She's cheated on me, lied to me, hangs out with people she's cheated on me with, and tells them how much she misses them in front of me, puts them as her second best on my-space, doesn't seem to care when I'm sad, or when I have a shitty day she finds a way to change the subject, tells me about how and when they compliment her (by saying "aw he just said something really sweet to me")and tell's me about how many guys flirt with her.

She's treated me like shit, and gotten pissed over the dumbest things, like when I asked her if she really cared she fucking freaked out like I just shot her fucking mom, she's dumped me, made me want to kill myself, and threw me into many different times of depression.

Yet she has a way of sweet talking me, she tells me some of the most deep deep stuff, and even explains to me how sorry she is, and that she really doesn't want to be with other people, she looks me in the eyes in the morning and holds the side of my face to tell me she loves me and doesn't know what she could do without me.

We are so similar but so many worlds apart.

We hate and love the same things, but one huge difference.

I am a giant, seeping romantic, and she is a spring fling, relationships fuck kinda girl, and she said she has given up soooo so much for me...

...but it seems she's so blind she can't see the damage she's causing...

Thanks for reading this far...

lol she's playing with you

My advice is to not be with her at all. Get her out of your life. No matter how much it hurts. You should know/should realize that she is just plain not healthy for you. You need to take control and kick her out of your life, dont let her get the better of you.



[Kaz]

Fucking break up with her. Now. No buts, ands, shits, or fucks. Leave her. No one deserves that treatment. There's someone better out there for you.

IMO. wait for Circle or Ketch to post before making a decision.

Draw a line, make it known, and stand up for yourself when it is crossed. Be willing to end the relationship.

quote:Originally posted by Perspicacious:

Draw a line, make it known, and stand up for yourself when it is crossed. Be willing to end the relationship.

I know I should break up with her but it's is so fucking incredibly hard. Last time I almost did I told her I wasn't going to. I made up some shitty excuse of why I was acting like it's over

damnit

End the fucking relationship.

That sort of outright disrespect is, put simply, inexcusable. Harden your heart, friend - she is leading you up the garden path. Get out, NOW. This will end in tears.

http://youarenotcrazy.com/

See if that sounds familiar.

She doesn't deserve you.

quote:Originally posted by StillArmedStillAngry:

End the fucking relationship.

That sort of outright disrespect is, put simply, inexcusable. Harden your heart, friend - she is leading you up the garden path. Get out, NOW. This will end in tears.



Listen to him, he speaks nothing but the truth.

Say bye bye to the bitch and get over her, she is nothing but trouble.

It sounds like she doesn't actually know what she wants from her relationships, and is stuck between being a good girlfriend and a total fuckwit.

She's out of control mate. There's two things you can do. Man up, and tell her straight up to pull her head in. Control the relationship yourself, because she's unable to. OR dump the living fuck out of her.

Your choice mate.

Jesus help me...

Read those first couple paragraphs over to yourself again. If you don't get the fucking message, read them from the POV that someone else has written them. How would you fucking advise them?

Seriously, this is such a typical case of being sweet to get what she wants (someone she knows will be there for her when her friends aren't), and then just fucking you over when she can get and be with what she really wants (her friends / ex's).

Fucking end it.

I mean, even if you wanted this relationship to last forever, you'd STILL end it just to show you had some balls, strength etc which could make her appreciate you more anyway.

There's only one option here no matter how you feel. A no nonsense, cold-hearted unemotional break up. Not a fucking crying send-off, do it like a man.

Dude, I understand your situation and can empathize with you.

Now, look.

Next time you see her, you are going to break up with her.

You have to.

The sooner you do it, the sooner you will realize that you were caged and tortured and that there is a wide world out there waiting for you, a free world.

Now - when you break up with her, she is going to be in shock, and she will panic. She will - literally - do ANYTHING to get you to change your mind. And I mean ANYTHING. She will act all sweet and sulk and whatnot. No matter what she does or says, you have to see through it. It's all an act.

You have to stand tall and with confidence. She will say all sorts of sweet romantic things. But you can't be fazed. Stand your ground.

You are breaking up with her.

She has no say in it.

You are better than her, she cannot pull you down with her acting.

Trust me.

Do it.

I wish you luck, and all of us will be with you the whole time. You can come back here when you are depressed from the break up, you can talk to us. Don't let her torture you forever - It's going to be all over, and before you know it - you will be free, and smiling.

what he said ^

Yeah, been there, i know how you feel, and i know how shit you're going to feel afterwards.

It's so hard to actually do, but its easy to say, but you Have to walk away.

do it

Just part ways man. Stay friends if you must, but really. Get a grip man.

Honestly, even reading that shit filled me with blinding rage. I've dated a couple of genuine fuckwits, and never before have I been party to such clear and outright contempt.

Fuck that shit. Free Reign!

quote:Originally posted by ReigN:

I know I should break up with her but it's is so fucking incredibly hard. Last time I almost did I told her I wasn't going to. I made up some shitty excuse of why I was acting like it's over

damnit

The reason shes playing with you is because you're so needy.. Proven by the fact you're actually putting up with this. End the relationship.

end it shes manipulating you

Dump her and find someone who actually loves you.