She walways invites herself over to smoke weed which i dont mind BUT SHE DOESNT FUCKING INHALE. WHAT A WASTE. I told her my concerns and she just laughed. I said if you didnt care about my concerns we should just break up. And I left.

Yeah well, she always invites herself over. I keep telling her that its a waste of money (money which i need as a uni student), but she never inhales. Like she'll protend once in a while but when she thinks im not looking she doesn't. WTF is up?

Oh and by the way, I couldnt give a fuck about my girlfriend, I just want the sex. If she's costing me money, I might as well get a fucking prostitute.

I'm not a jackass, I was hurt so many times by being nice I decided to block out my emotions and only listen to my basic instinct of procreating and surviving (Y).

I never once implied I was looking for a relationship. She's just a clingy bitch. I even told her once that I wasn't interested in a romantic relationship. Its like shes challenging herself to change me/make me care. Maybe thats why she pretends to smoke weed? She thinks if I see her as an equal she can break through my emotional wall?

Why are chicks attracted to fix-em-up cases. Why can't chicks who are looking for sensitive, committing guys LOOK FOR senstitive committing guys. Why do they try to change guys who aren't what they want into what they want?

The weed thing isnt really the problem, its more like what it represents with what we have together.

If it helps I'm 17 and she's 19, both of us are Uni students. She is currently interning in Chicago which is about 3 hours from my uni (Purdue). She's from Sweden and her name is Cajsa.

Yes

Why don't you try and do something together that doesn't involve smoking weed and having sex. You don't put the effort into a relationship - you get nothing out of it.

Do something fun. You never know, you might feel different.

quote:Originally posted by Foamy:

She walways invites herself over to smoke weed which i dont mind BUT SHE DOESNT FUCKING INHALE. WHAT A WASTE.

My friend stop right there, that's a dead giveaway. What she wants from you is clearly surprise buttsx0rs.

Wow so I smoke up, that doesnt mean I spend all day in the basement smoking up. We do stuff, go out to dinner, the movies, the park, snowboarding, and a bunch of other stuff. Its just that it annoys me that she tries to be something shes not, and costing me money for it. Like if she doesnt like smoking up she doesnt have to pretend. Ive tried telling her this and she just gives excuses. Its fucking annoying. Weed is expensive.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

My friend stop right there, that's a dead giveaway. What she wants from you is clearly surprise buttsx0rs.

Well that IS what our marriage consouler told me....Ill give it a shot!

quote:Originally posted by Foamy:

Well that IS what our marriage consouler told me....Ill give it a shot!

Another day, another romance saved. Ho ho ho

*struts off into the desert*

but any serious input here?

Just let her down gently and tell her you don't feel the same way anymore - boo hoo!

Sounds to me like you need to extract your head from up your arse, mate. Sorry but it does. So she 'wastes' a bit of hash ? For fuck's sake...maybe she just enjoys taste/smell of it or the fact it means she's spending time with you.

I guessing your irritation isn't really about her not inhaling and that your relationship was holed below the waterline anyway.

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 09-30-2006).]

wasn't/isn't this in SG?

quote:Originally posted by rs_luvva_91:

wasn't/isn't this in SG?

Yes it is! Thanks for the tip off.

OP, don't double post!