Ok. my girlfriend of 5 months has stopped wanting to have sex for some odd reason. she says she wants to she just doesnt feel up to it. wtf is that supposed to mean? its pissing me off and her off and its becoming a real birdin on both of us. for the first 2 months we banged like every day 3 times a day. I dunno. could her hormones not be working right or somthing? should I be slipping her some roofies in her coffee? HELP ME!!!

Have you ever tried/had a relationship that wasnt based purely on sex?

Give it a try. Maybe she's just tired of having nothing more to look forward to then your horrible performances in the bedroom.

She's pregnant.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Have you ever tried/had a relationship that wasnt based purely on sex?

Give it a try. Maybe she's just tired of having nothing more to look forward to then your horrible performances in the bedroom.

dude...shut the fuck up. our relationship isnt based on sex you fucking idiot. I just dont get why the fuck she doesnt really want to anymore. she does enjoy it she just doesnt feel up to actually going through with it.

She doesn't fancy you anymore.

She's probably having an affair.

You smell.

you guys suck at this game. I smell great. shes not pregnant. and she's not having a affair.

quote:Originally posted by Issues:

should I be slipping her some roofies in her coffee? HELP ME!!!

I sure fucking hope that was a joke.

It could be hormonal - or pregnant.

When my wife - who was a new GF at the time - got pregnant the first time [she had an abortion that time], she got very cold towards me, not even wanting to hold my hand. But she didn't want to break up [which I wanted at the time, but thought it would be a dick move to do so when she was pregnant].

Fortunately, as soon as she had the abortion - well within a few days of it - things turned around - Obviously or I wouldn't have later married her.

Of course, it could also be a prelude to her breaking up with you too...

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:



You smell.

but seriously , maybe she just wasnt horny that one day.

quote:Originally posted by Issues:

we banged like every day 3 times a day.

Yeah, I was wrong to assume sex was even a factor. And that you refer to it as 'banged' says wonders about how much you value the emotional aspects of the act.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Yeah, I was wrong to assume sex was even a factor. And that you refer to it as 'banged' says wonders about how much you value the emotional aspects of the act.

ohh no. I used the word banged. dude she uses the word banged. wtf am I supposed to say "my girlfriend wont make love to me" jesus christ. Ill admit, sex is a big part of our relationship. but NOT all of it. Now GTFO

quote:Originally posted by Issues:

ohh no. I used the word banged. dude she uses the word banged. wtf am I supposed to say "my girlfriend wont make love to me" jesus christ. Ill admit, sex is a big part of our relationship. but NOT all of it. Now GTFO



Hopeless romantics make love.

Normal people have sex.

You 'bang' drunk chicks that you pick up at bars.

sex is far more important to a relationship than anyone gives it credit for. Try getting lots of sex, then only once a month for the last year of the relationship, then having the girl cheat on you numerous times before she finally leaves you.

Then tell me your not mentally fucked up from being unwanted for that long and taking it.

I will post naked pics of her if I get good advice from you panzy's

quote:Originally posted by Issues:

I will post naked pics of her if I get good advice from you panzy's



Are we starting to see a 'lack of respect' theme here yet?



And I feel for you Garfunkel, thats gotta whump the big whump :\

you know..I was kidding. Im engaged with this girl and plan on staying with her no matter what happens. I know for a fucking fact she isnt cheating on me. cause when shes not at school shes with me. all I want to know is how the hell can I spice up the sex life and amp up her god damned sex drive.

Are you serius about the "Im having a serius relationship with a girl, and if you give me better advise on how to amp up her sex drive twords me ill post nekid pix of her..."?

Uh, just give it time I geuss, thats the only thing I can think of that hasn't been saild. She might be gearing up to break up with you? Just a geuss

A)Pregnant

B)Thinks she's pregnant.

C)Is cheating.

D)Wants to cheat.

E)She doesn't like you anymore.

F)She read some of your posts on totse

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



Are we starting to see a 'lack of respect' theme here yet?



And I feel for you Garfunkel, thats gotta whump the big whump :\

I'm the last one to get fired up or join the "womens bandwagon", but this guy digs himself a deeper whole with word he says. I can only imagine real life.

If he treats her that way in real life, it's a total shock why she's not having sex with him.

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

I'm the last one to get fired up or join the "womens bandwagon", but this guy digs himself a deeper whole with word he says. I can only imagine real life.

If he treats her that way in real life, it's a total shock why she's not having sex with him.

that in reference to me?

One very common thing women in long relations say is that foreplay tends to drop off? Would you say you spend less time on the 'foolin' around' & more just heading for the 'Goal'?

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

One very common thing women in long relations say is that foreplay tends to drop off? Would you say you spend less time on the 'foolin' around' & more just heading for the 'Goal'?

You might just have it there. I can't answer for other women but it seems to make sense.

I really don't like the attitude of the Original Poster. Issues, don't flame/insult people when they don't come up with the gold.

When was the last time you went down on your girl till she came? Does she come from sex, and when was the last time you made her come?

Just think about the giving aspects of a sexual relationship and figure out whether she's gone off sex entirely, or if you're just doing it in a sub-satisfactory way in her eyes.