k so my girlfriend and myself...have a somewhat healthy relationship....and she puts herself down sometimes...even tho shes amazingly beautiful...and she has her problems with ex-assholes and boyfriends and shit and i help her out with it......and i tell her how much i love her all the time...and then...she questions me like..."why are you still with me?" ..."gusy would have dumped me already"...like...what does this mean... i keep telling her i love her...thats why im with her...does this mean anything????



Cory

For you, TheComradical.........

quote:My girlfriend and me have a somewhat healthy relationship. She'll put herself down sometimes even though she's amazingly beautiful. She also has her problems with assholes and ex-boyfriends which I try and help her out with it. I tell her how much I love her all the time but then she questions me. "Why are you still with me?", "Other guys would have dumped me already".

What does this mean? I keep telling her I love her and that's why I'm with her...

Does this mean anything?

From what I gather, she has no self-esteem, and is utterly confused why you want to be with her.

Try and figure out, why, exactly, you "love" her. Spend time understanding your logic behind it, then tell her.

Really, if you can't think of a single reason, maybe you should listen to her a bit more closely...

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 10-02-2006).]

Periods are better than elipses in most instances, and they only have 3 periods in them. I'm sorry I couldnt even read your question.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

From what I gather, she has no self-esteem, and is utterly confused why you want to be with her.

Try and figure out, why, exactly, you "love" her. Spend time understanding your logic behind it, then tell her.

Really, if you can't think of a single reason, maybe you should listen to her a bit more closely...

that kinda sums her right up....thanks man



Cory

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

that kinda sums her right up....thanks man



Cory

No worries, friend. It's what I [try and] do.

Gus you're a nice person!



Well, it sounds like she has absolutely no confidence or self esteem and that shes begging for compliments and such. I say you tell her to knock it the hell off. But thats just me. Im not really the one to take advice from.

shes just insecure.



oh yeah you probably dont want to tell her you love her ALL the time. it looses its bite pretty fast.

Whenever she is feeling a bit down and insecure about herself, she asks you questions like that and you give her a self-esteem boost with your reassurance.

thanks everyone....i shall take your advice and use it to my knowledge...

Cory