No, I'm not being emo, I'm just trying to figure out why it is that every time I get in a seemingly good relationship, I will break it off after no more than 2 months. The smallest thing would make me break up with someone after that time, and in retrospect, I reallize I shouldn't have done it.

The girl I'm with now is great, and I really don't want it to end over something stupid. Could someone help me out with this?

Oh, and Totse, please do me a favor and if/when I ever post about thinking about breaking up with this girl, make sure I have a damn logical reason for it.

The word 'insecurities' is ringing in my mind.

Perhaps tell us the cause of recent break ups? This might actually help us to help you.

I broke up with the girl I lost my virginity to (a couple years ago) because I just got bored and annoyed with her. The girl after her, I broke up with because she was just too bubbly, which I liked when we started going out. The most recent girl I was going out with and I broke up just because she had to go to college a few hours away (which is a pretty logical reason considering we weren't that serious.)

Hmm, they all seem like pretty logical reasons. The only thing that I can semi pick up on is that you aren't really being with a girl of your standards. Other than that, I have no idea.. I guess just keep the relationship 'fun'.

maby you should lay away on the sex part for a bit if it kinda starts out in the begginging, just taking a random guess that it is in your relationship, and it may be because of yur parents relationship or an older siblings. talk to her and also tell her this what u have told us so if u do make a stupid mistake she and you, and poosibly us, can help fix it

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Ok, here's an example of something that she just did that would cause me to want to break up with her: she went off and smoked (weed) with another guy, but she won't smoke with me. Now, I'm trying to think logically and just blow it off, but I don't know.

^^^ Should I be pissed about this?

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:

^^^ Should I be pissed about this?

I'd be pretty upset. Just the two of them together smoking weed? I mean, they probably shared each others spit.

Id Be heated, just make sure he dosent have better weed than you sucka! lol

Happened to me, buddy.

I broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't hang out with me enough and because I thought I liked another girl.

She's looking mighty fine now.

Maybe you just havent found the right girl yet? Seriously...if you're not feeling them on a serious level, then you're just as well breakin it off. And each new relationship you have will teach you something.

And on a side note, all pussy gets old.

quote:Originally posted by RichieBats:

Id Be heated, just make sure he dosent have better weed than you sucka! lol

Doesn't matter; she won't smoke with me.

So anyway, what you're saying is it's not necesarily wrong for me to just break it off without any real reasoning behind it?

If your not feeling the relationship it's actually the RIGHT thing to do. That way you dont string anothers persons feelings along. maybe iam just too considerate.

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:

^^^ Should I be pissed about this?

I would be.

Anyway, your reasons seem logical. Why are you complaining?

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I would be.

Anyway, your reasons seem logical. Why are you complaining?

Because whenever I break up with a girl and she asks why I did, I tell her the truth, and they never want to believe that.

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:

Because whenever I break up with a girl and she asks why I did, I tell her the truth, and they never want to believe that.

Well no shit. No one wants to be not wanted. You do the right thing if you go with what you feel after you've considered it and thought it over. If you don't want to fuck up, just keep your mouth shut unless you've reallllllly thought things over. Keep that one in mind!

So, let me get this straight. The only reason you 2 are together is that you are 2 much of a pussy to break up with her? DO HER THE FAVOR

quote:Originally posted by RichieBats:

So, let me get this straight. The only reason you 2 are together is that you are 2 much of a pussy to break up with her? DO HER THE FAVOR



No, I have no intention of breaking up with the girl I'm with right now. It's just I usually break up with girls for an unjustified (in my mind) reason.

Oh I thought you were askin us if you should drop the bomb!! I wonder y she wont smoke with you

Wait, she'll smoke ganj with another guy, but not you, her boyfriend? ...that doesn't seem right. That is, unless you're a bitch when you're high.

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:



No, I have no intention of breaking up with the girl I'm with right now. It's just I usually break up with girls for an unjustified (in my mind) reason.

Your reasons are justified.

quote:Originally posted by i11uminati:

No, I'm not being emo

Translation: emo.

you worry too much.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Wait, she'll smoke ganj with another guy, but not you, her boyfriend? ...that doesn't seem right. That is, unless you're a bitch when you're high.



Nope, I'm pretty fuckin chill when I'm high.

She's never seen me high anyway.

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