well I guess I better say I have always had a problem with premature ejaculation, and Iv never been able to get rid of it. Iv fucked 3 girls many times who I have been very close to and have tried many things to cure the problem, Painkillers, alcohol, weed, prozac masterbating as long and often as possible but it doesnt work. It just happens just like that and its over

Does anybody have any tips?

By the way the prozac and painkillers worked for a while but I want to avoid fixing a problem with drugs, I also built up a resistance to it.

Alcohol and weed ditto, I just want healthy natural and good sex

Cut your schlong off lol

Use a condom. It kills some of the sensation.

Also, if you go to a sex shop, you can buy desensitizing spray. A couple sprays on the head and you'll last a lot longer.

Theres also viagra or whatever alternatives that are out there.

Other then that, just try not to let yourself get too into it. Devote part of your mind to enjoying it, and part to thinking about something else, like school. Thats really all you can do.

It's a psychological problem. Once you get over that you can fuck for England

Try some kegal exercises as well and learn to control your orgasm. Not only will you last longer, it'll feel better too when you finally "let go".

Just use the million dollar spot. I'm surprised the problem hasn't been eradicated...

1. try and make the girls orgasm faster

2. relax and don't worry about it

3. kegels

using desensitiving cream? why should he even bother having sex if he's going to use that?

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

1. try and make the girls orgasm faster

2. relax and don't worry about it

3. kegels

using desensitiving cream? why should he even bother having sex if he's going to use that?



I'd still enjoy it...but then, I get more out of getting her off then getting off myself.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I get more out of getting her off then getting off myself.I'm the same way. I also have the same problem, it really sucks.

Pwnt by teh pen00r

try a position that "grabs" your dick less and you can do more "poking" I know tht's kind of crude, but hopefully you get what I'm trying to say... lol

CaspeR

My ex and I had sex many times then she left for some shitty mission trip for a few weeks...

when we had sex again I almost came a early (in the first 10mins) on average I go about 45mins.



What I did was focus on her facial expressions, or think of something to take my mind of off it, like somthing I can do to my truck (what it would look like with a new paint job ect..)

Just take your mind of the sweetness thats happening downstairs.

I wouldn't suggest pulling out when you think your going to cum, it doesn't help once you've gone past a certain stage.



Also I have never came when we would fuck fast, I always came when I would go slow and go deep in her, try speeding up and see what that does for you...

EDIT: This is without a condom on...

Sex with a condom sucks, I have never been able to come with one on.

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Fuck a hedgehog, I heard it clears it right up.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Also, if you go to a sex shop, you can buy desensitizing spray. A couple sprays on the head and you'll last a lot longer.

Theres also viagra or whatever alternatives that are out there.

There's a spray that does that? That's... strange.

And the alternatives the viagra are crap. It's essentially a placebo effect.

Just think about other things. That's about all you can do, and everyone else has pretty much said the same thing.

Learn to clench your PC muscle. After a while, it'll be soo strong that hours of sex is possible. I've become so used to doing this now that I just naturally tense it during sex and I can last anywhere from 30 minutes to 3-4 hours. When you cum after that amount of time, you blow a huge load and the orgasm is insane. It gives you a lot more time to pleasure your woman too, and they'll be very thankful for this. If you're good in bed, you can keep any woman around and get it as often as you want.

I once turned in an English essay that had a whole paragraph on this very subject. It was supposed to be about our modern societies fixation on perfection, but the teacher was a bitch and I thought it was funny.



I have nothing to contribute, however. Good luck with that.

Yea, kegels work. I did a some for a few days and I seemed to go longer. It may have been a psych. type thing, or the fact I want something new to "fit" into. You should definitely give those a try, and keep doing them, no half assed routine like mines.

quote:Originally posted by another pint:

And the alternatives the viagra are crap. It's essentially a placebo effect.



Well now that you said that, they're not going to work.

There's a band called Premature Ejaculation. They're pretty fucking creepy to listen to at night.

Maybe you can rub fabric against your head enough to desensitise it to a certain extent.

stop when you think your goona bust, wait a couple seconds and go again

quote:Originally posted by Iskalla:

Cut your schlong off lol



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Masturbate more. Get a pocket pussy or something. And don't try to use drugs to help the problem. Do it right before sex.

Or, when you're about to nut, think about non-erotic things.

quote:Originally posted by Gith:

Fuck a hedgehog, I heard it clears it right up.

Lol. And to the OP, since when has the feelings of the female mattered

quote:Originally posted by Body Break:

Lol. And to the OP, since when has the feelings of the female mattered

Asshole

Get "Delay Spray". It makes the penis have less sensation. You spray in on your head, and on the shaft. Works wonders.

I've used it once. Totally blew her away. When I came it was like...fucking, download a clip of "Peter North". Imagine that. Like a fucking water hose.