I have irrational fear that my boyfriend will dump me and move on to someone better. I don't know how to make it better so can someone please give me advice? And serious advice please.

Stop worrying about things you cannot change.

Que sirrah, sirrah.

theres nothing irrational at all about that. i mean let's face it, you're hardly a catch, and even lowly guys have ambition of moving up. trading up is a basic, but im guessing he's nothing special if he considered you in the first place.

I bet you are Mr. Handsome, Sweep Her Off Her Feet now aren't you? I know I must not be that bad to get some of the guys I have gotten before. I'll try not to worry about it but I always end up doing it anyway...

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sex is a joke

Don't listen to this fucktard I Want Revenge.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Que sirrah, sirrah.

Que sera sera, its spanish you weirdo

Okay, there is something about you that I can't quite put my finger on, but it just bugs the hell out of me.

Anyways.

Like Xiao Mei said, I would not worry about something that in most cases is inevitable and there is nothing you can do to change it.

I sometimes have the same fear come over me as well when I'm deep in thought, and it gets so overwhelming it's almost scary to a point. What do I do to calm myself down?

I tell myself that yes, perhaps someday my boyfriend and I will come to a point in our relationship where we no longer desire each other. Maybe we may fall out of love. There is no point in worrying about it now because it gets you nowehere, trust that please. Be happy with what you have right now. You love each other now and that should be good enough. If he so chooses to leave you for someone else, then so be it. Let him move on and you move on as well. I do my best to put everything I possibly can into any relationship I have so that in the end if it comes to that I can say I gave it my all and if that wasn't good enough, then who needs him.

I don't know if that helps, hopefully you get something out of it anyways.

quote:Originally posted by I Want Revenge:

I bet you are Mr. Handsome, Sweep Her Off Her Feet now aren't you? I know I must not be that bad to get some of the guys I have gotten before. I'll try not to worry about it but I always end up doing it anyway...

your bet would be accurate. and don't worry, ive seen a shitload of girls dating girls obviously beneath them. good thing is that most of them realize their error and move on. hopefully that would happen with your boyfriend, you pathetic crybaby.

Please remember in future:

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quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Stop worrying about things you cannot change.

Best advice thus far.

If you can control something, there is no reason to worry about it so long as you do your part.

If you can't control something, there is no reason to worry about it at all.

Familiar with something called the serenity prayer?

It goes as follows:

God, grant me the serenity

To accept the things I cannot change

The courage to change the things I can

And the wisdom to know the difference

Regardless of theology, it holds an important truth to finding happiness.