why the hell does a self respecting girl with her university degree have a relationship with some jobless mofo living in his parents house not having completed his courses? is this thing as common as it appears or is it righteously rare in actuality?

Quit common, it takes a special kind of guy to pull it off but there are plenty of special people walking around, nigerazi.

I'm guessing it's the great sex.

quote:Originally posted by BluryVision:

I'm guessing it's the great sex.

No, because sex is a joke, remember?

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

No, because sex is a joke, remember?

Please don't tell me this is gonna be the new s&a thing.. sprays cum in his mouth*

Some people just know how to manipulate women, even if they aren't the best looking guys around.

Other guys can lick their eyebrows.

It's quite a common thing. Women like a number of things in a guy, he probably has a lot of other good qualities you don't know about. More than likely it's cause he fucks her real good.

You're an idiot.

They feel sympathetic for them, mainly. That leads to pitty sex and such. Although they, the women, don't realise this is what they're doing.

The female feels the need to be helpful to him. She feels as if she can lift him up and make him a better person, not to mention he's attractive in a scruffy way. Once she accomplishes this she feels she will bring out the better person that lys inside of him.

What she fails to take in to consideration is her emotional state and just how much she can take. In result she ends up becoming depressed because people that fall for men like this are coincidently extroverts and the man is generally an introverts. Put two and two together they normally don't make a good combination. Not to mention the fact that this guy probably has some kind of fit philosophy and she's materialistic as hell.

This is a HUGE case of sterotyping. I'm just simply giving a situation in which case this would happen, which it normally does. I'm not saying all people that go through with their educations are like this, they just simply have a much different prespective of things than people like this "fuck ups".

Perhaps this guy has no clue, nor has even begun to analyze his life and just gave up because he felt like it. The only time I find this scenario are cases when the guy ither has a good sense of humor, or he's intelligent, possibly both.

Meh.

quote:Originally posted by sylph:

*long quote*



long quote short.....mothering

I'm at university and my boyfriend is a painter who still lives with his parents. I'm with him because we have an amazing time together, he treats me like a princess and I love him!

My older sister doesn't like him because he's a stoner (she says I "could do better"), but that doesn't automatically make someone a bad person. But I don't want to "do better", my boyfriend is the best.

sylph- Those were some true steriotypes though. its like you were taking the words from my head!

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

My boyfriend is a painter.

Is he any good? And I don't mean in a supportive girlfriend way.

What sorts of things does he paint?

Sicky, I think what Euda is insinuating is, is he a good lay?

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Is he any good? And I don't mean in a supportive girlfriend way.

What sorts of things does he paint?

Houses, stores, restaurants and the like. He just finished up the new Opa at U of C, lol.

And yes, he is freaking amazing in bed, the best I've ever had by far...Haha! Cause I'm sure you wanted to know, lol.

quote:Originally posted by Myron Mujadi:

why the hell does a self respecting girl with her university degree have a relationship with some jobless mofo living in his parents house not having completed his courses? is this thing as common as it appears or is it righteously rare in actuality?

because he hits it like no one else hits it maybe? or maybe she wears his leash and collar and is his sex slave? or maybe he is a loser but really nice and makes her feel good and she cant find that with anyone else she meets? alot of reasons besides her having low self esteem. alot of men mary women that have no education and who dont do anythign except look good and fuck well. so why cant a woman?

quote:Originally posted by sylph:

Nice one, L!

quote:Originally posted by BluryVision:

I'm guessing it's the great sex.

thats what my g/f says...

Because sex is a joke!

Dont forget that not everyone is with another person for sex. Some people are generally after a relationship.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Houses, stores, restaurants and the like. He just finished up the new Opa at U of C, lol.

And yes, he is freaking amazing in bed, the best I've ever had by far...Haha! Cause I'm sure you wanted to know, lol.

Oh! That kind of painter.

You can't be a deadbeat if you're playing hide and seek for a grand a week.

He's going to get unbalanced soon, from the fumes, it's the Painter's Curse. Just wait for it, you'll see him drooling and swaying for no apparent reason.

Did he tell you about the three second rule at U of C?

All the construction workers going onto the university get a speech about not looking at the girls for more than three seconds. If they look for more than three seconds, it becomes harrassment. Not that he would ever think to glance at another girl.

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Maybe he's a cool guy? In the end, it all comes down to how much you like someone, not their job prospects.

And thank God, or I'd still be a virgin.

*Goes Back To Studying For His Creative Writing Degree*

quote:Originally posted by sylph:

They feel sympathetic for them, mainly. That leads to pitty sex and such. Although they, the women, don't realise this is what they're doing.

The female feels the need to be helpful to him. She feels as if she can lift him up and make him a better person, not to mention he's attractive in a scruffy way. Once she accomplishes this she feels she will bring out the better person that lys inside of him.

What she fails to take in to consideration is her emotional state and just how much she can take. In result she ends up becoming depressed because people that fall for men like this are coincidently extroverts and the man is generally an introverts. Put two and two together they normally don't make a good combination. Not to mention the fact that this guy probably has some kind of fit philosophy and she's materialistic as hell.

This is a HUGE case of sterotyping. I'm just simply giving a situation in which case this would happen, which it normally does. I'm not saying all people that go through with their educations are like this, they just simply have a much different prespective of things than people like this "fuck ups".

Perhaps this guy has no clue, nor has even begun to analyze his life and just gave up because he felt like it. The only time I find this scenario are cases when the guy ither has a good sense of humor, or he's intelligent, possibly both.

Meh.

You win again.

Obviously he has a HUGE wang.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

And yes, he is freaking amazing in bed, the best I've ever had by far...Haha! Cause I'm sure you wanted to know, lol.

Um...I would have prefered to read about it in in a thread that gets to 10 pages.

Lol, this is the same situation my best friend is in. She has like a 3.9 GPA, internship, all the works, and she's stuck with this dingbat that's a fucking retard, unemployed, not in school, all that shit.

For her, it's mostly the emotional need and also they fuck A LOT, I'm talkin great sex and all that. The boyfriend is a machine, 30 minutes of non stop shit. They're all kinky too, so it never gets boring.

Remember, it's how you make her feel, that's the "cake" of it, you having all the nice things like car and money is just "icing" on the cake.

You can't have a cake made of icing, that's fact.

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