I swear to god she is the most perfect girl put on the face of the earth. she is a gorgeous nice cheerleader, good girl. social. all that good stuff. ive been on 2 dates with her, but i honestly cannot tell if i have a chance with a relationship with her. I am tryin to take this slow, get to know her really well and try to become her boyfriend.

Could anyone give me insight or tips or...i dunno. anything?

stop doubting yourself! she wants to date you, you're the man, that's it. no further questions. be your awesome self.

Relax and just treat her like a PERSON. Seriously, do that. Be kind to her, and maybe you two will form a relationship.

If she wasn't at least toying with the idea of keeping you around, sport, you wouldn't have gotten the second date.

Relax.

maybe you should start seeing yourself as a hot commodity, and think about her being excited to date you.

im unsure as to when to bring up the idea of a relationship when we go on another date

Don't. Unless/until you're positive she's up for one. I imagine she is, but don't go throwing it out into the open right away. Let her fiend a little.

IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO FUCKING TAKE IT!!!!!!

if she didnt want you, you wouldnt have seen her a second time.. unless you held a knife to her throat and forced her..

quote:Originally posted by Ripsaw3689:

im unsure as to when to bring up the idea of a relationship when we go on another date



wait. just wait.

Relax, be yourself and don't even try.

If you are thinking about how and trying to do things right, you are bound to screw up because she likes you for who you are and it will just seem unnatural behaviour if you don't act like yourself and worry too much.

The lesson learned is: Don't think. Just do.

quote:Originally posted by Ripsaw3689:

im unsure as to when to bring up the idea of a relationship when we go on another date

...don't. Just let things naturally progress. If she wants one, she'll mention it.