Earlier today my husband was going down on me when I suddenly asked him to suck gently on my clitoris, which felt awesome. Then I asked him to bite it VERY gently and...I liked how it felt, but not enough to orgasm. To be honest, my clitoris is so small, I'm not sure he could get his teeth around it!:P

So any other ladies like that? What has worked for you?

My clitoris is EXTREMELY sensitive. Direct contact is too rough and causes me to scream and jump about. I don't think I could take biting.

Mine is pretty sensitive, but only REALLY bad after I orgasm.

I can only have indirect contact until I get closer to an orgasm.

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

Did you get less sensitive after you had your baby? My whole area became desensitised by scar tissue.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

There are operations for that sort of thing now.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

My guess would be: Better than having a penis.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Did you get less sensitive after you had your baby? My whole area became desensitised by scar tissue.

Nope. Still horribly sensitive. It sucks for oral. My sensitivity makes it too hard for him.

A lot of women are really sensitive like that.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

A lot of women are really sensitive like that.

It's a nightmare. :/

quote:Originally posted by Hardly There:

It's a nightmare. :/

Sure is. Every time we try, my girlfriend shrieks and squirms...it tickles her too much. Like, the instant it touches. It's too bad because I love doing it.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

As do I. haha.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

Dude, the clit is made out of the same kind of skin our dick-heads are made out of, and the labia has the same kind of skin as our scrotum.

Heard it on Strictly Sex with Dr. Drew.

quote:Originally posted by Elephantitis Man:

Originally posted by gadzooks:

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

Dude, the clit is made out of the same kind of skin our dick-heads are made out of, and the labia has the same kind of skin as our scrotum.

Heard it on Strictly Sex with Dr. Drew.

That show is quite informative.

True,

though if your foreskin has been stolen, you get to have a desensitized glans rather than the clit-like super-duper pleasure-organ (quadruple-hyphenation FTW!!1!). Why is it so much more obvious to people that it's crazy and barbaric to cut the protective covering off of a woman, but no one (here in America) minds cutting the ends off their kids penii...

It's a mad world.

Yeah seriously.

Try rubbing your foreskin up & down over your penis head.

Then try rubbing your penis head.

There's SUCH A FUCKING DIFFERENCE!

Hooray masturbation!

I don't have a foreskin.

quote:Originally posted by Elephantitis Man:

I don't have a foreskin.

I do.

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

Yeah seriously.

Try rubbing your foreskin up & down over your penis head.

Then try rubbing your penis head.

There's SUCH A FUCKING DIFFERENCE!

Hooray masturbation!

I can't even wear clothes if I don't have my foreskin covering the glans. I mean, fabric rubbing against the sensitive head itself is a no-go... it hurts!

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

Yeah seriously.

Try rubbing your foreskin up & down over your penis head.

Then try rubbing your penis head.

There's SUCH A FUCKING DIFFERENCE!

Hooray masturbation!

I can't even wear clothes if I don't have my foreskin covering the glans. I mean, fabric rubbing against the sensitive head itself is a no-go... it hurts!

I know. The actual head is quite rough and firm. Not much feeling. However, jerk that foreskin up and down, wowoowwwwww weeee!

If this turns into a 'real' men v. Americans then it will be closed. Keep on the clit ,guys.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

If this turns into a 'real' men v. Americans then it will be closed. Keep on the clit ,guys.

Eye I sir! I AM THE CLIT COMMANDER!

Yes, yes it is nice...

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

I often wonder what it would be like to have a clitoris.

It's like having a tiny penis. Hormones regulate growth of body parts; female hormones make the vagina grow large, penis grow tiny. Male hormones fuse the 'gina together and make the penis grow large. We're all a bunch of hermies though.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Keep on the clit ,guys.

The female clit? :-P

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Earlier today my husband was going down on me when I suddenly asked him to suck gently on my clitoris, which felt awesome. Then I asked him to bite it VERY gently and...I liked how it felt, but not enough to orgasm. To be honest, my clitoris is so small, I'm not sure he could get his teeth around it!:P

So any other ladies like that? What has worked for you?

Well I'm not a lady, but I had I girlfriend that liked me to do that to her, she was really into biting though. Anyways I would gently bite her clit (VERY gently, it's not as difficult as one would think) and flick the tip of my tongue across it. It drove her wild.

*reflects* Damn good times....

I did read that the clitoris is something like 1500 times more sensitive than a penis (dunno the exact amount of times, but loads) but it does depend on the person, and the type of contact. The clitoris has more nerve endings which was the point. However, it's about what you do with what you've got. Just because someone is less sensitive, it doesn't mean they won't orgasm as intensely.

My clit is of medium sensitivity. Under the hood shouldn't be stimulated in general, right? So I assume indirect means not actually even touching the clitoral shaft at all.

I like the way when I get aroused my clitoris gets all hard. I can thus say "you're making me all hard!"

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

I did read that the clitoris is something like 1500 times more sensitive than a penis (

Sounds like bullshit.

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

I did read that the clitoris is something like 1500 times more sensitive than a penis

I was also under the impression that a clitoris contains more nerve endings than a penis, but apparently not:

quote:The glans of the clitoris has just as many nerve endings as does the glans of the penis, just in a much smaller area.

www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_vulva.htm (http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_vulva.htm)



quote:The primary nerve that enervates both the penis and the clitoris is known as the dorsal nerve which branches off the pudendal nerve (in both sexes). It is presumed that the number of nerve endings is roughly identical in males and females, with females having a much higher density of nerve endings in a smaller region.

www.mypleasure.com/education/qanda/questions/1093.asp (http://www.mypleasure.com/education/qanda/questions/1093.asp)



quote:In fact, there are as many nerve endings in the clitoris as there are in a man's penis.

www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3229.html (http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3229.html)



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So you guys think the clitoral hood is like a foreskin?

It's hard for me to orgasm from oral sex in general, because it's too intense.:/

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

I was also under the impression that a clitoris contains more nerve endings than a penis, but apparently not:

The glans of the clitoris has just as many nerve endings as does the glans of the penis, just in a much smaller area.

www.the- clitoris.c om/n_html/ n_vulva.htm (http: //www.the- clitoris.c om/n_html/ n_vulva.ht m)



quote:The primary nerve that enervates both the penis and the clitoris is known as the dorsal nerve which branches off the pudendal nerve (in both sexes). It is presumed that the number of nerve endings is roughly identical in males and females, with females having a much higher density of nerve endings in a smaller region.

www. mypleasure .com/education/qanda/questions/1093.asp (http: //www.mypl easure.com /education /qanda/que stions/109 3.asp)



quote:In fact, there are as many nerve endings in the clitoris as there are in a man's penis.

www.goaska (http: //www.goas kalice.col umbia.edu/ 3229.html) lice.colum bia.edu/32 29.html



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None of that refutes what she said. She didn't mention nerve endings, just the sensitivity. Personally I think if you have lots of nerves in a small space it seems to me it would be more sensitive than the same number of nerves over a larger space.

quote:Originally posted by phade:

None of that refutes what she said. She didn't mention nerve endings, just the sensitivity. Personally I think if you have lots of nerves in a small space it seems to me it would be more sensitive than the same number of nerves over a larger space.

quote:Originally posted by Flock:

The clitoris has more nerve endings which was the point.

But yeah, you do have a point.

However the use of "sensitivity" here is ambiguous. The clitoris may be more sensitive in the sense that it's easier to stimulate a pleasure response. However the clitoris is not more sensitive in the sense that it can stimulate a greater pleasure response. Neurologically speaking.

You learn something new every day.

actually, more nerve endings in a single area would equate to a greater responce (not necessarily pleasure), beyond a certian strength of stimulus. Note resting membrane potentials.

I think my clitoris is more sensitive than my husband's penis. Like it would hurt my clitoris if he rubbed it when it was dry, but I grab his penis and stroke it when it's dry all of the time and he likes it.

It hurts me to stroke my penis when it's dry. Hell, it takes actual lube to keep it from hurting - even stroking it when wet with water hurts. The glans, I mean; I can rub the foreskin whenever.

[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 09-24-2006).]

My husband has no foreskin, thank god!

Remember that guy who's frenulum snapped? Or the guys who's foreskins were too tight?? SCARY!

Personally I think most guys should refrain from biting the clitoris because a lot of girls don't like it, and should only do so if asked, or if they plan on doing it, they should make sure they know the difference between good biting and painful biting. I had a bad experience with a painful biter.

[This message has been edited by emogan (edited 09-25-2006).]

You're right, just like a lot of guys wither when ladies use teeth in oral, but some actually enjoy it. Luckily, I am open to experimentation and I enjoy asking to try new things.