So this guy raised a good point:

quote:Originally posted by voodoonirvana:



Its okay though because all men do it, but no man shall ever know the full truth...and same goes with women. Women will never know what men truly want (besides sex and waffles).





What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

How do you want to be approached by a female?

How do you prefer flirting to go?

How often do you like to see her per week?

Which position is your favorite?

Who should approach who?

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

What should she talk about more?

Other opinions?

Sure, everyone will have diffrent answers and diffrent prefrences, but maybe this will be a general idea.

-Try not to be too predictable.

I'll edit and add if you think of other relevant questions.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

So this guy raised a good point:



What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

How do you want to be approached by a female?

How do you prefer flirting to go?

How often do you like to see her per week?

Which position is your favorite?

Who should approach who?

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

What should she talk about more?

Other opinions?

Sure, everyone will have diffrent answers and diffrent prefrences, but maybe this will be a general idea.

-Try not to be too predictable.

I'll edit and add if you think of other relevant questions.

As of today, these are my answers. They may change at anytime so beware.

1.) I'd like to be appraoched in a relaxed way. I'm always chilled out. I'd also prefer a lot more if it was just her, and her friends aren't near trying to spy, kinda creepy.

2.) The flirting is good. I always control it though. Better if the flirting progresses instead of jumping right in to sex.

3.) Twice probably.

4.) Guys should make the move. But socially, girls gotta do their part by being friendly, or smiling with Eye Contact. o_o

5.) Never talk about boring things.

Well, what I want is for her to approach me, but for me to have the upper hand in the relationship most of the time. I want her to be there for me when I need her, and to sometimes be there when I want her , and I want her to be kind and understanding, and get me when I'm being strange.

I don't think there's much of a difference between what girls want and what guys want.

How do you want to be approached by a female?

Not in a way to come off as slutty/idiotic.



How do you prefer flirting to go?

No prefrence.

How often do you like to see her per week?

As much as possible.

Which position is your favorite?

No preference, I'd rather make it better for her than me.

Who should approach who?

You to me, Im a shy bastad.

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

Yes.

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about?

Talk about your periods, hell, I'll go buy your damn feminax if needs be...Im open to anything.

What should she talk about more?

That would change from person to person.

Meh..





[This message has been edited by M a t t Y (edited 09-27-2006).]

How do you want to be approached by a female?

As long as they come across as funny and intelligent, and not a slut, it's good enough for me.

How do you prefer flirting to go?

I like the thrill of the chase, so to speak, so more flirty as time goes on is great.

How often do you like to see her per week?

As much as possible.

Which position is your favorite?

Satisfaction for the lady first. Usually missionary as this feels the most intimate for me and my girlfriend. Kissing all the time + sex = something to remember.

Who should approach who?

I'm quite shy, but I made the move in my relationship first. Love at first sight across a maths room

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

Of course, relationships should be completely open.

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about?

Talking about periods is fine! Seriously, I can't think of anything at the moment - I'm a pretty good listener and will talk about anything to people once I get to know them. If I don't know them, I'm shy as hell!

What should she talk about more?

Anything as long as she says something!

I want a girl to not be afraid to show interest but to put at least some cards on the table.

I want her to have an opinion.

I want her to play hard to get, if a girl caves in too easily I will lose interest.

I prefer flirting to be heavy and sexy with a less is more attitude. Sexy long glances. Smirks.

She can talk about her period if she wants, in fact, if she does it in the right way she'll make me laugh, and that's great.

No topics are off limits, it's great to be open about the relationship.

She should ask whatever's on her mind.

But what I want contradicts itself. I want to stop playing games yet I want to be teased. I want to be honest but if we're lead astray I'd want us to both stay quiet.

...

I dunno.

I just want sex and waffles.



Goddamn... I could go for a waffle about now. All warm and glistening and dripping with syrup...

quote:Originally posted by 256:



Goddamn... I could go for a waffle about now. All warm and glistening and dripping with syrup...

The connotations of that sentence shouldn't be making me hungry and turning me on. At least not at the same time.

I'm filling this out from a female POV



What DO you really want? I want someone who can get along with my close friends, guys and girls, and who will always be a gentlemen.



How do you want to be approached by a male? I would rather be friends first & have him make an effort to talk to me more. Things like calling me first, asking me to hang out with just him or him & his family, ect.

How do you prefer flirting to go? It shouldn't be had with anyone but me, especially if I'm around.

How often do you like to see him per week? 3-5 times

Which position is your favorite? N/A

Who should approach who? he should approach me

What sort of things should he definatly never talk about? Baseball, Hockey, and my friends in a mean way.

What should he talk about more? his emotions/thoughts, maybe.

Other opinions? There is a fine line between the assholes girls like & the ones they hate.

Here it is.

The Approach: Just stay casual. Drunk, annoying girls who think they're funny are lame.

Flirting: I like a girl with an offbeat sense of humor with a bit of sarcasm, but not too cynical or pompous.

Seeing her: I'd like to see her a couple time a week. Maybe everyday after a while if I'm not all nervous or awkward around her. I'm awkward.

Position: I'll let you know when I've tried some.

Who Approaches: It would probably take her approaching me, since I'm really shy (See last answer).

Eye Contact, Laughing and Talking: This is pretty much a given, otherwise I'd think she doesn't like me at all. She better at least crack a smile.

Never Talk About: That one time you got soooo drunk? Big fucking deal. That and pooping- I shouldn't have to say this. It's probably to scare me away though.

What She Should Talk About: Music, funny life stories, almost much anything if I like her enough.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

So this guy raised a good point:

Sex and waffles are always good in my book!

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

Never to be called a "gentleman" again. I'm no gentle, and I'm no man. Gonna be a kid until the day I die.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

How do you want to be approached by a female?

I don't. Girls that approach me automatically make me wary. I have to deal with people trying to steal vast secrets of how to fix their computer from me, and beautiful women that try and lure me into helping them with their issues are commonplace in my line of work.

Ok, not really that common, but I have to deal with it at least twice a month.

So just make sure to not ask me, within ten minutes "Can you fix my computer?" Massive turnoff!

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

How do you prefer flirting to go?

Light and fun. Fliriting is about enjoying yourself with words, so except the silver tounge to be at work, and often!

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

How often do you like to see her per week?

Usually twice a week is enough, but I've got a bad habit of letting girls move in with me... Hehehe...

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

Which position is your favorite?

All of them. Seriously, don't pick just one!

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

Who should approach who?

I'd rather approach the girl, but I never do that anyways (lovely male logic, there) so it'd be up to you, I'd gather.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

Laugh if it's funny, and try and keep eye contact. The eyes are very sensual.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

Talking about her period means she's comfortable around me. Which means that she doesn't think about me in any other way (because if she did I wouldn't be wondering why she was talking about her period).

Just don't talk about crushes/exs, and you'll be fine.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

What should she talk about more?

Her feelings, damn it all!

The world, true story for love.

quote:Originally posted by 256:

I just want sex and waffles.





I had both yesterday. It was nice. Very nice.

How do you want to be approached by a female?

I don't, I want to approach her.

How do you prefer flirting to go?

Quickly, I like flirting to get over as soon as possible. I do like talking, but flirting is a waste of time.

How often do you like to see her per week?

Twice, prefferably. I'm very busy.

Which position is your favorite?

I like being on top. However, reverse cowgirl is grand.

Who should approach who?

Male to Female.

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

Prefferably.

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

bowel movements, surgery, etc.

What should she talk about more?

Sex.

Other opinions?

Yo! I didn't ask for the female PoV! I'll make a thread later about it when this dies down!

male only! /discrimate

So, who wants some waffles?

I guess this is partially a FAQ for clueless chicks.

I'll take some waffles and/or sex. But they better be some damn-good waffles, as I am waffley spoiled.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

So this guy raised a good point:



What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

How do you want to be approached by a female?

How do you prefer flirting to go?

How often do you like to see her per week?

Which position is your favorite?

Who should approach who?

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

What should she talk about more?

Other opinions?

Sure, everyone will have diffrent answers and diffrent prefrences, but maybe this will be a general idea.

-Try not to be too predictable.

I'll edit and add if you think of other relevant questions.



1)approach calm, friendly, sociable, funny, drunk

2)not bothered if i'm having a good time

thats all that counts

3)depends if i'm attached (attached loads~not very attached-weneva no hurry)

4)her on top/doggystyle

5)not bothered i find it hard to start conversation sometimes

6)yes otherwise i wouldn't be able to be comfortable around her

7)other lads that annoys me

8)just funny stuff and people( i like breaking down peoples personalities and discussin them dunno why

9)i like my girls long hair short haired girls are a no-no (dunno why it just freaks me out usually)

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

So this guy raised a good point:



What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

How do you want to be approached by a female?

How do you prefer flirting to go?

How often do you like to see her per week?

Which position is your favorite?

Who should approach who?

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

What should she talk about more?

Other opinions?

Sure, everyone will have diffrent answers and diffrent prefrences, but maybe this will be a general idea.

-Try not to be too predictable.

I'll edit and add if you think of other relevant questions.



Unfortunately, just like females, every single guy is different. However I'm now sure every guy here will prove me wrong and all say the same things haha!

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

So this guy raised a good point:



What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

How do you want to be approached by a female?

How do you prefer flirting to go?

How often do you like to see her per week?

Which position is your favorite?

Who should approach who?

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

What should she talk about more?

Other opinions?

Sure, everyone will have diffrent answers and diffrent prefrences, but maybe this will be a general idea.

-Try not to be too predictable.

I'll edit and add if you think of other relevant questions.



pussy and a sandwich after sex, then to be left alone so i can watch football

What DO guys really want? A nice girl, who's good in bed and treats you right. Well gentlemen? ^^^

How do you want to be approached by a female? Straightforward

How do you prefer flirting to go? Flirting is wack

How often do you like to see her per week? as often as possible if iam in love

Which position is your favorite? Her on top and me on 50 mg's of morphine! lol

Who should approach who? It can go either way.

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely? make eye contactand talk freely yes. but dont laugh at my jokes for no reason.

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? Ex boyfriends!!!!!!! (besides her period)

What should she talk about more? your feelings for eachother and why you love each other.

Other opinions?

quote:Originally posted by naive_wisdom:



Unfortunately, just like females, every single guy is different. However I'm now sure every guy here will prove me wrong and all say the same things haha!

I was hoping someone would state the BLATENT obvious! Of COURSE everyone is diffrent, this is just to share ideas and give the female half a better understanding and more ideas.

quote:Originally posted by ShouldTrip:

What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

Someone that catches my interest. Creativity and some inkling of wisdom is a bonus.

How do you want to be approached by a female?

Hello. There's no better way to start a conversation than a hi, hey, yo, or hello.

How do you prefer flirting to go?

I like it to go however it goes. There's no script.

How often do you like to see her per week?

Often, if possible. If not, at least regular conversations.

Which position is your favorite?

Whichever she enjoys best.

Who should approach who?

Doesn't matter in the least.

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your

jokes/talk to you freely?

She should do whatever she enjoys. Don't laugh if it isn't funny and don't look me in the eyes if you would rather not; however, I appreciate being talked to freely,anything else is an insult.

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

Talk about absolutly anything. That includes her period and whatever else she can think of that I might not really want to hear about.

What should she talk about more?

Her life, anything that happens, and anything she finds of interest.

Q. How do you want to be approached by a female?

A. With a question or some opinion thing.

Q. How do you prefer flirting to go?

A. depends, but has to be mutual.

Q. How often do you like to see her per week?

A. thrice

Q. Which position is your favorite?

A. girly untop

Q. Who should approach who?

A. hmmm, all i can say is if you're doing approaches (as a girl) make sure you can continue the interaction.

Q. Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

A. uh, yeah.

Q. What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

A. chain-mail?

Q. What should she talk about more?

A. stuff that happened/she saw... little life stories i guess

Well, a lot of this will be based around my girlfriend at the moment, because scarily enough she's exactly what I want.

What DO guys really want? Well gentlemen?

How do you want to be approached by a female?

If I dont know her, I would prefer to wait until i'm alone than just have a chat with her.



How do you prefer flirting to go?

A lot of touching, but not over-bearing. Just generally mucking around, doing what she wants to do and having fun.

How often do you like to see her per week?

I want to see her all the time, but realistically maybe 3/4 days a week, these times being anything from 2/6 hours. I'm really clingy.

Which position is your favorite?

N/A

Who should approach who?

I would prefer it to be mutual, just say I didn't know my girlfriend and we were just meeting eachother, I would like the approaching to be mutual. But if necessary i'll do it.

Should she make eye contact/laugh at your jokes/talk to you freely?

Absolutely! I think that these are sure signs of affection and without these there wouldnt' be much going for us. I love it when me and my girlfriend make eye contact and talk freely.

What sort of things should she definatly never talk about? (besides her period)

Religion and my ex girlfriend. I dotn mind talking to her about this stuff, sure it makes me a little un-comfortable at times. But the main thing is that she knows how I feel about it. It wouldn't bother me that much if she talked about her period to tell the truth.

What should she talk about more?

Herself, I love learning new things about her so yeah.

Other opinions?

Personality takes preference over anything any day, I wouldn't be able to date my girlfriend if she didnt' have a personality like she does, it would just be stupid.

Open conversations are a necessity (sp?), if you can't have an open conversation what is the point, even if they are touchy topics such as; religion, sex, life, death etc.

And also communication, sounds cliche' but it's true, It would be impossible to have a 'relationship' without communication. If my girl didnt tell me the things she does I would class us as broken.

Personal hygiene is a must! Regardless! She needs to maintain exceptional all the time, unless she has a valid excuse.

Another thing I love is clingyness, it's just so adorable. That's my outlook.

Ohh... Another thing, I dont like a girl who is obsessed in sex.