Ok Im terribly out of practice with the girls, so forgive my n00bishness.

Last week I met a nice girl at a party. Chatted a bit, asked her if she'd like to meet for coffee sometime. She said yes, I got her number and told her I'd text her.

I did that a few days later and she said she was working everyday, but would like to meet at a place near where she works. So I texted her & asked her to let me know when shes free and we could meet up then. She said she would.

Thats the last I've heard, several days now. Im thinking this is a "Thanks but no thanks" from her. I'm quite prepared to move on and try another girl, but this girl was really really lovely. Any ideas? Should I text her again and ask her out again?

Thanks

Don't text; ring. Don't ask; suggest.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Don't text; ring. Don't ask; suggest.

Good advice.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Good advice.

yep...



If you call/text her and she still says she is busy, then give up, it might be a nice way for her to tell you no.

Sounds like the balls in her court. She's probably just busy. It doesnt really sound like she was blowing you off. Just give her time to call you.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Sounds like the balls in her court. She's probably just busy. It doesnt really sound like she was blowing you off. Just give her time to call you.

Bang on.

Will take the call/suggest stuff, thanks

I'll leave it a week and maybe SUGGEST we go for coffee then. See if she gets back to me before that.

Thanks

Simlar situation to me. I sent a text two days ago suggesting coffee, no reply. So i'm gonna leave it a while.