If you are a female and you masturbate (not on a regular basis necessarily) why do people tend to look down on you? Guys are so open about it so why can't girls be?

Why do you talk to people about it?

It's just one of those bodily functions that everybody does, but they don't like to acknowledge it.:P

idk, no one ever seems against it.

the guys of totse never degrade it at least...

actually, the only people who seem to be against it are girls who don't masturbate. and i don't care what they say, they don't know what they are missin.

Oh they masturbate just like everyone else. They're just lying about it!

Well I don't talk to them about it... well not using myself... like when I am talking to a girl and the subject comes up then they are like, "uh that is so wrong. why would anybody ever do that?" so I just sit there and say nothing

So are your friends like 12?

I agree with Oral Fixation... The only people who seem to be dead set against it are the ones who don't do it/have never done it.

It's not a bad thing by any means. Everyone [pretty much] really does do it, and maybe it's not something everyone talks about openly but that doesn't make it bad at all.

[This message has been edited by Cinquain (edited 09-18-2006).]

No... quite a bit older than that.. but they just spazz at the topic.. it's not like their boyfriends haven't did it to them so i really don't see the big deal.. but guys are pleased when they find out you do...i just don't get it..

WTF? I've strongly encouraged regularly-scheduled masturbation among all my girlfriends. I don't see why your woman having an appetite would be a bad thing...

I always lie when my husband asks if I've done it that day...But that's only so he'll feel for himself to see if I have.:P

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

I always lie when my husband asks if I've done it that day...But that's only so he'll feel for himself to see if I have.:P

Just curious - How exactly can he tell if you've masturbated that day?

Well he pushes me down on the bed and shoves his hand into my panties to see if I'm engorged and wet down there. What he doesn't know, though, is that knowing he's going to do that gets me all hot, so I feel engorged and wet whether I've done it that day or not!:P

quote:Originally posted by Cinquain:

Just curious - How exactly can he tell if you've masturbated that day?

It's an excuse for him to put his hand down her pants is what it's really for man, can't you figure that out!

quote:Originally posted by Cloaked Dagger:

Originally posted by Cinquain:

Just curious - How exactly can he tell if you've masturbated that day?

It's an excuse for him to put his hand down her pants is what it's really for man, can't you figure that out!

Correct, indeed. Xiao owns this thread.

As the resident Teen, I will be the first to tell you adults, all my friends including I are border chronic, but all my friends including I deny it. How do I know they do? because no one likes to google ashley simpson on thier search engines history that much for her singing

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

Well he pushes me down on the bed and shoves his hand into my panties to see if I'm engorged and wet down there. What he doesn't know, though, is that knowing he's going to do that gets me all hot, so I feel engorged and wet whether I've done it that day or not!:P



Xiao ur posts/threads rock

XIAO OWNZ THIZ THREAD

Xiao...at the risk of damning your soul even further why not take that a step further? If you both enjoy it when he checks you then make it a bit more dominating. Get him to 'order' you to show yourself to him or next time he asks if you have pleasured yourself then you bend over that bed, pull you dress up and say ' my master should check for himself'.

I bet you he will have an 'prospect of getting some EAS' type A1 hard on after that!

girls i know arnt looked down on it, they talk about it just as much as guys, and guys and girls have converstations about it all the time

I don't see the problem with girls mastubating.

It's a beautiful thing.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Xiao...at the risk of damning your soul even further why not take that a step further? If you both enjoy it when he checks you then make it a bit more dominating. Get him to 'order' you to show yourself to him or next time he asks if you have pleasured yourself then you bend over that bed, pull you dress up and say ' my master should check for himself'.

I bet you he will have an 'prospect of getting some EAS' type A1 hard on after that!



He does like to be all dominating...

Hey, Xiao Mei, what does your username mean? Is it supposed to be inspired by a RL actress or is it something you just made up or something? Or is it just a pretty Chinese nameyou like?

When I was pregnant my husband was studying to be a chinese linguist. "Xiao Mei" is what we called her when she was a fetus.

quote:Originally posted by I Want Revenge:

If you are a female and you masturbate (not on a regular basis necessarily) why do people tend to look down on you? Guys are so open about it so why can't girls be?

Shit no, bitch. I am a girly thing and tend to masturbate on a regular basis.

What's more, and you can ask my friends, I like to overshare. I talk about it, with girls, with mixed company. It's fun because the females get grossed out(if they're straight, and they usually are because I just don't have that kind of luck) and the males get extrodinarly excited and typically see me as somewhat masculine from then on.

And I'd rather get treated like a guy than a girl on most occasions.

Like here...was stretching the page (http://tinyurl.com/pg7qt)(Jack)

So I masturbate and own up to it because it's fun and holeeee shit I've thrown myself off the bed before I was cumming so hard.

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 09-18-2006).]