i want my girlfreind to start excercising but i dont know how to tell her.she not fat but she does have some jiggle to her body.but overall she is sexy as hell to me.i love her to death!but imafraid if i tell her to excersise she will take it the wrong way and start crying and think that i think she is fat.so girl of totse ur help is needed.thanks brad

why do you want her to start exercising? is it because you want her to look better, or because you think it will make her feel better? or do you just want her to have something in common with you (assuming you exercise)?

i don't even know why i ask this question when i already know the answer.

It upsets you that she isn't in peak physical condition?

Get over it.

invite her to go workout with you. Don't say a thing about her figure, or anything like that. No matter what you say, she will take it the wrong way.

the reason i want her to is because she real self confidental bout her self and her body. she used to workout for sports but she stopped.

first you need to join the gym, then after a few days say thats your lonley and you'd really like it if she kept you company you can talk to he when shes on the treadmill just a burnin those pounds away



[This message has been edited by NiGhT PrOwLeR (edited 09-29-2006).]

Well, if she's got issues you're only trying to help. Encourage her to go running by running with her. Tell her you think it will make her feel better, blah blah.

She's probably just attention whoring. I'm not trying to put your girlfriend down, but I absolutely hate it when women bitch about their physical appearance and they don't try to do anything about it. They just want people to say "You're not fat!". It's quite irritating.

Talk to her about it, just say you would like to start excercising, to make yourself feel better. You would like it if she would join you to be your supporter, or something along those lines.

quote:Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:

first you need to join the gym, then after a few days say thats your lonley and you'd really like it if she kept you company you can talk to he when shes on the treadmill just a burnin those pounds away



Thats the Best answer

I talk about how I feel fat, but it's because I gained like 5 pounds in January and I can't seem to shake them. My husband says he likes my bigger boobs/ass, but I still feel bad about it. What sucks is I AM doing stuff to try and lose the weight, but it's tough.

This is what happens after you have a child and you are no longer in your teens!

Are you my boyfriend...?

I agree with the people who say work out yourself, and have her join you. Odds are your body wouldn't suffer from some work, as well.

I like my women in peak physical condition.

women are supposed to jiggle you idiot, be thankful you aren't dating some kind of sports dyke

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

I gained like 5 pounds

5 pounds? Big frigging deal.

I can't put on weight to save my life, I eat like a trooper and can't get past 8 1/2 stone (120lbs). I have a 30 inch waist, I'm 6'1" tall and can never ever find trousers that fit me. I usually have a BMI of around 15 and so am clinically underweight.

Garrrgh.

quote:Originally posted by PanzerFaust0:

women are supposed to jiggle you idiot, be thankful you aren't dating some kind of sports dyke

Haha, I like you!

After careful review of brad's posts, I'm fairly confident that he is not my boyfriend...*shifty eyes*

Do it, tell her you cant respect someone who doesnt respect themselves. There are way WAY to many fatties in the US. Nipping it in the bud now can only help down the line. Just about everyone who "has a little flab" will turn fat later on down the road.

quote:Originally posted by Das Troll:

Do it, tell her you cant respect someone who doesnt respect themselves. There are way WAY to many fatties in the US. Nipping it in the bud now can only help down the line. Just about everyone who "has a little flab" will turn fat later on down the road.

I see an eating disorder in her future if he says this to her. If she has a legit self confidence problem talk to her about it. Ask her if something would help it like working out. Offer to go with her but leave the decision up to her and tell her you love her no matter what you just want her to be happy and happy with herself.

quote:Originally posted by PanzerFaust0:

women are supposed to jiggle you idiot, be thankful you aren't dating some kind of sports dyke

Bwaha. New favourite person.

Jx

quote:Originally posted by 4skins:

invite her to go workout with you. Don't say a thing about her figure, or anything like that. No matter what you say, she will take it the wrong way.

Casually say, "hey do you want to go jogging?", or "Want to go to the gym with me?".

quote:Originally posted by Diplomatic_grief:

Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:

first you need to join the gym, then after a few days say thats your lonley and you'd really like it if she kept you company you can talk to he when shes on the treadmill just a burnin those pounds away



Thats the Best answer



damn straight

quote:Originally posted by Jessic:

Bwaha. New favourite person.

Jx

Does he make you feel better about being overweight?

Tell her you want to her to ride you and that its always been a secret fantasy of yours. Tell her you want to feel her sweat dripping on you and for her to take advantage of you, and not for you to fuck her, but for her to fuck you. Tell her you want her to get as physical as possible, until shes sweating and panting and dominating you, for hours, for reps, for sets! Uh... I mean...

The fat will be lost in the sweat, and hey you didnt have to call her fat!