Ok so my girlfriend always seems to be flirting with other guys even when I am around and I have no idea what she does at school because I do my school online. Now I'm pretty sure that she wouldn't do anything with anyone but I'm not completely sure if this will turn out to be anything more than just flirting but I'm kinda concerned about it cause it really pisses me off. What should I do totse?

Thats the kind of girl that isnt ready to be settled down into a relationship.

Either that, or she doesnt feel like you're that close to begin with.

If I were you, I'd find someone else. But thats just me.

Give her a choice.

This is a fucking tough one. I'm really not sure how you're supposed to handle it.

It could be she's just trying to get your attention, this being a time-honored Girl Tactic. But maybe she's just a flirt, you know? Some people flirt all the time - I'm like that, to be honest, and it doesn't mean I'd ever commit adultery.

If I were you, I'd talk to her about it. But I don't know how to do that without either coming off as a pussy or a jealous asshole, neither of which is real attractive.

Just bring it up casually-"You were pretty flirty with him, I'm gonna get jealous". You can try getting a bit more serious after that if you think its needed.

As long as you trust she's not going to go bedhopping with other folk, it shouldn't be a problem.

mmf

She wants anal sex. Badly. Pin her down and have your way with her asshole. Don't worry if she squirms and struggles a bit or tells you to stop as this is just another of her mind games. Playing hard to get and all that.

She likes the attention, and likely wants more of it from you. Or she's naturally flirty (read: attention whore). Depends how far she takes the flirting is all. Find a way to bring the general 'boundaries' topic up if you want, expect opposition.

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She likes the attention, and likely wants more of it from you.

That's definatly a good point-she might be trying to get you to pay her more attention by flirting in order to make you jealous.

Yea I think it's just natural tonight shes comin over just so she can fuck me I talked to her about it too and she said it woul stop thanks totse>

Don't stress about it or she'll pick up on it and mark you as the jealous type (aren't we all?!), so you need to hide it.

Yea so I fucked her tonight no need to worry at least for me Thanks totse.

Whew! For a minute there I thought your relationship was in turmoil.

I suggest, and completely honestly too, that you always wear this hat (http://x63.xanga.com/ffad3a674663137590504/b5421921.jpg) when you see her. And whenever she questions you about it simply brush aside her enquiries with a flippant remark.

Why? It's a bit odd and cool is all. Perhaps you should try making sure your girlfriends interested in you and not other guys for once.

If you trust her enough to believe that she isn't cheating on you, then you need to talk to her. Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable when she flirts with other guys. You need to make it clear to her that, though you trust her, you don't like it when she flirts with other guys. If she's worth being with she will change her behaviour. If she doen't than she isn't worth it.

This exact thing same thing happened with me and my boyfriend just yesterday. See, he's a really friendly guy, so naturally he is very friendly with girls. I don't think he even knew that the way he acted constituted flirting, but girls certainly took it that way. I explained to him that I felt very uncomfortable when girls would flirt with him right in front of me, and he would reciprocate. He apologized and promised to be more careful about the signals he gives out to girls.

Hopefully you girl cares about your feelings.