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 #1 
Old 2006-09-28, 17:26
zoomzooma zoomzooma is offline
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Do you guys (or girls) ever feel more attraction towards a person after they were in a dream of yours (a positive one)?

Everytime I dream about a girl I know, or even one that my brain makes up, I always feel a slight 'crush' which can last a few hours or a few days. It's not a bad thing I suppose, but I've always wondered why that was. I'm sure if the 'crush' was 'nurtured' (general thinking of that person) it could last a very long time.

If it is a girl who didn't exist the 'crush' lasts a hour or two and is usually a sort of longing towards that person.
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Old 2006-09-28, 17:29
XHippie HunterX XHippie HunterX is offline
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Probably just your subconscious mind retaining a fixation on whoever it was you dreamed about. Repeatedly bashing youself in the head should help.
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Old 2006-09-28, 17:33
rocker rocker is offline
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quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Probably just your subconscious mind retaining a fixation on whoever it was you dreamed about. Repeatedly bashing youself in the head should help.



I like this idea.
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Old 2006-09-28, 17:37
JumpRopinJesus JumpRopinJesus is offline
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Just sounds a bit crazy to me.

I thought dreams were just usually your brain sorting through shit and kinda distorting things as it "filed" them? I could be wrong.

But anyhow, no, after I dream about someone else, I think that they are some kinda psychic that's getting into my head.

Enough to drive one insane, it is.
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Old 2006-09-28, 17:56
ericstotle ericstotle is offline
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Same here.

Everytime I have a dream about a girl and me kissing/hugging/etc, I always end up liking her.

The subconscious is telling the conscious.
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Old 2006-09-28, 18:23
lauren7249 lauren7249 is offline
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i'm the same way! i look at that person differently, as if the events of the dream actually took place. i even feel an urge to inform them of the dream. don't do it though; it seems creepy!
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Old 2006-09-28, 18:24
camper velourium camper velourium is offline
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damn, i thought this thread was about nocturnal emissions.
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Old 2006-09-28, 18:34
Strakynyar Krongoth Strakynyar Krongoth is offline
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quote:Originally posted by rocker:



I like this idea.



I concer...
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Old 2006-09-28, 18:50
rs_luvva_91 rs_luvva_91 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i'm the same way! i look at that person differently, as if the events of the dream actually took place. i even feel an urge to inform them of the dream. don't do it though; it seems creepy!



same ere creepy ain't it lol same about telling them as well that'd be fucked up lol
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Old 2006-09-28, 19:41
i11uminati i11uminati is offline
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Damn, I have that all the time. I did, however just have a bad one about my girlfriend, but I got over that pretty quick.
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Old 2006-09-28, 19:52
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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I had a dream about this girl in my class that up until then I had sorta passed over. Not because she was ugly; she was one of the popular girls, but I had been concentrating on her blonde friends Anyway, after a year of ignoring her I had a dream about her.

It was pretty fucking strange: my Bible class (this was a Christian school) had formed an Inquisition and decided to stone her. I got really sad but didn't stop them, and went away before they actually started the stoning. Then I was sitting morosely in an empty classroom and she came in! I jumped up and was telling her how sorry I was that I hadn't saved her, but she just smiled at me, forgave me... and kissed me! Then I woke up. It wasn't a wet dream, or very erotic at all; I just felt so " " from her loving, forgiving kiss... or something. I don't know.

But yeah, from that dream on - for two years - I had a massive crush on this girl. Until one day I realize hey, wait, she's not the beatific, forgiving angel with warming kisses of pure love from my dream.

...I've never told anyone this before. Now that I think of it, it IS pretty fucking strange.



[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 09-28-2006).]
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Old 2006-09-28, 21:13
KAZAKA KAZAKA is offline
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I had a dream this one time. In this dream, I had met the most beautiful girl i've ever seen, and I had fallen in love with her. I remember spending the day with her and such. I woke up loveing this girl so deeply, and i couldn't understand. I never had that dream ever again, nor that girl ever reappear in any of my dreams ever again. I somewhat miss that beautiful figure, and somehow, that dream will always be in the back of my mind.
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Old 2006-09-28, 21:18
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quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:



Reality's a bitch.
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Old 2006-09-28, 22:00
Drips Drips is offline
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quote:Originally posted by zoomzooma:

Do you guys (or girls) ever feel more attraction towards a person after they were in a dream of yours (a positive one)?

Everytime I dream about a girl I know, or even one that my brain makes up, I always feel a slight 'crush' which can last a few hours or a few days. It's not a bad thing I suppose, but I've always wondered why that was. I'm sure if the 'crush' was 'nurtured' (general thinking of that person) it could last a very long time.

If it is a girl who didn't exist the 'crush' lasts a hour or two and is usually a sort of longing towards that person.

Oh yeah I've had that.

Unfortunately, lately its been about the chick that I just broke up with and am slowly getting back together with.
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Old 2006-09-28, 22:07
Iskalla Iskalla is offline
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quote:Originally posted by KAZAKA:

I had a dream this one time. In this dream, I had met the most beautiful girl i've ever seen, and I had fallen in love with her. I remember spending the day with her and such. I woke up loveing this girl so deeply, and i couldn't understand. I never had that dream ever again, nor that girl ever reappear in any of my dreams ever again. I somewhat miss that beautiful figure, and somehow, that dream will always be in the back of my mind.

The exact same has happened to me.
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Old 2006-09-28, 22:45
Cloaked Dagger Cloaked Dagger is offline
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I had a sex dream about one of my attractive female friends last night.
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Old 2006-09-28, 23:08
psychomanthis psychomanthis is offline
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quote:Originally posted by zoomzooma:



If it is a girl who didn't exist the 'crush' lasts a hour or two and is usually a sort of longing towards that person.

i know what you mean and you know, it really sucks because that girl can't be real

*sigh*
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Old 2006-09-28, 23:10
Docta? Docta? is offline
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My dreams are usually scarily violent, so no...
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Old 2006-09-29, 00:06
Mindless Xyzzyean Mindless Xyzzyean is offline
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I've been dreaming a lot about my girl lately, the last dream I remember was a really passionate hug than a very seductive kiss from her. Most amazing dream i've ever had.
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Old 2006-09-29, 12:56
samo tvoja samo tvoja is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Docta?:

My dreams are usually scarily violent, so no...

Me too.



[This message has been edited by samo tvoja (edited 09-29-2006).]
 
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