I'm compelled to just tell a close friend of mine exactly what her boyfriend has been doing. (Cheating on her consistently, and he has absolutely no remoarse for it, even jokes about it) Before I didn't want to because well...I don't want it to seem like I'm just trying to get with her (Sort of am..I know I'm next in line) She had asked me several times before if I knew if he had, which I knew he had...almost everytime shes out of town/state he would. Then she asked me today if I knew anything about it because the person he had been doing it with sort of left her a note or some shit (she was sketchy on the details because he was inside and could come out at any moment) I think she discussed it with him, but when she asked me if I knew and if he was sad about it...I just said I have no idea I was too drunk. I'm very compelled to tell her since he has grown out of favor for me, I personally despise him and his fucking asshole ways. I want to see him suffer, but I don't want to see her hurt...I guess I'm just too god damn nice. What would someone in this situation do? Because well...I do care for her, shes probably about my best friend at the moment.

I say tell her but don't count on being next.

Tell her the truth, and expect to be a rebound. Your friendship will be ruined within a month.

Best of luck!

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

I say tell her but don't count on being next.

Heh....she has debated breaking up with him before for me. She tells me a lot of things, and I've done her a time or two.

I guess I didn't give enough background upon this topic, so nevermind.

[This message has been edited by Misery_Machine (edited 09-22-2006).]

Again, it sounds like a perfect way to fuck your friendship up.

You won't last as a couple, and really, you'd be better off as friends.

But that won't stop you. You just want ONE PERSON to agree with you, so you don't feel like you're alone.

Well, good luck, again.

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

Again, it sounds like a perfect way to fuck your friendship up.

You won't last as a couple, and really, you'd be better off as friends.

But that won't stop you. You just want ONE PERSON to agree with you, so you don't feel like you're alone.

Well, good luck, again.

Once again nevermind. Touche, keep thinking what you would like. We all have our own opinions on things, and obviously I shouldnt be browsing some internet forum for something remotely serious. So once again, nevermind.

quote:Originally posted by Misery_Machine:

I'm compelled to just tell a close friend of mine exactly what her boyfriend has been doing.

Stay out of it. It is none of your business. She will 'shoot the messenger'...they always do.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Stay out of it. It is none of your business. She will 'shoot the messenger'...they always do.

Well, that is true.

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