OK TOTSE, I'M BACK FOR MORE ADVICE!

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Mk, so after my ordeal with my parents being ridiculous, i learn my ex gf is off with some 20 year old college prick, so i lose all sense of remorse. she goes out and drinks with him, it's funny as shit when she tells me about it, cause after she's like, "omg he's so great" she immediately turns to the "*sigh* i miss you." this occurs for weeks so i finally tell her to leave me alone.

I've been hanging with a good friend of mine, whose had her share of tough travels

2 years ago, we dated, she loved it for the first 2 weeks, then got pressured out of it by "peers", 1 year later she's dating some ass who just uses her, so she runs to me for comfort and we hung out alot ever since the end of last school year (may06) She's gone most of the summer when the shit with my ex hit the fan, but when she came back we hung out alot, i eventually realized why i fell for her in the first place, worked up the balls and told her what's goin on in my head. Turns out i was an idiot and the boat got to port about a month earlier, but i didn't miss it :P We're dating for about a week now, and it's fantastic.

My ex is pissed and is proding through my life and everyone i know for whatever she can find about it. But what i'm alil confused about, is how close i already seem to be with my current gf. (background inc, she was susceptable to peer pressure, something to do with her parenting imo, so she pretended to be the preppy shit and all that, but was really in to techno, art, vampires, things like that, so she just started letting that on in the past year) I just feel like i've known her forever. She's admitted she's been attracted to me for a long time, and started falling for me a long time ago, and admittidly she's quite attractive. We're both very open, i can tell she's probably ready for just about anything with me, sex maybe wait a month or two but yea, this is just starting off where we cuddle like we're an old married couple, very comfortable with each other, very open, it's just amazing, but it feels like it's too soon in the relationship to be this comfortable?

Is it just a natural reaction? or perhaps i'm just being dilusional

If you both feel completely comfortable doing those kinds of things, then you shouldn't even be asking.

Just go with your current girl friend, and kick your ex out of your life. It'll be healthier for you. Trust me, its happend to me before too.



[Kaz]

nono my ex is long gone, i keep as much distance as possible. It's just the reason i'm asking is it seems alittle odd to me that i can be so comfortable with someone so easily, don't get me wrong, i love it, it's amazing, i just want to uncover what the make-up of all this is (analyze the situation if you will, for the psychologist in me)