So I broke up with my old girlfriend last year around December, we where dating for about 4 months.

I broke up with her over the phone and started dating her friend the same night. I know, pretty fucked up right? I didn't even want to brake up with her really, my friend pressured me into it. I regret it alot.

I thought about her for a awhile after we broke up, and haven't thought about her for a long time untill here recently. In fact, I had a dream about her last night..don't really remember it but she was in it.

I haven't seen her in almost a year, since I got home schooled.

I still have her e-mail address and shit, so I could contact her.

But I have no idea how to go about this, I don't know what I would even say.

I don't know..what should I do in this situation?

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i'm guessing you hurt her. whether or not she'd be willing to see you again is up in the air. (you know how many topics we see here that are like, "he was an ass to me, should i take him back?").

if you do want to see her again, make amends and don't hurt her again. i'm personally against this, since you've already shown her enough disrespect for the relationship to be founded on uncertain terms.

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That's extremely idiotic, first off. To let your friend "pressure" you into breaking up with your girlfriend. It sounds to me as if you may have been just looking for an excuse out at the time. You've probably beat yourself up about that enough.

Just say hey to her to start off. Tell her you really miss her. Explain to her how immature you know you were at the time but recently you've begun thinking about her and that she means a lot to you. Blah, blah. Basically explain to her how you feel. Of course after the "How've you been?" so on...

She'll most likely take you back if you can convince her you're not the fucktard you used to be. If she doesn't, don't be too devistated. After all, she's had a whole year to get over you and may be scared to get hurt again. Chances are she really liked you and for you to do something like that, oh man that would piss me off. The same night?!

You'll find somebody else, in the matter that she declines your offer, despite the amount of bullshit you feed her. You're just convincing yourself that you like a whole lot, when in reality if you take a step far enough back to view the whole image in front of you, you don't and you've just allowed your guilt to get in the way of your rationality and positive emotions.

Anyways, if you want her back just tell her how you feel about her. Honesty always pays off.