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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-10-03, 01:35
The Ace Of Spades1411 The Ace Of Spades1411 is offline
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Default Shit, I just lost a year long relationship...

And now I feel really really shitty... And advice I can use to help make me feel better?
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:36
Gackt Gackt is offline
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Default Re: Shit, I just lost a year long relationship...

Listen to depressing music in the dark.

It's true, the only way out is in. Wear the pain away by focusing on it.

[This message has been edited by Gackt (edited 10-03-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:37
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quote:Originally posted by Gackt:

Listen to depressing music in the dark.

It's true, the only way out is in.

Don't forget the alcohol.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:44
letsnukechina letsnukechina is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Gackt:

Listen to depressing music in the dark.

It's true, the only way out is in. Wear the pain away by focusing on it.



Indeed.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:52
chubbyman25 chubbyman25 is offline
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Welcome to the club. I also lost a year-long relationship just two days before our anniversary. Happened just a couple weeks ago. Doesn't help much, I know, but you'll get over it eventually. Just try to do things to get your mind off of it.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:52
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Life is fluid. It moves on and changes all the time. You're unhappy now, but in time you'll be happy again. Probably happier than you were before. Life lasts a long time and there are many events yet to come that will both delight and intrigue you.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:53
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i usually just stay out with friends...
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Old 2006-10-03, 02:00
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I always do the alcoholic wreck for a month or so, then I shag a couple of women and forget about relationships till the next one hits me.
 #9 
Old 2006-10-03, 02:19
Uber Uber is offline
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I told my girlfriend of two years we should take a break. Calm down man. Other fish in the sea.

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Old 2006-10-03, 02:51
p0niti p0niti is offline
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Masturbate, listen to Relient K/Jason Mraz/something happy, run a couple of miles, and/or eat something gigantic. Those seem to help when I'm depressed.
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Old 2006-10-03, 02:58
quoted4TRUTH quoted4TRUTH is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Uber:

Shit rolls downhill, my advice is never put hope in anything so you're never disappointed when things go to shit.

Especially girls, like Neil Young says, only love can break your heart. Feel better, champ.



[This message has been edited by quoted4TRUTH (edited 10-03-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-03, 03:05
ShootingStar ShootingStar is offline
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Keep yourself busy, with friends, away from anything that reminds you of them...about 4 months ago I got out of a 3 year realtionship, it feels like the end of the world, but trust me..it passes. just try not to focus all your attention on the breakup...its hard..I know
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Old 2006-10-03, 03:09
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quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Don't forget the razor blades.

fixed
 #14 
Old 2006-10-03, 03:13
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: Shit, I just lost a year long relationship...

weed, cigarettes, solitude, revelling in melancholy, crying, bitching at people, provoking confrontation and physical violence... all works pretty well, all pretty cathartic. oh, write poetry, but don't show it to anyone 'cuz chances are it'll be terrible.
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Old 2006-10-03, 03:41
mek777 mek777 is offline
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hang out heaps with your friends, meet new people and do your best to occupy yourself
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Old 2006-10-03, 12:31
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You get over a woman by getting under another
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Old 2006-10-03, 18:46
reformed_spammer reformed_spammer is offline
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Teh weed!
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Old 2006-10-03, 19:49
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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Murder.
 
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