Well I just got my testicles mashed into a messy slurry by someone I liked and had been wanting for awhile and instead of slinking around I want to get myself out there.

Now I'd like some advice.

Meeting NEW people, what to say to them as a complete stranger, determining their relationship status, dealing with rejection and any other words of advice.

Also where the best place would be to find someone in a small town. I go out to bars but it seems that offers nothing.

Just anything else that could help my chances like how to dress, cologne to wear, etc, etc.

quote:Originally posted by Trousersnake:



Meeting NEW people, what to say to them as a complete stranger,

HAI!

Only joking. Its easy to find new people through friends. Pretty much all i do.

Well a guy or more is hanging out with this hypothetical girl you meet, make a comment about him being her boyfriend. Eg. You are talking about if you want to go shopping with her, you ask "So does your boyfriend want to come with?". Then she will either confirm if he is or isn't the boyfriend.

Then ask "So who is?"

If she says noone, say something like: "A pretty girl like you? single? that's hard to believe"

It's late at night, just some random crap I came up with.

just sort of flirting/finding out if she has a boyfriend at the same time. let her know you're interested, but dont say it directly straight away or that'd put her off. Just flirt to start off with and let it go from there.

http://www.plentyoffish.com

quote:Originally posted by Whore of God:



If she says noone, say something like: "A pretty girl like you? single? that's hard to believe"



WHAT THE FUCK. Don't post advice if it is shitty advice.seriously, i hate it when people think stuf will work and post it on here, try it out. I bet you think complementing a girl lots and bringing her flowers is a sure fire way to go to.

OH YEA I GOTS A NOTHER SPECIAL THING TO SAY "YOU HAVE NICE EARLOBES" it makes you stand out from the croud.

^ Is probably another piece of advice you would give.

quote:Originally posted by Henry the VIII:

http://www.plentyoffish.com

The only decent dating site is AdultFriendFinder, and OKCupid is alright for a bit of fun. Never fucking met anyone through them, so they're the best of a shitheap.

Heckler is right. It's late and I cbf contributing anything of much value to you at this point.

The foundation is basic social skills. Saying Hello, what's up and so fourth.

Next is advanced where you can start laughing and so fourth with them making them smile and that... There's usually something funny going on around you. Like for e.g a girl with a white afro came into college, and I used that to spice convos up.

Next is flirting and using body language. This is getting complicated since body language is mostly sub concious. So bring it to reality, and start standing powerful.

Then, you will be fine. But like for me, I had to start small. Took me a month to get eye contact fully congruent, and being able to hold it for like 12 seconds (Has happend) with a girl I haven't met yet.

Chloroform. Cheap and effective.

Ask jackketch for some 'handy hints' on how to keep them after this step.

I met my husband at barnes N nobles. It was very romantic...I offered him a sip of my drink and he informed me that he was in fact a cannibal.

^You are really really weird. Not weird in a good way, but weird as in you have mental problems.

Maybe you should look into getting some help for that?

He wasn't really a cannibal...He was employing what I like to call "Humor", my little hombre.

Admit it, it was funny!:P