Okay, so a lot of you guys know I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of a year and 3 months. School has just started for me again(in August) and since she has a job now, we have to set up time to talk. Only every time we set up a time, she goes to sleep, or forgets, or goes out to eat. This wouldn't be a problem i would just call her, only my phone does not make long distance calls. At all. I'm starting to get pissed Totse. What should I do?

Find something closer. These are your development stages, and a long distance relationship will deny you the experience of dating around. You dont want to become an adult and realize the only way you can interact is through a computer.

Besides, it sounds like too much of a one-sided relationship. You can do better.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

and a long distance relationship will deny you the experience of dating around.

lol AIDS.

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

lol AIDS.

Yes. Because if you date more then one person. You get aids. Someone took sex ed at bible school :\

She's lost interest. Give her up and find someone new. You don't have to fuck everyone you date, so getting AIDS is unlikely. Don't waste your time with people who aren't worth it. Clearly, this girl is not worth your time.

You're far too young to stick with a single girl, and she's far too young, it seems, too.

Give her up, and find someone that'll want to call you.

No, you're not too needy. You're in a relationship with her, stating your emotional attachment. It's perfectly normal for you to want to communicate with her in whatever way possible.

You need to end it. She's obviously lost interest, which has been said. It's impossible for a relationship to last when only one person is putting effort into it. Long distance relationships almost never work out. For you to sit there and say that you think that this is different is ignorant. You may believe that you can make it last but the question is, can she?

It will probably be a while before you fully get over her because you've convinced yourself you love her, which you may, but I doubt it. You'll find somebody new, it's possible.

I have faith in you, you know the right thing to do.

Though I am sorry for you to have to be going through. Once you've conquered breaking up and allow yourself to cry a bit, a giant boulder will feel like it's being lifted from your body.

She might not have lost interest bud, but she definatly takes you for granted.

Simple. You're not being to needy, but try this out - The next time she calls, don't answer. just start randomly not being there when she does want to talk to you (not 100% of the time, of course, maybe something like 50%) and i bet my left nut that she'll start calling more often.

quote:Originally posted by Psionicist:

Simple. You're not being to needy, but try this out - The next time she calls, don't answer. just start randomly not being there when she does want to talk to you (not 100% of the time, of course, maybe something like 50%) and i bet my left nut that she'll start calling more often.

I really like this idea, because breaking up with her seems to hard, but sometimes I do feel the need to find someone else, for her and for me, cause we could always still be friends.

quote:Originally posted by albinoblacksheep:

I really like this idea, because breaking up with her seems to hard, but sometimes I do feel the need to find someone else, for her and for me, cause we could always still be friends.

Don't be so dependent on her. Develop your own personality and live your own life without her. You'll be much happier living for yourself rather than trying to constantly please other people.