Hey Totse!

How do you guys get your partners to try new things? Obviously, communication is extremely important but in my case, she seems too shy. You see, we were both virgins when we had intercourse for the first time and I am her first boyfriend. - We've been going out for 6 months and I've always been extremely happy, it's just that she has always been on the "shy" side. Keep in mind I'm not complaining here, I'm simply asking for advice. I always have to initiate the foreplay or sex - it seems that I have too much control. :P

For example: I usually begin by giving her oral and once she is satisfied she wants me to take control have actual intercourse.

I know she has a very kinky side to her but I guess I just have to give her time -all I want is to try new stuff!

Well, thanks in advance, João

Yeah, perhaps she's just a very dependant person. If so, she will always rely on you to make the first move with everything. So, that explains why you're always having to initiate stuff.

But as for trying new things, I dont know how that one works as yous both seem pretty comfortable with eachother, keep in mind that there is always room for improvement. Get even more closer to her, emotionally and get her to be even more comfortable with you.

In all seriousness, a bit of alcohol helps.