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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-10-02, 20:52
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How are girls supposed to look.
Why does everyone like these really thin girls now and days? I dont understand, what is so attractive about no boobs and a flat ass? I mean if you think about it, a girl with no ass is just like looking at a dude from behind. Girls are supposed to be curvy, they are supposed to have wider hips than guys, that way they can give birth. I find it so much hotter when a girl has curves and an ass. I dont like skinny girls!
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#2
 2006-10-02, 20:54
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
I tottaly agree with you. I hate those freakishly skinny girls, I like them to be a little Curvey, but not too curvey of corse... And those girls who are freakishly thin but then have those massive tits, just wrong. I like everything to be in perfect proportion, not too big but not too large either
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#3
 2006-10-02, 20:56
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
I don't know with what kind of boyz you hang out with, but they sound like faggots to me, this entire topic is idiotic for the simple fact that with "people these days" you actually mean "my best buddy".
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#4
 2006-10-02, 21:00
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
How come all I see on TV here in the states and in magazine ads are these grossly thin girls and women?
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#5
 2006-10-02, 21:40
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Obiwanshinobi000:
Why does everyone like these really thin girls now and days? I dont understand, what is so attractive about no boobs and a flat ass? I mean if you think about it, a girl with no ass is just like looking at a dude from behind. Girls are supposed to be curvy, they are supposed to have wider hips than guys, that way they can give birth. I find it so much hotter when a girl has curves and an ass. I dont like skinny girls!
Because women, like yourself, see these ridiculous standards they can never live up to, but they try anyways. They spend millions of dollars on diet pills, gym memberships, surgery and all the frills of weight loss. People who own cosmetic companies, clothing chains, cosmetic surgery practices... their businesses all thrive on insecure women trying to live up to unrealistic standards. And that's why the media perpetuates the 'perfect woman' with no cellulite, big, perky breasts and long, slim legs. They make a shitload of money.
As far as I know most real men don't even like the freakishly thin Lindsay Lohans and Kate Moss' of the world. Real men like real women. Sure there are lots of guys who buy all the bullshit about what makes a woman attractive, but women do the same thing. Men aren't all tall, dark and handsome with rippling muscles and a six pack you could grate cheese on.
The point I'm trying to make here is that women should stop bitching about the media's unrealistic portrayal of women. If you take care of yourself physically and are confidant with yourself you have nothing to worry about.
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#6
 2006-10-02, 21:43
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Skinny as in not fat(in the mid section)
Size 0 and 1's and 2's can look pretty sick to me.
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#7
 2006-10-02, 21:48
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Silverfuck:
Men aren't all tall, dark and handsome with rippling muscles and a six pack you could grate cheese on.
Around here they are.
I just stay in my room now. 
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#8
 2006-10-02, 21:51
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Literate and stylish
Kissable and quiet
Well thats what girls dreams are made of
And thats all you need to know
You have it or you dont
You have it or you dont
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#9
 2006-10-02, 21:53
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
It's fucking stupid to complain one standard for attractiveness (skinny) then just replace it with another one ("curvy").
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#10
 2006-10-02, 21:56
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by 256:
It's fucking stupid to complain one standard for attractiveness (skinny) then just replace it with another one ("curvy").
You fucking own. This is what I've been wanting to say, but couldn't get it in the right words. In the thread where Stingray posted his "girlfriend", everyone was complaining about how only "little kids" like skinny women and "real men" like "real women" (i.e., chunky bitches). I personally don't care one way or another, but it's just ridiculous to arbitrarily decide that one standard of attractiveness is "not right".
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#11
 2006-10-02, 22:16
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Id have something good to say, but im bitter about ANOTHER goddamn popup.
So instead you get this:
Are you fucking kidding me? Sex is only good when i can feel their bones creak and snap with every thrust. If they arent crippled by the time im done with them, or they dont have all their ribs showing, then they need to lose some weight.
Ok but really i had an ex who was probably "too skinny" by many standerds, but was (and still is) absolutely gorgeous. And there are some girls who are "chunky bitches" who can be model hot. It all depends on how they carry themselves, and what other attributes they have. Beautiful eyes are more important than being alittle skinny or a little chunky in my book.
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#12
 2006-10-02, 22:31
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
There are two main factors responsible for the skinny girl trend:
1) Gay fashion designers.
The argument goes like this:
- The majority of elite fashion designers are male.
- The majority of male fashion designers are gay.
- The majority of gay fashion designers have a predeliction for young boys.
- The majority of pederastic fashion designers choose catwalk models for their shows who most resemble young boys.
Makes sense, I can't comment on how rigorous the argument has actually been constructed though, I've never come across a paper or anything on it.
2) The lolita fetish
It's quite a joke, the way Western society handles this matter.
It's an argument for another post, but it's absurdly obvious that men in the West are attracted to girls who are below the age of consent.
I'm NOT saying pedophilia here.
There is something fundamentally wrong about sexual attraction to prepubescent human beings. And there is something fundamentally evil about those who molest prepubescent human being.
I'm talking strictly about post-pubescent teenage girls.
Maybe I'll write more about this later, I'm kind of tired (I was at a house party last night and haven't slept yet, drugsarebadetc).
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#13
 2006-10-02, 22:36
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
I can't comment on how rigorous the argument has actually been constructed though
I can: That's a load of fucking shite.
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#14
 2006-10-02, 22:45
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:
Literate and stylish
Kissable and quiet
Well thats what girls dreams are made of
And thats all you need to know
You have it or you dont
You have it or you dont
(TBS is awesomeness!) That's random but onto what you were saying... I'm glad guys like not totally skinny girls because I'm not like a toothpick but I'm not really that big either and that makes me feel good 
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#15
 2006-10-02, 22:47
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Girls of almost any shape or size can be attractive. If being trendy makes these girls feel more secure, I think it's a good thing.
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#16
 2006-10-02, 22:50
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by I Want Revenge:
(TBS is awesomeness!) That's random but onto what you were saying... I'm glad guys like not totally skinny girls because I'm not like a toothpick but I'm not really that big either and that makes me feel good
No, they suck...hard :sad:
I think I lost a small portion of my self respect by posting them in the first place. But in my defense, I dont listen to them. They were just in a friends away message and seemed relevent at the time.
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#17
 2006-10-02, 22:52
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by 256:
I can: That's a load of fucking shite.
Hardly. It's a simple and adequate conclusion to draw from:
1) The predominance of male homosexuals at the highest level of fashion design.
2) The predominance of female models who physically resemble young boys, which has been a regular feature over the last decade, during which time both public morality has loosened and the fashion industry has undergone an economic supernova.
The only questionable part is the assumption that most of those gay fashion designers are attracted to the form of young boys.
On the other hand... fucking come on.
Anyhow, that's one plausible explanation. Got anything better?
[This message has been edited by fullcircle (edited 10-02-2006).]
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#18
 2006-10-02, 23:03
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
Anyhow, that's one plausible explanation. Got anything better?
Of course, you can't forget to add that oh so important mention of the 'heroin chic' trend.
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#19
 2006-10-02, 23:14
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
^
Oh yeah, 'Cory Kennedy' style eh?
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#20
 2006-10-02, 23:18
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by 256:
It's fucking stupid to complain one standard for attractiveness (skinny) then just replace it with another one ("curvy").
It's not "fucking stupid", because you are replacing a standard that is not healthy physically with one that is. A girl like from Stingray's thread is attractive and is well physically capable of bearing a child with her good hips and providing nourishment with her large, natural breasts.
The difference is in what is healthy as being attractive to what is not healthy as being attractive.
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#21
 2006-10-02, 23:26
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
So you would all turn Kate Moss down. That's cool... so would I 
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#22
 2006-10-02, 23:41
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:
So you would all turn Kate Moss down. That's cool... so would I
Dude of course... Have you seen that chick's knees? Pointy as a witches hat, by Jaysus.
A man has to have standards.
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#23
 2006-10-03, 00:08
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
reading this thread has somehow worsened my feelings of dissatisfaction with my body.
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#24
 2006-10-03, 00:21
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Mad skinny chicks are grody. Thin + Curvy for the huge fuckin win.
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#25
 2006-10-03, 00:38
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:
reading this thread has somehow worsened my feelings of dissatisfaction with my body.
Don't tell me, you've got pointy knees too?
Man what the fuck! Who's in charge of reality exactly? I've had enough of this!
Every time I find an apparently hot girl, it's all sweet at first. But then, sooner or later, in someway or another and usually in multiple ways, she always has flaws.
Flaws!
It's just disgusting, I can't live with it any more. Women are all supposed to be perfectly formed in every possible respect, looking exactly like the airbrushed, well-lit, professionally photographed, plastic surgery butchered, etcXinfinity, women seen on TV, film, and ads.
Seriously, wtf.
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#26
 2006-10-03, 00:40
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Silverfuck:
Because women, like yourself, see these ridiculous standards they can never live up to, but they try anyways. They spend millions of dollars on diet pills, gym memberships, surgery and all the frills of weight loss. People who own cosmetic companies, clothing chains, cosmetic surgery practices... their businesses all thrive on insecure women trying to live up to unrealistic standards. And that's why the media perpetuates the 'perfect woman' with no cellulite, big, perky breasts and long, slim legs. They make a shitload of money.
As far as I know most real men don't even like the freakishly thin Lindsay Lohans and Kate Moss' of the world. Real men like real women. Sure there are lots of guys who buy all the bullshit about what makes a woman attractive, but women do the same thing. Men aren't all tall, dark and handsome with rippling muscles and a six pack you could grate cheese on.
The point I'm trying to make here is that women should stop bitching about the media's unrealistic portrayal of women. If you take care of yourself physically and are confidant with yourself you have nothing to worry about.
Im not a girl you jackass, Im just tired of my girlfriend saying how she wishes she so thin or some shit.
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#27
 2006-10-03, 00:43
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:
Don't tell me, you've got pointy knees too?
Man what the fuck! Who's in charge of reality exactly? I've had enough of this!
Every time I find an apparently hot girl, it's all sweet at first. But then, sooner or later, in someway or another and usually in multiple ways, she always has flaws.
Flaws!
It's just disgusting, I can't live with it any more. Women are all supposed to be perfectly formed in every possible respect, looking exactly like the airbrushed, well-lit, professionally photographed, plastic surgery butchered, etcXinfinity, women seen on TV, film, and ads.
Seriously, wtf.
exactly. seems like a lot of guys hold the view that you just satirized.
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#28
 2006-10-03, 00:43
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Obiwanshinobi000:
Im not a girl you jackass, Im just tired of my girlfriend saying how she wishes she so thin or some shit.
It's not our fault your girlfriend is an intellectual slackwit who has been brainwashed by the media. You chose to go out with her, not us.
quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:
exactly. seems like a lot of guys hold the view that you just satirized.
If you want to go out with the cunts that think like that, go ahead. It just leaves more of the intelligent men for the intelligent girls.
[This message has been edited by Byss (edited 10-03-2006).]
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#29
 2006-10-03, 00:53
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:
exactly. seems like a lot of guys hold the view that you just satirized.
I think it's just one of the differences between boys and men. Unfortunately guys either develop into one or the other as adults, and no points for guessing which group outnumbers the other.
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#30
 2006-10-03, 01:58
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
I dunno man. I wouldn't want a girl taller or girthier than me. I'm in good shape, and I prefer girls that way too. Not aneroxic-skinny size 0, just fit. I don't like large breasts either. Actually, as long as a girl isn't completely flat-chested, I don't really care how big her tits are. Most of the guys I know have similar attitudes. It always seemed to me that girls were harder on themselves and other girls, than guys ever were. Just my $.02
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#31
 2006-10-03, 02:06
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
I am pretty tiny, but it goes with me being short. I don't think you can sum girls into two categories. I'm skinny because that's just the way I am and I don't have freakishly oversized tits that are too large for my body but on the other hand, I don't have a flat ass. Girls can be skinny and still look normal/good. It goes the same way as "chunky" girls. There are many different body types and girls can look good in just about all of them.
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#32
 2006-10-03, 02:08
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Yoplait:
I am pretty tiny, but it goes with me being short. I don't think you can sum girls into two categories. I'm skinny because that's just the way I am and I don't have freakishly oversized tits that are too large for my body but on the other hand, I don't have a flat ass. Girls can be skinny and still look normal/good. It goes the same way as "chunky" girls. There are many different body types and girls can look good in just about all of them.
HOLY SHIT YOURE ALIVE
I was literally going to make a thread in SG tonight asking if you'd ever been seen after meeting Captain Sketchy
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#33
 2006-10-03, 02:10
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Haha. Aw, I shouldn't have posted yet then. Yes, i'm alive. I haven't even got around to meeting him yet, we've made arrangements and none of them seem to have happened.
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#34
 2006-10-03, 02:39
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
quote:Originally posted by Obiwanshinobi000:
Im not a girl you jackass, Im just tired of my girlfriend saying how she wishes she so thin or some shit.
Whoa skippy, cool it. Innocent mistake about your gender. My post still applies to females in general though, it really makes no difference if you're female or not.
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#35
 2006-10-03, 03:08
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
I like skinny chicks, I like curvy chicks. I don't like girls that i could cut myself on, or girls that spill over any part of their clothing. I've dated both of the first two, and the only hookups i've regretted have been with chunky chicks.
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#36
 2006-10-03, 03:50
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
The only reason why so many girls are going so fucking anorexic is because of the image that T.V. is shoving down our throats all the fucking time. We are taught from a relatively young age that to be beautiful and wanted by any member of the male species, we have to be skinny with long, straight hair and have to have on a shit load of make-up so that no one would recognize us if they saw us without it. Most of the girls mimic the styles they see on T.V. so that they can get a cute boyfriend, but if any girl is even half way intellegent, she'll see that if she wants a truly good guy - by that I mean one who has a brain and knows how to use it in ways other than to get laid - she doesn't have to put herself through all that shit. All she has to do is go by her own aussehen, or appearance. And most of you guys are just supporting this dumb-ass theory that girls have to be perfect to get any man; go to Hell, you stereotypical cock-sucking bastards.
Learn to get yourselves a woman that likes the way she looks and who's not afraid to be different,
germangirl
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#37
 2006-10-03, 03:56
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
there is soooo much animosity towards chunky chicks.
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#38
 2006-10-03, 03:58
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
from what im getting out of this thread girls are supposed to look like walruses- 250lb cheesburger munching monsters. fortunately for the people in this thread fat chicks are readily available in america, comprising about 70% of the female populace.
i WISH people would aspire to being lean but look around you, theres 10 fatties for every lean person.
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#39
 2006-10-03, 04:00
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
hmmm, i see all of your points. my personal prefrences are personality over body. i know this sounds like the whole "im differnt" kind of thing but really i myself am very social i like to have intresting convorsations and i love sitting and talking almost as much as i love kissing. Anyday i would choose the kind talkitive socail type over the snobby prep type (not saying preps are snobby)... for example me and my girlfriend ...we dont look like we belong together our freinds are very different yet we still remain together because of personality. I am a "prep" and she is a "goth/punk" and she constantly tells me how much she loves it when i tell her she is perfect and beutifull in my mind... there are two concepts to understand
1. mind over matter.
just because they dont look good or dress "normal" or are to skinny or too fat it doesnt matter. whats in the head is what matters.
2. beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
that statement is true and no advertising should have the power to change what you find beautifull although a swaying in opinion may happen often... just listen to your heart and be happy with yourself ... someone out there is looking for you
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#40
 2006-10-03, 04:01
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Synergy is great.
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#41
 2006-10-03, 04:06
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
Spain did something interesting with not allowing overly skinny models to go on the runway.
You need to weigh atleast 123 at 5 9' etc.
Some dumb model replied "I don't think it's fair to be discrimiated against because of my weight"
How the hell does she think all the chubby chicks who can't get on the runs ways feel!
But yes, like full said. Models are chosen for the boyish features. Incredibly skinny and flat to show off the clothing better.
Whatever, I don't care if they're skinny, I just wish they'd fucking crack a smile and clean up their mascara once and a while.
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#42
 2006-10-03, 04:21
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
I think females just need to accept the way their bodies are. Of course, this will never happen, but it's a nice notion. If you're genetically predisposed to being super skinny, fine. A little bigger? Just as good. You shouldn't aim to be something that's completely unrealistic. The media keeps shoving down our throats that we have to be 5-10 and 125 lbs to be pretty, even though most runway models are ugly as fuck. And Tyra Banks got fat, which skewed my whole perception of reality. But I'm still happy with myself. 
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#43
 2006-10-03, 20:02
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Re: How are girls supposed to look.
The only line I firmly draw is that they can't be fat.
When I'm in the right mood(really friggen horny) I will let some girls I normally wouldn't do slide. By this I mean the girl I let suck my dick a while ago had a BMI of 27.5 Under normal circumstances I wouldn't touch anything over 25
I find most girls sex-able at the very least as long as they aren't fat. I like the tall ones, I love the short ones; big boobs, flat chested; big ass, no ass at all; long hair, or a buzz cut. It depends on my mood but I like 'em all. I find girly-girls cute but I prefer a girl who likes to get her hands dirty, dykey girls too.
Right now I'm kinda with a girl who is absolutely amazing in bed. She's around 5'5" 130-140 pounds. Big hips and very full 36-B's. She's bisexual and has a mohawk, I love how her closely cut hair feels on the sides... I'm just fucking weird, what can I say.
A little about me: I'm 5'11", slim and more than attractive enough to be a little picky when it comes to how much a girl weighs. I'm not a punk or anything "alternative" like that so there is no real explaination for some of my weird tendancies which I only scratched the surface of in this post.
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