sarcastic way.
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#17
 2006-10-04, 04:04
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
^ Them ain't no black men.
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#18
 2006-10-04, 04:04
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
muse is the shit... unintended/muscle museum ftw.
Another thing game and charisma develops over time. When I was at morehouse, and we went to clubs, one of my fellow midshipmen would always try to get numbers and compete with me. Then when I was in california with my cousins, we went to TJ about every weekend. It was always about who got the most numbers, I just wanted to dance and have fun. Then we'd see who could bring someone home that night. Out of the many times we went only like once have they not got a group of girls to come over. Sometimes the result of this was good. But once like 5 minutes after we got home, my aunt got home.
Its ALWAYS about the bitches!
[This message has been edited by PoPxNxRoLL (edited 10-04-2006).]
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#19
 2006-10-04, 05:43
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
I'm half black and I was raised with 4 sisters so when I see a girl i like, I figure the only way to get to know them is introduce yourselves because all women want a man who is dominating and has nuts.
Act like you don't need women and they will flock to you.
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#20
 2006-10-04, 10:51
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
I can't believe no ones mentioned the stereotype of the MASSIVE BLACK COCK. Yeah. Just thought I'd put it out there.
Anyway, yeah, I totally agree. One time at a club, on the dance floor, me and my friend were trying to hook these 3 random british babes. We were dancing with them for like 45 minutes cause we were both too pussy to make a move. Suddenly, out of nowhere, this massive black man with dreadlocks just walks over, without even saying a word to anyone, and started making out with one of the chicks!? And she was loving it! It was fucking bullshit!
So yeah, I agree.
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#21
 2006-10-04, 11:03
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Niggaz don't give a fuck about them hoes. THey just spit game and if it fucks up, they just grab their cocks and yell "I just wanted the pussy anyways!" and they move on to the next bitch.
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#22
 2006-10-04, 11:17
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by sylph:
They're generally known as ignorant and focus on all of the things that most people with any sense find of little importance. They portray themselves as confident because they have color coordinated clothes and fake jewlery to match. Also, in their home lives people are constantly disrespectful to women and I suppose women are treated more like objects to them, unlike a lot of people instead of being indirect they are direct about it and act extremely rude. Females in this environment think it's "sexy" because that's how they've been taught they should be treated, etc.
I will just never understand majority of the black population, nor do I care to. I don't mean to sound biased here, I do know some Africans that are respectable people and I'm friends with many. Just because they're ignorant doesn't mean they aren't good people, just not exactly somebody you'd want around you 24/7. Anyways, that's all I've got.
Your psuedo-science very thinly masks blatant racism.
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#23
 2006-10-04, 12:34
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
.. nah, we just go out more.
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#24
 2006-10-04, 13:08
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Thats cause black people can dress up gangster!
If this was 100 years ago it'd be all the white cowboys getting the girls and none of the black slaves.
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 2006-10-04, 15:25
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
I think it's just that black people are naturally loud. They always seem to be screaming/shouting something. I suppose it's just in there DNA to be that way.
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#26
 2006-10-04, 16:30
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by The Spirit Of Jazz:
I think it's just that black people are naturally loud. They always seem to be screaming/shouting something. I suppose it's just in there DNA to be that way.
wow thats comedy, right?
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#27
 2006-10-04, 18:34
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Sometimes certain Black guys act dumb to relieve themselves of some responsibility. Let's face it now, nobody is surprised when a Black guy acts very dumb. Gangsta mentality.
This is beneficial to their game because they'll be able to take more risks and just blame it on them being a "Typical Black Guy."
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#28
 2006-10-04, 18:50
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:
I dunno what it is, but black men are teh pwn.
I met this one the other day, he was sweet as hell. He wasn't quite shy, but quiet... and he still had game. And, I must admit I was somewhat surprised when I put on Muse and he knew every word... even the old songs. And he's a theater major... mmm.
Even better, he had this awesome sense of humor. He always sounds sort of sarcastic, but serious at the same time. And he smiled a lot. *eyes mist over...*
Oh but anyway, I used to work with this really shy black guy, but he was really really sweet.  And I dated a black guy with absolutely no game, and he was clingy and annoying, but he was only half black. I worked with him too... somehow making pizzas together isn't a very romantic thing. Then I dated this other half black guy who had game, but not in a black guy way, more in a witty, sarcastic way.
*Vomits* Become a waitress at a low-class restaraunt and in 5 months tell me how much you like black guys.
Personally, I hate most black men, and I hate most black women. The majority of black people I meet are loud, obnoxious, and annoying. Also they stink, don't brush their teeth and cheap as fuck.
Now that is only the majority, I have met some really cool black people, and some of my good friends as a child were black.
However, the majority still in urban areas, are ignorant, uppity niggers that wonder why everyone hates them. Or as they put it, "hatin on em'".
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#29
 2006-10-04, 22:44
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by jamez:
Thats cause black people can dress up gangster!
If this was 100 years ago it'd be all the white cowboys getting the girls and none of the black slaves.
Slavery was outlawed 140 years ago dipshit.
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#30
 2006-10-04, 23:24
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Zonko:
Your psuedo-science very thinly masks blatant racism.
Haha, I realised my post sounded very racist. It wasn't intentional, I was about to get off and go to sleep and I wanted to get everything I was thinking in. Then I just said fuck it and just went with what I had not thinking it to be of any importance. Just for the record, I have absolutely no problem with blacks. "Niggers", I can't say I care for them too much, but there's a difference. My close friend from childhood is black so it would be wrong to say I disliked her.
...You get the point 
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#31
 2006-10-04, 23:28
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
To answer your question: Yes, for the most part. But don't feel bad, they are also born with the inherent inability to be fathers, to be succesful, to not not sell drugs, and to not be honest people at all (among many, many, many other things).
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#32
 2006-10-04, 23:42
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
White culture pisses me off more than anything because it comes with this assinine superiority complex. What, so black people generally have different tastes in their material possessions? As if whites are all fucking spiritual incarnations of Christ and live on nothing but bread, wine, water and faith? What the fuck is up your assholes?
And no, blacks, just like whites and everyone else are destined to 4 things: To be born, to know the void within, to try and fill the void, and to die.
You're judging someone's internal struggle and how it manifests in materialism and behavior as if your own shit doesn't stink...get over that bullshit, ignorance is ignorance is ignorance; cracker, booli, spic, chinc, boong, goomba, whatever...we're just ignorant little creatures trying to fill ourselves with insanity to numb the soul-crushing pain inside our being.
And yes, I'm just as ignorant as you guys. Hypocricy is inevitable...but damn, holding ignorance against someone is like being a closet-homosexual that goes gaybashing.
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#33
 2006-10-04, 23:48
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Superunknown:
Originally posted by jamez:
Thats cause black people can dress up gangster!
If this was 100 years ago it'd be all the white cowboys getting the girls and none of the black slaves.
Slavery was outlawed 140 years ago dipshit.
The more you know!!!
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 2006-10-05, 00:18
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by HateBiscuit:
To answer your question: Yes, for the most part. But don't feel bad, they are also born with the inherent inability to be fathers, to be succesful, to not not sell drugs, and to not be honest people at all (among many, many, many other things).
all white people are born to surf, skate-board, and use cocaine... they have the inability to dance... and jump.
They're all nerds/geeks, they all say "dude", "fucking jerk-off!" and "sweet!"..
They all worship satan, they only listen rock, they become pedophiles at age 40...etc,
dude common, let's be real -- stop all this generalization. Your race doesn't define who you are, what you like... or what you'll be.
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 2006-10-05, 01:34
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I live about 45 minutes from NYC, about a 15% black population in my area I think.
I know a few who don't have game.
Shy like someone else said.
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#36
 2006-10-05, 01:41
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by PoPxNxRoLL:
muse is the shit... unintended/muscle museum ftw.
Haha, I'm listening to Unintended right now, and that's the song he started singing.
And Carbon, I didn't say I prefer black men, or seek them out. They're just not all stereotypical, is what I'm saying.
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 2006-10-05, 01:49
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:
White culture pisses me off more than anything because it comes with this assinine superiority complex. What, so black people generally have different tastes in their material possessions? As if whites are all fucking spiritual incarnations of Christ and live on nothing but bread, wine, water and faith? What the fuck is up your assholes?
And no, blacks, just like whites and everyone else are destined to 4 things: To be born, to know the void within, to try and fill the void, and to die.
You're judging someone's internal struggle and how it manifests in materialism and behavior as if your own shit doesn't stink...get over that bullshit, ignorance is ignorance is ignorance; cracker, booli, spic, chinc, boong, goomba, whatever...we're just ignorant little creatures trying to fill ourselves with insanity to numb the soul-crushing pain inside our being.
And yes, I'm just as ignorant as you guys. Hypocricy is inevitable...but damn, holding ignorance against someone is like being a closet-homosexual that goes gaybashing.
Are you on something, or are you just naturally this disjointed?
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 2006-10-05, 02:16
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
*Was typing something...but decided to let ignorance live in ignorance*
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#39
 2006-10-05, 02:34
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Fuck culture.
You'll see the game coming to you. When you realise how much of it consists of bullshit.
Here's a starter, anyone can pull most anything off unless there is a physical barrier.
#1, You have a body, a mouth, and a brain to control them.
#2, Your brain can learn new things.
#3, asking for numbers is an exchange of signals consisting of words(including tone, etc) and body language.
Therefore, when you watch it happen you begin to pick up what's really going on. What is on the girl's mind, and what triggered it in the guy's attitude/form of speech.
Take it from there. Ignore colour and culture. Become an individual. Master control of yourself.
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 2006-10-05, 04:00
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by PoPxNxRoLL:
*Was typing something...but decided to let ignorance live in ignorance*
Speaking of ignorance, the HIV rate in sub-saharan Africa is highest in the world because they're too ignorant to know how to use condoms properly. How ignorant!
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 2006-10-05, 04:16
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
Speaking of ignorance, the HIV rate in sub-saharan Africa is highest in the world because they're too ignorant to know how to use condoms properly. How ignorant!
Also on the note of ignorance, shall we discuss the Balsan school massacre screwup, a large number of school shootings (Bath, Erfurt, Columbine etc) by whites, 90% of white PMs/presidents, various meaningless battles throughout history and hundreds of thousands of white pedophiles and vicious criminals set lose on the streets?
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#42
 2006-10-05, 04:53
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Trapped In A Box:
Also on the note of ignorance, shall we discuss the Balsan school massacre screwup, a large number of school shootings (Bath, Erfurt, Columbine etc) by whites, 90% of white PMs/presidents, various meaningless battles throughout history and hundreds of thousands of white pedophiles and vicious criminals set lose on the streets?
too vague. if you really wanted to pwn me you could point out that white people are more likely to be serial killers or sex offenders per head of population than blacks in the united states (assuming they are). Or mentioned the white suicide rate. oh well, you'll learn.
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 2006-10-05, 05:01
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
too vague. if you really wanted to pwn me you could point out that white people are more likely to be serial killers or sex offenders per head of population than blacks in the united states (assuming they are). Or mentioned the white suicide rate. oh well, you'll learn.
Since when are white people more likely to be serial killers or sex offenders? The only reason for that is, there are more whites than blacks. Blacks are more likely to be criminals in the US speaking ratio-wise. Same with the "white" suicide rate. Check your facts before you make a comeback, sonny. As a side note, I don't judge races by averages, I judge people as people. The point I was tryng to make is, all races do good and bad things.
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 2006-10-05, 16:42
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
Round where I live there are an awful lot of black people, and other ethnic "minorities". Over half the population.
I always get hit on by black guys. Walking down the road, minding my own business. It's bloody annoying.
Mind you, they come up with some of the best lines. One time this guy who had been looking at me missed his bus, and instantly turned round and said "That was your fault!". I was like "What? Why?" and he said "...Because I was looking at you." Which was quite good, but i still didn't want to give him my number.
It's a cultural thing. White men are expected to be gentlemanly and kind, or at least pretend to be. Black men, 90% of the time, just have a completely different attitude to it all.
Jx
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#45
 2006-10-05, 18:52
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Diplomatic_grief:
As the Only Black guy on totse, I would like to inform you that Black people are not born with game the same way that white people arent born with Sweater vests. However as a suburban black man I shall explain where I beleive the Blackmans confidence comes from.
The same way that you see rappers rapping about material possesions is the same that you will see with other thuggish black guys. The Secret is in the gear (Clothes) and Kicks (Shoes). Look at a black guys shoes, and often you will notice that they are clean, shiny, or Flashy looking. Step on the Blackmans shoes, and you have just committed an act with more severe consequences then calling that blackman a Nigger to his Face.
I hope this is some help.
Just know that I am not the stereotypical Blackman.
QFT!
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#46
 2006-10-05, 18:59
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by sylph:
They're generally known as ignorant and focus on all of the things that most people with any sense find of little importance. They portray themselves as confident because they have color coordinated clothes and fake jewlery to match. Also, in their home lives people are constantly disrespectful to women and I suppose women are treated more like objects to them, unlike a lot of people instead of being indirect they are direct about it and act extremely rude. Females in this environment think it's "sexy" because that's how they've been taught they should be treated, etc.
I will just never understand majority of the black population, nor do I care to. I don't mean to sound biased here, I do know some Africans that are respectable people and I'm friends with many. Just because they're ignorant doesn't mean they aren't good people, just not exactly somebody you'd want around you 24/7. Anyways, that's all I've got.
I was genuinely disappointed to hear such ignorant bigotry come out of your mouth. You're better than that.
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#47
 2006-10-05, 20:50
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
Are you on something, or are you just naturally this disjointed?
If you consider that disjointed, meh...but no, that's how I am. I am not a fan of the modern world...it's like not a single one of us can say, "Ooops, we've thrown the world down the shitter so we could own some useless shit that just drags us further into self-destruction...maybe we should stop?" Sorry, topic that's been going through my head a bit lately.
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#48
 2006-10-05, 20:52
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Local Hero:
Fuck culture.
You'll see the game coming to you. When you realise how much of it consists of bullshit.
Here's a starter, anyone can pull most anything off unless there is a physical barrier.
#1, You have a body, a mouth, and a brain to control them.
#2, Your brain can learn new things.
#3, asking for numbers is an exchange of signals consisting of words(including tone, etc) and body language.
Therefore, when you watch it happen you begin to pick up what's really going on. What is on the girl's mind, and what triggered it in the guy's attitude/form of speech.
Take it from there. Ignore colour and culture. Become an individual. Master control of yourself.
You started on a beautiful note and ended on a perfect one. Excellent musician of the mind. 
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#49
 2006-10-05, 23:05
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by The Spirit Of Jazz:
I think it's just that black people are naturally loud. They always seem to be screaming/shouting something. I suppose it's just in there DNA to be that way.
I do not Have Loud written in My DNA. I actually beleive that its something you get when you grow up around Other Loud Balck people. So is Ignorance
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#50
 2006-10-05, 23:39
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
I was genuinely disappointed to hear such ignorant bigotry come out of your mouth. You're better than that.
You're not the first person to think so.I share your same feelings towards myself. Although, I did come back to some what justify myself. I suppose it ither didn't work for you or you didn't see that.
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#51
 2006-10-06, 00:26
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by sylph:
You're not the first person to think so.I share your same feelings towards myself. Although, I did come back to some what justify myself. I suppose it ither didn't work for you or you didn't see that.
Ah no worries if it was just one of those brain asleep/fingers awake comments.
I can hardly comment, considering the nonsense I churn out when I'm stoned/drunk/high on totse (in other words, when I'm on totse).
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#52
 2006-10-06, 00:46
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
Ah no worries if it was just one of those brain asleep/fingers awake comments.
I can hardly comment, considering the nonsense I churn out when I'm stoned/drunk/high on totse (in other words, when I'm on totse).
Haha, yeah. I've been out of it for the past 2 weeks. It's so weird. I haven't been enthused about anything. It's like I'm putting words into my own mouth and just forcing myself to say whatever to make people happy so they can continue on with their lifes not bothering me. I haven't been putting a whole lot of thought in what I say to people, I just ramble on.
Now I'm just living in a blur. It's quite depressing, actually, if you want to know the truth.
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#53
 2006-10-06, 01:08
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by sylph:
Now I'm just living in a blur. It's quite depressing, actually, if you want to know the truth.
I'm a total day dreamer, I think I know what you're talking about. I space out all the time, and I discovered that it's the perfect state of mind to read and think about philosophy.
Is that your kind of thing? I'd suggest one or two titles if you haven't read them already:
God's Debris - by Scott Adams ( you can legally download it for free here http://images.ucomics.com/images/pdfs/sadams/godsdebris.pdf )
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance - Robert Pirsig
Siddhartha - Herman Hesse
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Ehh, I just realised that was random, I'm somewhat shtoned
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#54
 2006-10-06, 01:15
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
I'm a total day dreamer, I think I know what you're talking about. I space out all the time, and I discovered that it's the perfect state of mind to read and think about philosophy.
Is that your kind of thing? I'd suggest one or two titles if you haven't read them already:
God's Debris - by Scott Adams ( you can legally download it for free here http: //images.u comics.com/images/pdfs/sadams/godsdebris.pdf (http: //images.u comics.com /images/pd fs/sadams/ godsdebris .pdf) )
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance - Robert Pirsig
Siddhartha - Herman Hesse
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Ehh, I just realised that was random, I'm somewhat shtoned
No, no! Perfect. I love philosophy and anything to read I can get my hands on I'll check them out, thanks.
You're interesting. My web adresses are in my profile if you have ither one of the listed programs. 
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#55
 2006-10-06, 01:56
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
If you girls are done exchanging recipes and talking about your feelings, maybe we could get back to why nigs have so much game.
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#56
 2006-10-06, 03:13
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
NO
I know a few who are, but i know one who is so... I don't even know.
He won't look you in the eye, doesn't stick up for himself and takes no for an answer all the fucking time.
We were partying at my house one night because we were going paintballing the next day. One guy had to go home and grab some stuff but wasn't back right away so i told him (black kid) to call because i didn't have the number. He was like "you comming back dude? O... ok bye". i was like "wtf is he coming?" Him "no hes sick".
So i call back and all i said was "dude cmmon it'll be a fucking blast" and he was like "yeah sure i'm on my way"...
LOL, and in grade 9 some chick grabbed his ass (she was decent looking) and he spun around and pushed her...
The point in that ramble: Not all black people are smooth.
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#57
 2006-10-06, 03:13
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
I was genuinely disappointed to hear such ignorant bigotry come out of your mouth. You're better than that.
Lol, who the fuck are you? Jesus!?
Leave your judgemental bullshit at the doorstep, because you're one of those faggots who are racist, but try and make everyone else appear racist.
Man up you little bitch.
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#58
 2006-10-06, 03:15
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
Leave your judgemental bullshit at the doorstep
Oh my god, you really make it too easy sometimes.
For fuck's sake, stop taking the sport out of this.
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#59
 2006-10-18, 01:14
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
THIS IS WHAT THIS IS:
RAP/HIP HOP ARE IN AND MORE GIRLS LIKE BLACK GUYS NOW WELL FOR NOW
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#60
 2006-10-18, 01:30
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Jerusalem:
THIS IS WHAT THIS IS:
RAP/HIP HOP ARE IN AND MORE GIRLS LIKE BLACK GUYS NOW WELL FOR NOW
Hell naw, black dudes been layin pipe in white ladies since the plantation days. They just got that nigga game son.
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#61
 2006-10-18, 01:58
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:
White culture pisses me off more than anything because it comes with this assinine superiority complex. What, so black people generally have different tastes in their material possessions? As if whites are all fucking spiritual incarnations of Christ and live on nothing but bread, wine, water and faith? What the fuck is up your assholes?
And no, blacks, just like whites and everyone else are destined to 4 things: To be born, to know the void within, to try and fill the void, and to die.
You're judging someone's internal struggle and how it manifests in materialism and behavior as if your own shit doesn't stink...get over that bullshit, ignorance is ignorance is ignorance; cracker, booli, spic, chinc, boong, goomba, whatever...we're just ignorant little creatures trying to fill ourselves with insanity to numb the soul-crushing pain inside our being.
And yes, I'm just as ignorant as you guys. Hypocricy is inevitable...but damn, holding ignorance against someone is like being a closet-homosexual that goes gaybashing.
We get to act assinine, we owned them for hundered of years.
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#62
 2006-10-18, 02:02
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by SlapinFoFun:
Hell naw, black dudes been layin pipe in white ladies since the plantation days. They just got that nigga game son.
If by "nigga game" you mean "the ability to rape", then yes.
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#63
 2006-10-18, 15:04
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:
If by "nigga game" you mean "the ability to rape", then yes.
QFT! Lmao!
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#64
 2006-10-18, 15:07
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
Oh my god, you really make it too easy sometimes.
For fuck's sake, stop taking the sport out of this.
Me making assumptions about people's stupidity, and you making judgements based on race are different.
I am allowed to call people stupid, you aren't allowed to make other people feel like they are racist, when in fact you are the racist.
The only counter example is if I was myself stupid, and all I did was call other people stupid. That is the analogy.
However I'm not stupid, and calling others stupid is allowed.
So you are not only a racist, but also stupid and make bad comparisons.
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#65
 2006-10-18, 18:20
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Re: Are all black guys born with confidence and game...?
quote:Originally posted by PoPxNxRoLL:
muse is the shit... unintended/muscle museum ftw.
Unsteroetypical FTW!
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