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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2006-10-02, 13:25
yes i know my enemy yes i know my enemy is offline
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&totse, I'm worried. Last night my girlfriend and I had sex without a condom. It was nothing too serious, we just got carried away, and (quite literally) fucked around a bit. I didn't ejaculate or anything, but I'm still quite worried because I heard that precum can sometimes contain sperm.

What should I do?

Oh and I really didn't go in that deep, just a couple inches at most.
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Old 2006-10-02, 13:28
Havoc737903 Havoc737903 is offline
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Doesn't matter she could still get pregnant.

Chances are she's probably not, but if she is good luck with that buddy.
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Old 2006-10-02, 13:36
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quote:Originally posted by Havoc737903:

Doesn't matter she could still get pregnant.

Chances are she's probably not, but if she is good luck with that buddy.

Pretty much that, hope for the best... precum DOES contain sperm and can get her pregnant, but at least you didn't go all the way in..

hope for the best dude, that's all you can do
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Old 2006-10-02, 13:36
Zonko Zonko is offline
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"They're the teachers that taught me to fight me"

*Jives a bit*

You can't really get a pregnancy test yet, although you could probably get a morning after pill. In future, wear a rubber.
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Old 2006-10-02, 14:40
Aurilius Aurilius is offline
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Yea, Morning After pill...
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Old 2006-10-02, 15:21
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I've been far further than that, and let me tell you, you'd have to be the unluckiest cunt in the world, or the most virile (congrats), for her to be pregnant right now.
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Old 2006-10-02, 16:17
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

I've been far further than that, and let me tell you, you'd have to be the unluckiest cunt in the world, or the most virile (congrats), for her to be pregnant right now.



Thats pretty much the truth of it. Everyone wants to rag on how dangerous the 'pull-out' method is. But honestly, if you dont ejaculate, you're pretty safe. I've used it quite a few times, and I know guys that have sworn by it for years and nothing ever happens.

Unfortunately, this is nature. And theres always a chance that it could happen. As he said, you'd have to be really unlucky. And even when she's not pregnant, doubt starts to eat away at you until you're in pretty much of a panic when she's a few days late. But I wouldnt worry too much about it until theres further evidence.
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Old 2006-10-02, 18:47
OrganizedChaos OrganizedChaos is offline
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Congradulations, another teenage father!
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Old 2006-10-02, 21:53
Tikolx333 Tikolx333 is offline
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Dude go with her to Planned Parent hood, if you dont know where it is in your area, google it. Then go there and tell them you need the morning after pill RIGHT NOW. And I think it's like 30 bucks or 45 if you buy 2. Have her take that, and it should help out. Dont risk it, go and do something about it like plan B.
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Old 2006-10-03, 00:24
XHippie HunterX XHippie HunterX is offline
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Ummm yeah. Plan b. Then get her ON BIRTH CONTROL. Wearing a condom and having her on birth control is ALWAYS the safest way to go.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:02
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quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Wearing a condom and having her on birth control is ALWAYS the safest way to go.

If my girl was on birth control I would probably just want to pullout and not use a condom. Seems like it would still be really safe.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:03
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I trust in the pill. I used to come inside her all the time when she was on the pill. Then she stopped taking it, so we had to go back to using a condom. These are dark times...dark times.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:04
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Why even pull out if she's on the pill? I was on the pill for years and I never got pregnant until I stopped taking it.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:06
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quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Why even pull out if she's on the pill? I was on the pill for years and I never got pregnant until I stopped taking it.

She likes to swallow?

I am glad that such a dirty thought never occurred to your pure, untarnished, God-fearing mind.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:08
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quote:Originally posted by Byss:

She likes to swallow?

I am glad that such a dirty thought never occurred to your pure, untarnished, God-fearing mind.

That was my first thought too. And surprisingly enough, my girl actually asked me to do that to her this weekend. It shocked the hell out of me. And I couldnt even get off during the oral part
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:10
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You couldn't get off because the LORD was smiting you!
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:11
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quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

You couldn't get off because the LORD was smiting you!



Somehow, I always figured a smiting would be more intense...
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:33
The Ace Of Spades1411 The Ace Of Spades1411 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by yes i know my enemy:

&totse, I'm worried. Last night my girlfriend and I had sex without a condom. It was nothing too serious, we just got carried away, and (quite literally) fucked around a bit. I didn't ejaculate or anything, but I'm still quite worried because I heard that precum can sometimes contain sperm.

What should I do?

Oh and I really didn't go in that deep, just a couple inches at most.

I've gone un-pretected a few times, even when she was ovulating, however thats spelt. She never got pregnant. About 3 times.
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Old 2006-10-03, 01:42
Melba999 Melba999 is offline
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Can't get a bitch pregnant if you're fucking him in the ass
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Old 2006-10-05, 05:15
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Well, I am in the same boat as you buddy. My girlfriend and I use a condom all the way through intercourse about half the time, a quarter of the time I use the condom at first, but then pull it off after a bit (too desensitizing) and then pull out, and the other quarter I just pull out w/o using a condom at all. We had a rather wild night last week, and lately she has been complaining of tender breasts. I never cum inside, so chances are still pretty slim, but I am somewhat worried. Are asian chicks more likely to become pregnant? That is a stupid question but I refuse to take it back. Oh, and feel free to be jealous of me because of the asian thing. Yes, they are everything you have ever dreamed of.
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Old 2006-10-05, 05:38
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quote:Originally posted by Ackronymph:

Are asian chicks more likely to become pregnant?

I had a good laugh at that one.
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Old 2006-10-05, 05:43
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quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I trust in the pill. I used to come inside her all the time when she was on the pill. Then she stopped taking it, so we had to go back to using a condom. These are dark times...dark times.

Oh mate! I feel for you Order yourself some of those non-latex condoms. Expensive, but much thinner
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Old 2006-10-05, 05:45
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



Thats pretty much the truth of it. Everyone wants to rag on how dangerous the 'pull-out' method is. But honestly, if you dont ejaculate, you're pretty safe. I've used it quite a few times, and I know guys that have sworn by it for years and nothing ever happens.



Tell that to my buddy steve twice he got a girl pregnet from using just the pull out methoud after a 3rd SCARE he finally is starting to use condom sense. Get her on the pill that shit is bomb. NO worries and you can either pull out like me if your paranoid, or cum in her. I usually pull out to be extra safe but a few times ive cummed in her(Not that much greater for me but its nicer for her becuase theres no stop in sex)
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Old 2006-10-05, 06:24
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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You guys would have to be extremely unlucky for her to get pregnant.

My boyfriend and I have had a few accidents and I've never gotten pregnant.
 
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