so i have a girl and i love her to death. we have lots of fun times together but sometimes you kinda wanna do stuff with other people too you know?

Problem: Her social circle consists purely of this christian fellowship and it's members. They're fun people i guess but i don't really know the. Most of the people I met last year (i'm a collge sophomore) were either nerds or just too crazy. I don't wanna settle for nerds and the other people i know are kinda too wild and shit when they're together and i 'm really not into it all that much.

what would be the best way to approach this?

mature and grow up

or:

get fucked up and not care

That's a tough one. My ex boyfriend didn't like my friends, and he never got over it in two years. Although it was the opposite, my friends were too wild for him.

The only advice I can give you is to not be an ass and hang out with your girlfriend's friends every once in a while for her sake.

Hey i'm going through the same process, I find the best way is join some college activities. I signed up for Mediatation, and outside of college I do Iyenga yoga. (And i'm a dude.) And after that, making friends just comes naturally.