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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2006-09-25, 22:35
Saint947 Saint947 is offline
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Default Am I going to jail?

Hey guys-

Here's the short version of the story:

Girl: 15

Me: 18

Of course, there's the standard "she's hella hot" bit, but here's the rundown: We make out, I take her shirt, but not her bra off. She gets uncomfortable, I back off. I try to establish the "lets not let things get wierd" factor, and she was a bit less responsive than I would have hoped for. Does she have ground to stand on for Statutory rape? She was totally willing initially, but got nervous or whatever, and I backed off entirely- None of this "Didn't listen when I said no" bullshit.

Well?

~Saint947
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Old 2006-09-25, 22:37
Gus Gus is offline
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Just say you've never seen the bitch before in your life. in fact, you haven't, right?

Nothing of you left on her. You're clean.
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Old 2006-09-25, 22:38
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HiO8blnNmp8

[This message has been edited by jewishhammer (edited 09-25-2006).]
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Old 2006-09-25, 22:44
naive_wisdom naive_wisdom is offline
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In a word, no. "Statutory rape is illegal sexual activity between two people when it would otherwise be legal if not for their age." - http://www.sexlaws.org/statrape.html

So if, in your state/country, making out and removing a top (with her permission) is legal considering her age, then you have done nothing illegal. However she could say she felt pressurised etc., in which case, it's her word against yours and so you better have a good character profile.

I would also recommend getting proof that it was consented, e.g. an email, text, phone recording. Just to cover your back.

P.S. Most ages of consent for sexual activity (not limited to sex) is 16. Check on http://www.sexlaws.org/modules.php?op=modload&name=Topics&file=index for more information. But if in your state it is higher than her age, it is a felony not a misdeminor (sp?). So be careful.
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Old 2006-09-25, 23:58
RogueWarheart RogueWarheart is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Saint947:

Hey guys-

Here's the short version of the story:

Girl: 15

Me: 18

Of course, there's the standard "she's hella hot" bit, but here's the rundown: We make out, I take her shirt, but not her bra off. She gets uncomfortable, I back off. I try to establish the "lets not let things get wierd" factor, and she was a bit less responsive than I would have hoped for. Does she have ground to stand on for Statutory rape? She was totally willing initially, but got nervous or whatever, and I backed off entirely- None of this "Didn't listen when I said no" bullshit.

Well?

~Saint947

Depends on the state and it's age of consent laws.
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Old 2006-09-26, 00:08
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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I highly doubt that she's going to call the police, especially since you stopped when she told you too. Don't be so paranoid.
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Old 2006-09-26, 00:36
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

I highly doubt that she's going to call the police, especially since you stopped when she told you too. Don't be so paranoid.

Unless she's a scandalous little ho...

Just yesterday my friend made out with a younger girl... (she was totally into him).

Then they went for a walk and whatnot, exchanged numbers. She asked when she'd see him again. He said he had to go for dinner.

A couple hours later... The bitches mom comes by looking for "the guy who kissed his daughter".

My friend denies it, but then she calls her daughter and asks what my friend looks like...

AND SHE FUCKING TELLS HER EXACTLY WHAT HE WAS WEARING...

Then her husband comes out yelling "WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON HERE!?"

He just ends up threatening to "bury him alive" if he ever goes near her again.

Moral of story: Be extremely careful with underage chicks. Hell, be careful with any chick.

Alot of them are scandalous and will fuck you over just because they feel like it.

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Old 2006-09-26, 00:48
letsnukechina letsnukechina is offline
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It depends totally. Even if she's below the age of consent, you might be ok because most places have an allowance for a small age gap, so even IF what you are doing could be considered rape, you might still be ok. Go talk to the girl if you have to to make sure everythings ok with her, just do it in a public but private space (IE you can be seen not heard) or over the phone/internet.
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Old 2006-09-26, 01:14
Drips Drips is offline
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If you live in canada, I'm pretty certain you'd be fine. In the states I'm not too sure, but I'm still pretty confident that you have nothing to worry about.
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Old 2006-09-26, 08:42
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You should be fine, unless you think that the girl would go to the police.

There would be no reason for her to if you backed off right away, you know?

Don't be so paranoid.
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Old 2006-09-26, 10:16
Dark Kaiser Dark Kaiser is offline
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Dude, I hope you enjoy deepthroating stiff black cock.
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Old 2006-09-26, 14:27
smallpox champion smallpox champion is offline
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Heh. I'm 19, and I met a 15 year old this summer who was actually pretty mature for her age, in more ways than one. Nothing happened though.

I had to let her down easy. Plus I felt pretty sketchy just hanging out around her house. She told her mom I was 16.
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Old 2006-09-26, 14:56
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You think that's bad, I'm 20 and I was flirting with this chick who lives down the street. Then someone told me she's 14! Holy shit, she looks more like 18. What the hell are they putting in the milk these days?!?!
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Old 2006-09-26, 15:23
Some Idiot Some Idiot is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Parallax:

You think that's bad, I'm 20 and I was flirting with this chick who lives down the street. Then someone told me she's 14! Holy shit, she looks more like 18. What the hell are they putting in the milk these days?!?!

I know right? Every girl I meet, I ask for 2 forms of ID. You can NEVER be too safe.
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Old 2006-09-26, 16:14
Carbonated Frog Carbonated Frog is offline
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^^^ Wow smooth, that must make you really popular with the ladies.
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Old 2006-09-26, 17:08
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You are a paranoid retard.
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Old 2006-09-26, 18:49
Cosmonaut3030 Cosmonaut3030 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by SenorJesucristo:

You are a paranoid retard.

Better to be safe than sucking black dick in the pen.

Edit: On topic, I wouldn't come on to any girl more than 1 or 2 years younger than me, otherwise you deserve the beating you would get.

Even then, if I was over the consent age, and she below, I wouldn't touch her for fear of being arrested.

[This message has been edited by Cosmonaut3030 (edited 09-26-2006).]
 
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